Family & Relationships - 14 December 2006

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2006-12-14 08:52:57 · 8 answers · asked by MRSz_D0PENESSz 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 08:52:35 · 19 answers · asked by Baby Jessica 2 in Singles & Dating

i need help!
there is this really cute boy i like but im in 6 and hes in 5 and he never see's me or notices me! i really want him but he is going out with sum1 and i dont think he will ever go out with me!
pleeeeeeeeeeeeeease help!

2006-12-14 08:52:34 · 7 answers · asked by omg_juliex33 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay I had Fancy's 3 years a go.... we used to be in love for same reasons. we get in fight and he just lift .. I didn't herd nothing from that time.. anyhow I meet him somewhere in the mall... I didn't not believe my self ..he ask me for my #.. a week th next day he calls me.. he asked to see me..I said okay then we went out..to a nice restaurant... I asked he why did u go" hes said I don't know I wasn't ready to be a husband that time..I said.. so now u think u r.. he said yeah. I Said its too late"" he was like WHY ARE U MARRIED NOW'' I said No... but I'm not the same person u know'' he said whatever u r I still love u... I never forget about u.. I want to tell u that I was sorry ... IAm want to apologize to u and to Ur family... maby we meet again because we meant to be together.... we lift from the restaurant...I was parked my car too far .. so ask to drive me to my car... I get to his car... he was looking at me.. he said u look beautiful.... I said thank u... he touch my hair and kissed me... GOD I felt like IAM back with him ... I get lost in one minutes... then I asked him why did u do that he said ... I don't know ... ma by be because I loved u..... I said its never ganna be the same.. he said... we will see...anyways I told my mom that I meet him and staff...she was so happy... the problem is ... I tough I get over him,,, but it seems like I still love him... he was my first love... I m seeing someone now.. but I don't fell the something ......my family loves my ex.... and my mom encourage me to get back with him.....by the way IAM 21 now and his 25...he look more mature and batter job and nice car.... but I fell like my hear and my bady want him back... but I don't know what to do...

2006-12-14 08:51:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-12-14 08:51:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 08:48:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex and I still act like were together but he says we cant be together right now and to wait 4 him till he straightens some things out in his life... i love him alot but i dont know what to do.. should i wait 4 him???

2006-12-14 08:48:50 · 11 answers · asked by krzy_me 2 in Singles & Dating

How would rate the following qualities when you choose your husband: 1. Education 2. Job, 3. financial status. 4. Looks 5. Sex - Quality and quantity. 6. His ability to be a good and responsible friend and companion to you.

List them in order and say why

2006-12-14 08:48:45 · 17 answers · asked by kenneth h 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Be honest cause I really don't care what you all think perse', just curious...

2006-12-14 08:48:27 · 26 answers · asked by Nobody 2 in Singles & Dating

A friend is in trouble with his fiance b/c he didn't talk to her much during a long car six hour car ride. It's not that he was upset with her or didn't want to talk to her. He just wasn't feeling chatty and so he wasn't very conversive. I guess his fiance was upset at not having much conversation and she sorta blew up after the trip was over. What was so wrong with not saying much during the car ride? I'm a guy, so a long quiet car ride is not a big deal to me.

2006-12-14 08:47:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He asked her out today, and i can't do anything but cry!!!!

2006-12-14 08:46:38 · 18 answers · asked by Bob the Cat.™ 4 in Singles & Dating

More additional information about the person moving out of state that owe me money , several answer but failed to tell you this is not were I lent her money , no way, I knew for surre kiss it good bye, I worked for her taking care of her horses doing her yard work, for extra money that I was never paid =, any new answers with the additional information, small claims court, won't work, she is leaving long before any court date could be appointed.

2006-12-14 08:46:33 · 2 answers · asked by CJ 2 in Friends

My husband out of the blue says he is done with me. He says I love you but I cant stand you. We have a 4 year old daughter and he is giving me money for her. He has figured out where he is gonna stay but has not moved out yet. I moved out so that he can have his space but he will not talk to me. He says he cant give me what I want that he has to work to 2 jobs and that there is just no time. Just one week before that he kept saying keep the faith and keep believing that things will work out, I love you and I love my girls meaning me and my daughter but out of nowhere this. I asked if he wants a divorce and he says yes and lives it like that. I told him if he wants it he should go get it because I dont want it to end, and he says he knows. So now what its been 9 years together holding on to each other and loving each other, the connection we had and out of the blue this is it.....Could he come back to me?

2006-12-14 08:46:28 · 24 answers · asked by dummy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 14 years old and i am in High School. i am brand new to the highschool and i haven't relaly ade many frineds yets. i ahve two good friends but that's nto enough for me. how can i make more frieds wihtout seeming desperate adn ten everybody hating me??? everybody already ahs thier frineds it's like they are a part of some inside joke and im not in on it

2006-12-14 08:46:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

howabout this...my boyfriend has been dropping hints about how he can see us married..he already asked me to marry him "unofficially" but said he wanted another chance to do it right...and ive been with him about a year and we knew eachother long before....we will be living together sometime in february and my birthday is next month and he said he was going to surprise me...majorly...his mom and i are close and she said that my birthday would be special and i might cry. okay..now ive had too many hints and i dont know what to think..we've talked about how serious we were and how we both didnt want to be married until our mid twenties.. i love him and he is the best thing that has ever happened to me...but ive got a few more years..need to finish college first!does anyone out there know what is going on>?

2006-12-14 08:46:09 · 18 answers · asked by tigerlilly 2 in Weddings

Can you kill your mom or dad by not loving them?I mean never kissing, hugging/touching them and always saying you hate them and telling them to drop dead almost every day?My friend does this to her parents and she does it to her dad.He is our college physics teacher. We are both in the same class.She does it to him all the time and he used to be soo cheerful and playful. But my friend (his daughter) called him a geek in class. One day she told him to drop dead in lab & was only trying to help her set up an experiment .That day I almost cried because he was so shocked and hurt and went into his office and sat there with his head in his hands. It was SO SAD.
Maybe it isnt my business but he is my teacher and I do love him (as a human and friend). I've known him all my life and he is friends with my parents. His daughter is my best friend since we were 3 years old.But she is going to kill her father by means of shear meanness to him. What should I say to make him believe she loves him?

2006-12-14 08:45:58 · 6 answers · asked by evillon7 1 in Family

OK, I have done the naughty nurse/doctor, the teacher/student, the french maid/rich man, and even the prison guard/inmate.
Is there anything out there I am forgetting?

2006-12-14 08:45:08 · 15 answers · asked by soduh72 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex bf called me last night 3 times, and we always talk alot on the bus and last night he called and acted like it was one of my friends then he said ya its me, he said do u like me i said kinda and he said oh, and he asked what i've been doing and asking why was i running around with some boy at school, and then he said do u think i like u i said no and i dont care he said your pretty cool for a friend, then later he asked me if i liked him again and i said ya and he said do u think i like u i said no and he said how do u know that and i saide cause u always tell me u dont he said well maybe im telling you that to make u mad, then i told him i had to go and to call me later and he did, + called me again so that makes it 3 times... DOES HE LIKE ME?? and at school everyday he mostly looks at me or shows off but always says he doesent like me.. YES OR NO

2006-12-14 08:44:56 · 13 answers · asked by Tonya Sizemore 2 in Singles & Dating

isnt that scary . my collage proffesor said to me the other day that he loved me . got me thinking ... what about the awsome grades , were they just a lie. or was i really a wiz at writing papers. i graduated collage for a year now. i always see my ex-teacher in a coffee shop in the morning. yikes . i just looked at him and said i gotta go. he was the nicest ever . and still is. did he just wait untill i was done? or what ?

2006-12-14 08:44:25 · 23 answers · asked by jack jack 7 in Singles & Dating

I am white and my husband is black. We have a beautiful lil boy that is 15 months old and the light of our lifes. Everyone always tells us how cute he is and that he should be in commercials, but some people, mainly other black people, are very rude and even cruel at times tward us or even just him because he is mixed. What can i do to protect my son from these type of ppl.

2006-12-14 08:43:22 · 14 answers · asked by rose_calhoun23 2 in Friends

oK. I had a friend named Nick. We weren't the closest of friends, but what ever. So then this girl Jessica "steals" him away from me!!! I was so mad!!! She really likes him, but so do I. He's really cute and is one year younger that me..........but he's stuipid, i don't know if he even knows what 2+2 is!!!!!! What do i do?!?! I feel like crying, but I won't.

2006-12-14 08:43:07 · 5 answers · asked by spartamonkey14 2 in Friends

He says shes just a friend!Yet she calls all day and even at night,and send text messages to him too constantly,i know he does likewise.Is this true like he says,that they are friends?

2006-12-14 08:42:13 · 7 answers · asked by shygirl78 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 08:42:04 · 14 answers · asked by rusty 3 in Singles & Dating

Dated for 4 years, on a seperation. Ordered through court to get domestic violence classes, what are the chances he will change and stay that way? He hit me in the beginning a lot, then we got a few counsiling sessions, it stopped for a year and a half, he did it again and we are no longer together... Talking about it but not at the moment. Have a 2 year old.... Please give your input.... thanks

2006-12-14 08:41:08 · 83 answers · asked by lilzephyr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was in a relationship two years ago where the girls mother treated me unfairly. (I was invitred to see the circus with her family. Her mother waved to me during the show-of course didn't see that. Her mother took that as me being rude to her. In addition another time I went out to eat with her extended family. They were wishing a cousin farewell because he was going to Iraq. So of course the cousin took center stage. After the dinner the mother told my ex gf that I was rude because I didn't speak that much)The girl and me were compatible...I think. But the tension between her mother and me caused stress on the relationship. She was 25 and her mother imposed a curfew on her because she was dating me and told her that we could only see each other once a week. I hardly believe it but I'm in a similiar situation again with my new girlfriend and my friends keep telling me I should make amends with the parents. I feel a sense of guilt because I now think I could have saved my last relation

2006-12-14 08:41:03 · 7 answers · asked by Brian M 2 in Singles & Dating

wednesday 13/12 i was stopping round my sisters and my mate who is a police officer text me saying her house was gonna be raided by police for stolen goods?
i left on my own free will?

but he told me if i stayed there and they found stolen goods which werent nothing to do with me?would i get arrested for it tho

2006-12-14 08:41:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

there is this guy I ran into 9 months ago,we really clicked that night.I was still bitter about catching my ex of a few years cheating(they r mutual freinds)he listened and understood,he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay,i asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did,i asked himt o put his arm around me,he did til i slept,he mentioned he was nervous about what he was doing for he was breakingthe'guy code',the next morning things were awkward when he left,a mutual freind told me he liked me but was freaked about my ex(who was trying to get me back)I ran into this guy again 2 months laterhe came to me and said"your killing me"my ex ws also there and freaking out that we liked eachother.I sent this guy a text a couple weeks later and he never replied.I saw him again at a party 6 months later,he walked in with another girl,saw me and looked away quick.Why could he not say hello when he saw me?

2006-12-14 08:40:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Her brother is my husband. I find it inappropriate, and ask him not to hold hands with her when I am present. Gross or what!! I would never act like that with my big brother- same age difference. Why don't they see it the same way?! How can I show him its not good?

2006-12-14 08:39:06 · 29 answers · asked by kari 2 in Family

2006-12-14 08:38:33 · 10 answers · asked by y_halouane 1 in Weddings

My Husband and I have been seperated for 3years. He has talked about finalizing this seperation by doing the divorce papers, but has talked and talked and nothing. Now he has moved to another State for at least a year for work and a Change. In the past year we have been intimate and been there for eachother, then he moved. The divorce never got handled. I don't want it, he was the one pushing the issue. But this past year did not realy puch it. He told me he still loves me before he left. Help!!!!!!!!! What is going on in his mind?

2006-12-14 08:38:12 · 34 answers · asked by SWF 1 in Marriage & Divorce