Assuming you're a single female, how are you going to react if....?

Question

a guy walks up to you out of no where and asked you out on a date or just tell you that he have feelings for you. He would like to get to know you better. It can be a secret admirer or some guy you do know but didnt realized he got the hots for you. How would you react if it happens?

now, just say he is a nice guy and not a rapist, sochiapath, or any scary guys out there. He just wanted to let you know that he likes you. Are you going to slap him:? or turn him down?

Answer 1

IF he knows me and asks me on a date

1. saying he has feelings for me and would like to get to know me: I might say yes, if i like him. If I am shocked/surprised I might take some time.

If he is someone I dont know(and he doesnt know me well either)
and asks me on a date

1. I would tell him I am not interested. (I would have appreciated him introducing himself and sharing a conversation atleast before asking me out)

2. If he says he has feelings for me, without even having talked to me before or knowing me in person, then I would tell him to get lost.

Answer 2

Hey, I would say don't go straight to the "I like you, I want to get to know you" thing. Rather than that, play it cool and cocky. Have you seen Hitch? The way he interacts with women on first contact is perfect. However a common excuse for not doing that is "I'm not smooth enough", or "I don't have that gift". Well, that isn't true. Every male has the potential to be charming and clever. Just have a plan. Have a catchy line you want to use, or have a few of them. Think about possible reactions and be prepared. That is what you have to do and trust me, it works. Biggest thing though, right here: be confident. If you aren't confident you're bound to lose. Hope I helped.

Answer 3

For me being a very shy person, If a guy came up to me with that I would give that guy a chance. What is there to lose... You never know he might just be the good guy that the girl has been waiting for.

So, I'm guessing that you are planning on doig that. I would say go for it. You never know it might turn out tto be a good thing.

Answer 4

i would agree to a public date in which we could sit down and get to know each other..
isn't that how dating is supposed to work?? someone shows interest and asks another out. and then boy and girl go out to eat and talk.. how the heck would you get slapped for this??
i mean as long as it's not a the sleazy kind of "asking out" (you know..the hey baby..you must be on fire cuz you're smokin! type thing) awesome!!! and as i have always practiced (until recently) going out to a restaurant is a good place..you're in public which waives the "homicidial maniac" panic..

Answer 5

There are only a few guys I know with whom I would even consider going out, and then it would depend on how strongly I felt about him. If I didn't know him, of course I'd say no. But in the grand scheme of things, I'd say no nine times out of ten.

Answer 6

well yeah it'd be a little freakish nd id be alittle confused cause if this guy is random tht means he doesnt know me, he just likes the way i look or just wants to take a chance.
but at the same time i admire a guy whos willing to get what he wants. isnt shy, ya know?

it depends really on how he says it.
if hes respectful and seems nice id probably consider it
but if hes like EY MAMA WANNA GET SUMPN TO EAT BABY GIRLLLL?
id be like HELL NO learn my name first buddy.

Answer 7

So tell me this, DID some girl REJECT you after you said this to HER??? hmmmmmm!!!

Anyway, this "guy" couldnt be just Any ole' Guy

I would need to be attracted to him to respond positively

If he was hot-----THEN I want to know his Personality

Otherwise, my initial reaction would be SHOCK!

Answer 8

i think that most women, would be a lady and agree for a date, in a public area.

Answer 9

if his charming why not?!