Can you kill your mom or dad by not loving them?I mean never kissing, hugging/touching them and always saying you hate them and telling them to drop dead almost every day?My friend does this to her parents and she does it to her dad.He is our college physics teacher. We are both in the same class.She does it to him all the time and he used to be soo cheerful and playful. But my friend (his daughter) called him a geek in class. One day she told him to drop dead in lab & was only trying to help her set up an experiment .That day I almost cried because he was so shocked and hurt and went into his office and sat there with his head in his hands. It was SO SAD.
Maybe it isnt my business but he is my teacher and I do love him (as a human and friend). I've known him all my life and he is friends with my parents. His daughter is my best friend since we were 3 years old.But she is going to kill her father by means of shear meanness to him. What should I say to make him believe she loves him?
2006-12-14 08:45:58 · 6 answers · asked by evillon7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
your friend needs to get slapped.
I'll do it.
2006-12-14 10:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by Lucy_Goosy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evidently she does NOT love him, when you love someone, you treat them with respect and affection.
You friend has a real problem, she needs to seek professional help, but with her attitude, it's not likely she will try to get help, but then again we do not know what happens at home either, maybe there is some sort of mistreatment or abuse...you just don't know!
Sit down with your friend and see if you can determine if there is a problem away from school...this is a sad story, I don't know what I would do if my girls treated me in this manner.
I truly hope things can be worked out for you, your friend and her father especially!!
Semper fi
CJ
2006-12-14 17:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by CommanderJim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to family therapy! There isn't anything YOU can say to HIM...it's not your problem. He needs to address his daughter alone and tell her to respect him while in front of the other students. He has every right to KICK her out of his class as her father. I would NEVER tolerate one of my children talking to me in that manner! (I have 5 kids!!! ages 4-19) Seems mr dad feels guilty for something to let his daughter speak to him this way. Did he not spend time with her growing up? Did he wish she was a son instead of a girl? There are issues there that NONE of us can guess...they need family therapy. Please help them ALL and suggest this to them BOTH (while they're together) very seriously and in loving caring way. I hope for the best! Good luck!
2006-12-14 16:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by luv2bake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to buck up and take action with her and not allow her to talk so disrespectfully with him.
He needs to put her in another class because clearly there is a conflict for all students because of her actions.
If she is a friend of yours then point out to her that her behavior makes people not have much respect for her.
2006-12-14 16:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you bringing this to YA? You don't answer any questions, and this is the only thing you are asking about. What's up?
2006-12-14 16:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if his daughter is a sociopath. send her to a different school.
2006-12-14 16:48:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋