I just texted a guy i'm friends with saying I need to talk to him. O.K. he's a little more than just a friend, just not really sure what it is yet. He texted me back that now is not a good time. I know hes had some illnesses in his family lately. I texted back and said it was ok. just when he had a chance and I hoped he was ok. I don't think I should take any of it personally. Should I?
2006-12-14 09:40:21 · 17 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you should take it personally. He had the decency to write you back to tell you write now was not good. If he becomes unavailable more often, you might be concerned, but just make sure his family is okay before you drive yourself crazy. I would say you should be concerned when he doesn't write you back. Good luck and I hope this helps.
2006-12-14 09:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Don't take it personally! Give the guy a break. He only said that it wasn't a good time, that's means try to catch him later. Toughen up chick!
2006-12-14 17:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by CTargrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you take it personally because he has family illness and can't talk to you right this moment?? Are you crazy? No way!
2006-12-14 17:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take what personally? He just said now wasn't a good time. For all you know, he's on the toilet.
2006-12-14 17:49:57 · answer #4 · answered by #1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't take that personally - it sounds like he was busy or something - nothing personal wrong at all - sounds like you jump to conclusions a lot..
which is exactly what you did here. why? give the guy a break.
2006-12-14 17:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by on_the_move4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you know there are family problems right now, he's probably dealing with that... just give it time.
2006-12-14 17:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he said not now meaning later
2006-12-14 17:45:28 · answer #7 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-14 17:43:30 · answer #8 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No maybe he was just busy. You think to much!
2006-12-14 17:44:43 · answer #9 · answered by ((♥)) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. family issues always come first. i honestly wouldn't bother him with any issues that are not life and death.
2006-12-14 17:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by orangezx2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋