I really like this guy. And all the signs says he really likes me. he even hinted at it.
Then a week or so ago some other girl came out of nowhere and now things are awkward between us. How do I tell him that i really like him and want ot go out with him.
Without seeming clingy and risking the chance of seeming desperate
2006-12-14 09:34:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope they aren't going out
2006-12-14 09:42:38 · update #1
try asking him out?
2006-12-14 09:35:27 · answer #1 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you misinterpreted the “hints” as something more than what they were. Could it be he was just being playful or friendly? Then again, he could be interested in you and is, for whatever reason, unable to approach you. Is this rival a girlfriend or a friend? You just infer upon these things first. If all else fails, then why not just ask him flat out what their relationship is as well as your own.
2006-12-14 17:38:20 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that honesty is truely the best policy. If you tell him how you feel, and he rejects you, then you don't want him anyway. Maybe he doesn't know how you feel, and because you haven't said anything, he thinks you don't like him the same way he likes you. I you do say something and he walks away, then you will know how he feels and you can move on. Find someone that cares for you as much as you care for them, otherwise it won't work between you two.
2006-12-14 17:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by nrthbubba3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, talk to his friend and ask him if the guy you like, likes you. If he does, you should take a chance and ask him out. If he doesnt, then try to make him like you but try not to sound or act like you are in love with him or something.
2006-12-14 17:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by Cutie94 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u have to go wit ur gut if u ever have doubt that means no not right now and if another girls in the picture and hes paying more attention to her u got 2 options tell him how u feel cuz he mite think ur not interested in him so hes seeking this other girls attention or he wants both of u and cant decide
2006-12-14 17:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by mrs motorcross 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the first answer.
Trying to ask him out is basically all you can do right now.
It would have been better to ask him out while things were still good between you two.
But looks alittle late now....
All you can do is risk it.
And see what he says.
Who knows....he's prob. just to shy to say any thing. and he prob. likes you just as much as you like him.
Just go for it. and see what happens.
2006-12-14 17:37:33 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you get him when he is alone, and ask him out on a date.
Make sure you plan it so you have at least 4 hours to yourselves. That will give you time to chat and make sure (or find out) you are both into each other.
2006-12-14 17:37:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anna K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well are him and the girl that come from "out of nowhere" going out? does he still act like he likes you? girl i suggest you tell him soon. you dont want to loose this chance. ask him out if you must.
2006-12-14 17:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by Amber 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's war between you and her. Tell him you want him, directly, but not like a stalker. Then whisper some teasing words in his ear, walk away, and say, "The choice is yours."
2006-12-14 17:37:11 · answer #9 · answered by rawlings12345 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you two guys go out to dinner talk and ask him if he has a significant other! if he says no well then you in... if he doesnt then you should know how to work him... say and do what he likes best! but ay teh same time you have to be yourself...
2006-12-14 17:40:36 · answer #10 · answered by HoOtEr 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are seeming to be desparate. All you can do is to make yourself available and allow him to decide. it's just how things area nd it hurts to be rejected. that's ok he's not the one for you - move on.. If he's chosen her then you have to allow him to make that choice. It's hard. sorry
2006-12-14 17:37:10 · answer #11 · answered by on_the_move4ever 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋