bullied at school?

Question

hi, i am 4 months in my new skool, i like it but every1 in my class is so horrible to me except for 1 or 2 people, they keep spreading untrue rumors bout me and i always have 2 sit on my own during lessons, no 1 wnts to sit next 2 me just cuz i`m new, if the tutor makes a seating plan and some 1 has to sit nxt 2 me, it`ll b hell 4 them, they dont know wat i`m like, i`m just like them talketive, chatty, funny but they dont know that i havent shown wat i`m like yet, they all sit next 2 their friends chatting and laughing while i sit on my own wiv no 1 and this really brings me down, this never happened @ my old schools, i wnt 2 be friends wiv any 1 in my class but they all hve their own m8s and if i`ll join them they`ll think wat a b**** she takes our friends away from us, so i cnt hve any friends like that, i`m a bit shy to show my style and make every1 laugh cuz they might say somthin rude 2 me, and i just dont know wat to do i really need ur advice

Answer 1

Really. Teen youth is the great time for many people to
make friends. Naturally it is the average important event. So
watch what is going on. You have to design yourself a minimum presence. This is their interaction, and you are new.
Do not think there is a formula to get updated. Show you are
sincere, and when you chose friends make some sense of
your first explorations. 8 months is about average to have 5
close acquaintences so take it easy. Making 30 peoples good
acquaintence is successful for the best college, and business
people with maybe 20 good friends along the way eventually.
Think it over you may have 10 acquaints and 2 prospective good friends coming along already. It will take 3 years once you
get organized. A whole new place is a big job for anyone.

Answer 2

I'm also new, I have lived here for five months I faced the same issue. I stated to talk to the people next to me while the others talk. If there wasn't anything to say I would tell them that there shirt or hair or something was really cute, they would say thanks and I just kind of joined the conversation. If you stay strong, don't let them know that there words hurt you ,break out of your shell and act like they're your best friend good things will happen. Try to participate in class that way people will know you. Just go up and talk to someone who you think is nice, if the don't include you just stay there and try to be social. By your next month you should be just fine and remember that it's not that they don't like you, they just don't know you. (yet!!)

Answer 3

dont b put dwn by them,seems like they dont need someone as
good as u.but give that 1 person to step 2 u,if they can go thru the
laffing of their friends 2 talk 2 u.they may prove 2 b a real friend in the end.someone,maybe a few people want 2 talk 2 you,but are afraid of what their friends will think,but whats funny is they all may feel the same way,so no one wants 2 talk 2 you first.try to single out the best potential friend,put yourself in their presents,try 2 be funny,find a common ground,and maybe they might c u as not so bad.but please dont EVER let anyone bring u down.pray,jesus is on your side:)keep your head up!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

that sucks. i think there is not much you can do. but, i do know this. anyone who is popular and a likeable person has confidence. this is absolutly true. so, if there is a way that you can be loud and laugh and have fun, rise above it, then that will make all the difference. i know htat sounds silly but is true. look at the people in your class, the popular ones have confidence. are you good at sports. i find that really helps alot too, any sport. also if you can get someone who is popular, even in a year above you, to talk to you, then your in. just dont seem desperate. but its important to be yorself, that might sound like a contridiction, but thats really important. i hope this all dosnt sound too silly.

Answer 5

Try not to take this so personally. I know that sounds easy, but kids are so mean to each other. Have you considered joining a club or sport? These kids don't sound like such great friends anyways, now do they?? Would you want to be friends with people who make you feel this way??

Answer 6

if some one is harassing you a hell of a lot tell your parents a tell the to go to the police and have them arrested for harassment.

now if its the whole class your lucky.
why am i lucky?
I'm socially ostracized by the whole school for 5 years now and counting. i too was new.

p.s. i hope you make it.

Answer 7

I know what it feels like to be bullied in school. I was that kid who got bullied. Let me tell you...those bullies will be asking you when all of you are in your 30's ...."would you like it super sized!"

Those bullies will be cleaning your toilets for you in your beautiful mansion that you so deserve to have.

They will be under you when you are an adult..just remember that.

I am terribly sorry that you have to go through this.

Answer 8

Just be yourself, who cares what other think. If your happy with who you are then who cares about others, live your life the way you would like to live and don't worry about what other people think...

Answer 9

classes and gay they do do that, but you should try to join some activities and hang out with people with the same interests as you, i bet they wouldnt do anything mean.

Answer 10

i know how u feel, i am bullied everyday by this kid he calls me really bad names, i hate it!. try to ignore it, sometimes it works, but not all the time, otherwise complain to a teacher, if THAT doesn't work, tell the cops, it's harassment, and it's illegal!