alright, this might be a little complicated, but its very important. i desperately need some *GOOD* advice!!!!

Question

ok here's the deal:

a couple years ago @ summer camp, i met this guy. he was perfect and sweet and adorable etc. etc. we were voted cutest couple and everything. it was the best summer of my LIFE.

so last summer was the first summer at camp w/o him, and i realized how much i srsly missed him. everyday i thought about him and the previous summer. then he came to visit for a night and it was amazing. it was like nothing ever changed, like he'd always been there. it wasn't awkward or stupid, just PERFECT.

and a couple months ago, i realized that im in love with him. im truly seriously unbelievably in love with him. he lives about 4 hrs away from me, in another state, and i havnt seen him since about july, and i havnt talked to him since sept.

SHOULD I TELL HIM HOW I FEEL?
cause its true love. i dont think ive ever felt this way about anyone before...
well?
tell or dont tell?

srsly = seriously
tht = that.

for all of you who didnt know!

thanks for such a positive response so far!

Answer 1

Don't just blurt out, "OH, I LOVE YOU AND CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT YOU". He'll might get spooked and hide.

How about trying to contact him more regularly. In this modern age of cell phones, see if you are using the same carrier. Many times, you can have unlimited calls to phones on the same carrier (like Cingular). Or you could keep in tough via email or IM. Ask him open questions about where he sees himself in a few years. His answers might show you how he feels. But be subtle. If you ever get married, you can show him this and tell him that you were in love with him from the get-go.

Answer 2

Of course. Write him a letter. Wait two weeks and if no response call. If at that time he does not express the same feelings for you, state clearly" well, you know how I feel, I was hoping you felt the same way" if no positive response, politly get off phone and forget him. Don't be afraid to tell people in the world how you feel. If you were hungry you would tell your parents that you were. If they loved you they would cook you a burger. If not O.K. There is someone else out there for you. Do you realize how many people are walking around looking for someone they can trust, and love. Don't waste time. You only have one life. And always remember, Everythings gonna be alright. If you are honest and true to yourself you will be O.K. in the long run.

Answer 3

Advice here the answer is Yes. If you don't tell him he can't read your mind and he will never knwo how you feel. This is the 20th century ok. Tell him you love him cause you will feel much better knowing you told him your true feelings. I have always been honest and open with every guy i have been with in a dating relationship and an almost married relationship. it is hard but you need to say it to him in a letter or a phone call.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

well a lot of people will quote " would you rather tell someone and lose them, OR never tell them and see them love someone else" this is tottally up to you, I personally would tell, for a few reasons, one of those reasons would be that nothing can happen bwt you two if you dont tell and he doesnt know. however, you also need to be prepared to an anwer or statement that you may not be ready to hear. I believe that you should not ask a question that you are not ready to hear the answer too

Answer 6

Tell him If I liked a women that much i would tell her
he just might be the 1 for you and from the way you are talking i dont think you wanna loose him and you said its only 4 hours
away go for it

Answer 7

You haven't talked to him since September and you're going to call him up out of the blue and tell him you love him?
May I suggest you ease into this gradually, you may scare the crap out of him! Start out first by calling him from time to time, planning more get-togethers, then express your feelings when the time is right.

Answer 8

You need to start by talking with him on the phone. I would say hold off on your feelings cause you might creep him out.. but I would say if you could start talking and writting each other, and see where his feeling lye.. That way you are not jumping and you know where you stand in his eyes.

Answer 9

OF COURSE, GIRL! go for it! true love's real totally! my boyfriend lives 2 hrs away, we haven't seen each other since august, and we aren't able to talk very much b/c of being busy. but i love him so much! we've been together now for almost a year and a half! i can't wait to see him again! i'm always hot for him! good luck!

Answer 10

Well, are you sure he feels the same way, and doesn't just think that you two are good friends? I mean, if you throw yourself at him like that, you come across as extremely vulnerable and you'll scare him away. I suggest that you test the waters first.
Good luck!