2006-12-14 08:48:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, not unless it is something basic like improving your manners. Don't ever change who you are - like how you like to dress or like to wear your hair, that kind of thing. Be true to yourself and you will meet someone someday who will fall in love with THAT person!
2006-12-14 08:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by leahcutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person's basic character can never be changed unless his concsience feels so.
And yes people do things to please the person they like. It cannot be considered as a change. It is just a part of u; that u have yet to discover.
Just be urself; dont try to act or anything. Just be true and honest to ur heart.
2006-12-14 16:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by jax_jax_jax_jax_jax 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't change yourself as such but there are some thing in a relationship that you may need to comprimise on.
Depends what you are talking about...
eg if you are a naturally flirty person, who flirts with anything on legs, then your partner will have to get used to it as it makes you who you are.
however if you have to masturbate 7 times a day ..you might have to think again and comprimise.
2006-12-14 16:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by sxiecat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. Eventually you'd get tired of the act and the old you will begin to show. Remain true to yourself. If they can't accept you, move on. I just think life is toooo short to be jumping through hoops for other people. When I meet someone, I'm open to new experiences. However, if after trying new adventures, I move on if the experience wasn't positive.
2006-12-14 16:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mike's Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. never change yourself for someone unless you are compromising. other than that i would say no. if the person liked you then they should like you for who you are and not what they thought they could change you into being...be yourself and no matter what the person may get you to think, your individual and special in a unique way and someday you will find someone who will appreciate that.!
2006-12-14 16:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by tigerlilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, the whole point of loving someone is by liking them the way they are, if you are doing that then the person really hasn't seen the reall you and there's no beauty coming from that. There is no reall love if you have to change for someone if someone doesn't like you the way you then there;s always someone better out there that will like you the way you are.
2006-12-14 16:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by Lilmamasita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No unless it is just some really bad issues. Once you change one thing they will always want you to change another.
2006-12-14 16:51:08 · answer #7 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. Changing yourself for someone else will only lead you down a dark path. Embrace who you are. If changes need to be made...make sure you make them to better yourself 4 yourself no one else.
2006-12-14 16:53:40 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compromise vs sacrifice. I feel it's ok to compromise at times, understanding that both sides should be doing so. But if you feel you're sacrificing who you are, or something core to your nature, then it's probably not the best fit between you and that person.
2006-12-14 16:52:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person you are with doesnt like you for who you are then they are not worth being with. You should never have to change the way you are just to please someone.
2006-12-14 16:54:55 · answer #10 · answered by lilli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋