A few minutes ago I just saw him for lunch at work. We were talking about him driving around all night. I had a chance to read your answer and I took a lot of your advice. One girl said you no your man better then we do. And she was right. He has never did this before. This is not his norm. And when he doe's go out with the guy's he always calls me 3 to 4 times and when he's on his way back home. I just don't get way out of the blue sky he would tell me some crazy story like that. Would you guys still think he cheated on me or was he really thinking and was really just driving around? And those who said check the gas mater I did it's on full and the miles the last time I remember last week was 96 + miles and now it's on 98 + miles. I don't know want to think. My last relaytionship (husband) it was his norm to come in the morning or days later. I no he was cheating, all the time. But my guy now it's not normal for him to stay gone like that. advice please
2006-12-14 10:04:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Still sounds off. Something is just not right. Be careful proceed with caution. I would still check his atm, bank account, credit card whatever cause if he did drive around there would be gas receipts. Does he have spare cash to throw down the tubes with the gas prices? That right there is a clue.
Be alert and don't dismiss this stuff too easily. You and your kids don't want to go through this again sweetheart.
2006-12-14 22:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only answer I can give you, hon, is that if my man were acting anywhere like you describe this one is, I would seriously be asking myself if he WAS "my man" Check the gas meter? what's that going to tell you. Anybody can stop at a filling station and top up on the way home. Why would any perfectly "normal" happily married guy who loves his wife, stay out all night just "driving around"? The guy who tells his wife that, in my opinion, is a guy who thinks his wife is dumb enough to just believe him. I sure don't.
2006-12-14 18:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by sharmel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I missed the first part of your question but it sounds like your guy was out all night without calling you and this is really unlike him... The only advice I have is to try and be there for him, if he claims he was driving around all night he may be doing some heavy thinking
2006-12-14 18:12:51 · answer #3 · answered by Tracy G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't read the first one but here are my thoughts, I think something is very suspect here. I would be very suspicious if my husband all of a sudden told me he was out driving around, and the odometer was pretty much the same.....very weird. I think something is definitely up, I am not sure about cheating, but I would say "yes he was up to something"
2006-12-14 18:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl what kind of fools are you with? Get some self esteem and leave these clowns alone. You dont need the stress. You're running around playing inspector gadget while he's making a fool out of you. Dont be the same fool twice.
2006-12-14 18:14:53 · answer #5 · answered by daprty1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should disappear yourself for a while and see how he likes it. Don't call him or tell him where you are. Rent a hotel room and stay the night there. It's nice to get away anyway. Let him wonder and worry. It works like magic. Guys straighten up quick when the shoe is on the other foot.
2006-12-14 18:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by Chula 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I agree with the second gal
2006-12-14 18:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you shuld trust him til you get proof he is cheating...
2006-12-14 18:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by Promise 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋