And he always says he loves me I know it is true and he would never do anything to hurt me. Do you think he is really interested in my life or is he trying to control my life? Do all man wants to know everything about their woman?
2006-12-14 09:43:27 · 20 answers · asked by CHICK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When we first meet all we ever do was making out..and I felt we should talk sometimes..so now he asks too many questions..and wants to know how I grew up..to why am I friend with ....and he asks in the middle of his previous question..and I can’t keep up with what I need to answer.
2006-12-14 09:58:31 · update #1
Dump him before you have a life of sheer misery. Yes, he does want to control you and every bit of info he learns about you, he'll use as ammunition against you. He'll do that to manipulate you, to have something on you when he wants to use it, I've seen it before many times. Get out of the relationship now and find someone that can love you as you are and only want to know certain things in order to know you better! And obviously, not all men want to do things like that to the woman they fall in love with!
2006-12-14 09:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all depends on this---Does he ask casually or does he drill you like--SO where did you go for lunch-who did you go with --what did you talk about--Or when you get a letter or other mail he has to know who's who and whats what and gets upset when he cant see--But if he just wants to know in general stuff like did you have a good day that's good --the thing you need to watch out for is this if he is so nosy now what do you think will happen if you get married and he thinks he owns you?? It happens all the time and then sometimes it gets abusive--so think carefully about just what he is asking and how --and if he is satisfied by your responses or does he dig for more---Some men are just concerned that you are happy ---
2006-12-14 09:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wanting to know ur 'every little' detail is a bit odd. But then again, it depends on his personality. May be it is his way of being in love with u and wanting to know more about u. If it bothers u, tell him that u like having some space and freedom.
But if he forces u to follow his decissions on ur life, then he definitely is controlling.
2006-12-14 09:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by arwa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he is insecure and has been burned by a woman before. Try to be patient and not combative with him. If it bothers you, and you feel as though your privacy has been invaded, give him the "Cliff's Notes" version of whatever he is asking.
2006-12-14 09:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by stargirllll4311 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a control freak u should have your own private thoughts those are yours and not to share with a boyfriend
2006-12-14 09:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, this is actually normal in relationships, ( strong ones at that) my boyfriend and I try not to keep anything from eachother. this is very important within your relationship too. secrets are not good, and never will be good. honesty is important, beleive me my relationship is still going strong and its because we understand these important factors....Love is love, patience, honesty, faith, trust, commitment, and with the lord all the time! God Bless.
2006-12-14 09:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by old 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
motives are hard to discern sometimes.
how do you know he's controlling? well does h e just come along side you and let you make your own decisions or does he try to make your decisions for you or does he set an ulitmatum on what you are to do or not do, or does he throw it in your face. If he allows you to be you, or to make your own decisions he is not controlling but if he's trying to do it for you or throwijng it in your face he is controlling and he doesn't love you
2006-12-14 09:47:00 · answer #7 · answered by on_the_move4ever 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its very important if it going to last but thats just my opinion he ma be trying to control you but a little control is always going to go both ways he'll wanna go drinking with his friends and you'll say no and u'll wanna have a girls night out n he might say no to that its when control overtakes your whole realtionship is when you gotta worry about it.
2006-12-14 09:46:35 · answer #8 · answered by Mike H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband never ask really what I am doing because he trusts me...perhaps your guy does not trust you. Or, he could be really interested in your life because you do interesting things
2006-12-14 09:46:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a control freak and insecure. It just gets worse with age.
2006-12-14 09:47:07 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋