isnt that scary . my collage proffesor said to me the other day that he loved me . got me thinking ... what about the awsome grades , were they just a lie. or was i really a wiz at writing papers. i graduated collage for a year now. i always see my ex-teacher in a coffee shop in the morning. yikes . i just looked at him and said i gotta go. he was the nicest ever . and still is. did he just wait untill i was done? or what ?
2006-12-14 08:44:25 · 23 answers · asked by jack jack 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you got your degree right? you obviously passed your other classes right? quit pondering on that at least he didnt harrass you as a student, maintained a professional student teacher relationship and now that your a consenting adult finished with school he has declared feelings for you. doesn't sound bad at all.
2006-12-14 08:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
how much age is btw you two..if not alot then maybe it is good thing...do you still have the papers from college, if you do then you can ask another professor to read them and ask what he thinks or if he would have graded you any differently..then you'll know or you can ask a english major's personal opinion about your papers as well..
he prob thought a relationship with a student would be awkward and he didnt want other ppl thinking you were using him to get the grade so he decided to hide his feelings for you until after you graduated....
2006-12-14 16:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by tigerlilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so upset about this? Is he married? If he waited until you were out of college he must have some respect for you. Unless there is a huge age difference or something that you are uncomfortable with. Just go with it and see what happens.
2006-12-14 16:49:21 · answer #3 · answered by lauriep2500 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is this teacher? If it creeps you out that much,tell him you are not interested and that if he continues his advances,you will report him to the Dean and the Police.It sounds like he did try to set you up for after graduation.
2006-12-14 17:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by david b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure that if you told him that you didn't have the same feelings for him he would back off, I would just be honest with him. And if that doesn't work change coffee shops
2006-12-14 16:53:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your best mate of the opposite gender and pretend to be going out with him/her and sit in the coffee shop talking and hanging out like couples do...he might get deceived into thinking that u've gone for someone more your age and give up...
2006-12-14 16:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by ChristopheraX 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel that your paper were that awesome???
At least he waited till you graduated to tell you this....did he ever give you any indication he liked you when you were in his class???
I could just be a crush he has on you
2006-12-14 16:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by isis_nicole 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he waited till you were out of his class so there wouldn't be a conflict with teacher/student.
I suspect you earned your grades.
2006-12-14 16:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he waited till you were out of his class so there wouldn't be a conflict with teacher/student.
i think you probably earned your grades.... tell him your feelings
2006-12-14 16:49:26 · answer #9 · answered by martinezk22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its a young professor than its all right then. if its a old guy then u know u need to start going to a different cofee shop.
2006-12-14 16:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋