oK. I had a friend named Nick. We weren't the closest of friends, but what ever. So then this girl Jessica "steals" him away from me!!! I was so mad!!! She really likes him, but so do I. He's really cute and is one year younger that me..........but he's stuipid, i don't know if he even knows what 2+2 is!!!!!! What do i do?!?! I feel like crying, but I won't.
2006-12-14 08:43:07 · 5 answers · asked by spartamonkey14 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know it must really hurt to have someone you care for so much go for someone else. However, do you really want someone who is so willing to easily drop you? You deserve so much better than that.
Plus, chances are that he'll drop Jessica for the next thing that comes along.
Dealing with the hurt is much easier said than done. Try to distance yourself from the situation and look at realistically. Do you think you really would have been happy with him knowing what you know now.
There will be the right guy who comes along and realizes what he has in you. In the meantime, try to realize what a prize you are and don't settle for anyone like Nick.
2006-12-14 08:48:22 · answer #1 · answered by teel2624 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I know how you feel because the same thing happen to me. Just tell them that you want to be a friend, but if you are friends they don't know anymore, in my case they got mad at me because I told them what I thought of her boyfriend then she told me to F off. I found someone else, if he is stupid more in likely if yall ever do make it more then friends he probably can't take care of you like someone else would but thats my oppinion, just follow your heart and remember things happen for a reason.
Don't cry over it let your emotions out because if you don't you'll get sick over it. trust me
2006-12-14 16:49:36 · answer #2 · answered by eclipsefreak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let's see you have this boy....your not the closest of friends...maybe haven't even dated yet. He is so stupid you can't stand it but this other girl is interested in him.
Now this cute stupid boy you hardly know has been stolen from you by this other girl. Does he know he was stolen? Does he have any idea that you don't mind that he is stupid and want to be his girl friend?
Hmmmmmmmm. Guess you have some questions to ask of yourself before you blame her......right.
2006-12-14 16:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by John B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's HIS fault. If he follows her, he is a jerk and doesn't deserve a fine girl like you. Just move on there are better guys out there. Also cry, it is the best thing you can do.
2006-12-14 16:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on,what do you want with a dummy
2006-12-14 16:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by boozer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋