About 9 months ago I ran into this guy and we hit it off.I was still bitter about catching my ex of a few years cheating(they r mutual freinds)he listened and understood,he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay,i asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did,ia sked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,he was such a gentlman.Things were awkward when he left the next morning,a mutual freindtold me he liked me but was freaked about my ex(who was trying to get me back)I ran into this guy again2 months later and he came to me and said"your killing me"my ex was also there and upset that we liked eachother.I sent him a text a couple weeks later and he never replied.I saw him again at a party 6 months later and he walked in with another girl,made eye contact with me and quickly looked away.Then later we crossed paths and he smiled and said"whats up".My ex was there again also,we have mutual freinds.
2006-12-14 09:09:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like you need to let go of your two timing,cheating,double crossing ex & move on.
& u know that in your heart it was shady of you to try to get with your ex's friend... its never right (on either side) & im sure you wouldnt like it if the roles were reversed.
But if it was meant to be with you & your ex's best bud... why did you go somewhere that your ex would be & your ex's bud would be at.
dont get upset about him looking away... he was probably ashamed of what he did... which is double cross his friend.
2006-12-14 09:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what?? If you fall in love with whoever it doesn't matter--I married one of my ex's best friends and its been 18 years --You and your ex are not together because you and he want it that way--and the new kid on the block needs to get over that --talk to him tell him its all good --You obviously have some sort of chemistry so just talk to him--ask him why is he avoiding you?? You will never really know unless you go to the source--In fact ask your ex if by chance you and the friend were to hook up would it be weird to him--chances are he wont think a thing about it --just because you and he split doesn't mean you have to rule out any of the others you associate with--Then tell this guy that your ex could care less--I see my ex and always have we have friends and family functions and it like this get over it and move on--Good Luck it finding love in all the right places--God has kept you here for a reason ya think?? :-)
2006-12-14 09:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the opportunity with this guy was missed, seems your signals got crossed with the "ex" still hanging around, it sounds like he didn't want any drama and decided to withdraw. The competition out there is too fierce (ratio of women to men) and men don't always stick around if there seems like there might be trouble revolving around someone they might like somewhat. I would wait a while to see if the attraction is rekindled, but, by all means, give him some space.
2006-12-14 09:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to keep spending a lot of time with your ex. If you really like this guy.(the gentleman) If he got wind your ex wanted you back, he didn't want to stand in the way. Talk to him. Let him know how you feel, and where you stand. If your ex is trying to get you back, and you don't want it, talk to him too.
2006-12-14 09:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by cupcake32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I belive he does like you but being friends with your ex is keeping him from showing his true feelings. I know everyone says you never date your friends ex's and that may be the case here. He may not want to lose his friend if he dates you.
2006-12-14 09:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-14 09:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the problem lies around you being with your ex so much.
2006-12-14 09:11:39 · answer #7 · answered by P W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dat crazy that u keep running into gach other but it also might be a sign who do u really want think about it
2006-12-14 09:14:58 · answer #8 · answered by ahkiya :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he looked away because he likes but thinks it just won't work and really didn't want to start something that night
2006-12-14 09:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he looked away because a fly had just flown past his face. Didn't you see it?
2006-12-14 09:13:34 · answer #10 · answered by inhibitor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋