I was in a relationship two years ago where the girls mother treated me unfairly. (I was invitred to see the circus with her family. Her mother waved to me during the show-of course didn't see that. Her mother took that as me being rude to her. In addition another time I went out to eat with her extended family. They were wishing a cousin farewell because he was going to Iraq. So of course the cousin took center stage. After the dinner the mother told my ex gf that I was rude because I didn't speak that much)The girl and me were compatible...I think. But the tension between her mother and me caused stress on the relationship. She was 25 and her mother imposed a curfew on her because she was dating me and told her that we could only see each other once a week. I hardly believe it but I'm in a similiar situation again with my new girlfriend and my friends keep telling me I should make amends with the parents. I feel a sense of guilt because I now think I could have saved my last relation
2006-12-14 08:41:03 · 7 answers · asked by Brian M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow man.... we are in the same exact situation!!!! if my girl is with me she has to be home at 1, and if she is not with me it is 3.... wtf??? I have been with my girl 3 1/2 years and have NEVER and i mean NEVER been invited to anything ( dinner, circus, movie, ball game ) with her family!! it really sucks bad! i just try to be nice everytime and kinda blow the rest of it off because i love her so much and i know that one day she will be out of there and we will be ok... we are 21 and 20 though.... goodluck with it man!
2006-12-14 08:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by smitty4626 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you live across country from your girlfriend's family, you have to be able to get along with them. It doesn't matter if it was your fault or not, her mother is family and isn't going to go away. Find someone who appreciates you and whose family you are compatible with.
2006-12-14 16:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by Roberta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have another girlfriend already I would just move on.
2006-12-14 16:43:15 · answer #3 · answered by SassySister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it over move on
2006-12-14 16:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-12-14 16:43:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax and think about your future
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2006-12-14 16:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by dana brown 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No.
2006-12-14 16:42:08 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋