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Question

this is the she's about 23 year old and so am i. t fist- it was because i felt really attracted to him but- now that i've gottten to knwo him- he grosses me out. Hie's married with 2 kids and i have a 4 year relationship with my bf who i'm bored with now. At first i was in it for the thrill and fun of a new guy but nwo- i'm just really turned off by my boss. The first time we did it- it was ok and i felt guilty after because my bf's wierner and sex is better than the boss. Also- his wienier smells really bad since he's not circumsized. But- now that i don't to have anything to do with it or him- he won't leave me alone he wants to "play with me" whenever he wants to and touches me when i don't want him to. What should i do? When he's mad at me for not letting him do things to me he uses it agianst me and pays me less hours our my pay check. what can i do about this? can i tell his dad? the owner? what shouldi do to make him stop i don't want him anymore but he insists in having sex

to begin the question- i wanted to let you guys know that my boss & I mess around together & he's 23 & so am I but- i don't want to anymore- what should i do? he harrasses me and i want it to stop.

Answer 1

I'm sorry, you lost me way back at the beginning of the first sentence.

I don't need the gift card enough that I'm willing to torture myself trying to decipher that garbled piece of prose.

Answer 2

If he harrasses you, it doesn't make a difference if you had a previous relationship or not. If the is physically touching or verbally harrassing you in a sexual manner, you can seek legal action and get a restraining order. This would involve you quitting your current job, of course. However, you did make the mistake of having a relationship with your boss which can only lead to bad things..but obviously he is taking it personally since you have ended it. I think you should also dump your bf..because you have lost interest in him and cheated on him. I think you should avoid any relationships at this time.

Start your life over and don't let sexual excitement ruin your life again. If you want to avoid all the legal action, just start searching for a new job and quit your current one. You don't need the stress and obviously he probably won't give you a good reference now.

Answer 3

Of course tell his dad. When in a situation like this, it's always best to go to the person who holds a position of authority. Regardless of what you have done in the past, docking your pay for you refusing him sex is illegal. He has obviously been using you. Stop letting him walk all over you and go to his boss. Perhaps let him know that you intend to do this if he does not stop. If you get the feeling that he may fire you on the spot, don't warn him first and just go over his head. Just be aware that your working situation will probably not be any more comfortable once you've ratted him out, but at least you won't have to be his payrolled whore anymore.

Answer 4

first off: never EVER have sex w/ your boss. or any other relationship. the only thing to really do tho make everything right is to tell him you HAD feelings, but you don't anymore. or you can just lie and be like "Look mr. smith, i was going through a rough patch w/ my loving bf and i just needed the support nd love of another man" or something along those lines. and if he doesnt stop, tell the owner or his dad. specially if hes docking your pay and blackmailing you.

if he STILL doesnt stop, quit your job or just slap him and put him in your place. he sounds pretty nasty so you could just ignore him too.

Answer 5

Well since you have already made the "mistake" of sleeping with him, all you can do is either get a new job or ignore him. He will get the hint eventually. If not have one of your friends call his wife and tell her not exactly that you two slept together but that he might be thinking of cheating on her. That should stop him from bugging you. If he fires you, you can always sue him for sexual harrassment. Good luck.

Answer 6

if you tell the boss you may get fired but you wouldn't want to qiut your job either so i'd say look around for a new job and put up with this guy tell u find one, then tell his father so he's busted too. If your fired you still have another job. While your job searching you can also be man searching since your bored with your bf.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

It's called "sexual harrassment" from a legal standpoint, you might have a real case. However, since you were interested in him at first, he can always say it was mutual....You already know the answer to this, you need to get another job! I would report him, however, after the new positon was secured. He sounds like a jerk and a molester.

Answer 9

Tell him straight our that this was a mistake and that you need him to stop tell him that he has a wife and kids and that this is not worth him losing his wife and kids over. Tell him that it is best to let it go that some saw him making pass at you and asked you about it, if he insists on you telling him who it was, tell him that it was a note and that you threw it away. ( a little lie) is okay.

Answer 10

well hes harassing you and that's not called for in the work enviorment. You are going to have to tell your boss that one of your co-workers/managers is harassing you.. I understand that its his dad.. but he shouldn't dock your pay or your schedule just cause you wont have sex with him anymore.. You can sue the company or him for that.