me and my boyfriend broke up yesterday and we decided to be friends..but he called me lata on and we spoke for agood 30mins just about the christmas parties that we had planned to go togetha when we was a couple...this morning he called me just to say hiee..and we spoke and he was flirting a bit..i reckon he still wants to be with me...and we broke up because he is going through some stuff..wat do u guys think?
2006-12-14 09:06:31 · 18 answers · asked by gina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cut off communication, he wasn't calling when he was cheating
2006-12-14 09:08:35 · answer #1 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him to stop calling you so he can get over it. if theres 'stuff' going on in his life an thats the reason u broke up, maybe u can still be there for him as a friend but make sure you tell him plain & clear what it means to 'just be friends'.. its a bit understandable bout talin bout the chrismtas parties since u only just broke up though.
2006-12-14 21:14:36 · answer #2 · answered by WomanSoHeartless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a quiet place and just think for about 30 minutes on this subject, listen to your heart and decide.
2006-12-14 17:31:51 · answer #3 · answered by B i n g o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok my friend is going though THE EXACT SAME THING! i told her if u guys get back to together wont it be ocward cause u guys have broken up already it wont be the same! and only they talked after they broke up for 9 1/2 hours on thephone CRAZY RIGHT!
2006-12-14 17:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by *KiAnA* =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you still care for him there isn't anything wrong with talking to him.But if it starts to get uncomfortable because he seems to be looking for more again and you don't want it.your gonna have to just say"look, I still care for you and like talking to you sometimes.But you need to stop saying things and looking for more than what it is, a friendship".
If he gets angry and in turn stops calling, then you know he really didn't want to be friends, he was just looking to get back together or nothing.
good luck.
2006-12-14 17:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl talk to him see how he really feels , can you also just tell him if he says no to move on ! Take it easy on him he might love you but isnt ready for sex!Just take it slow ask him a few questions like "do you love
2006-12-14 17:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going through some stuff - tell him to get real and that unless he pulls his finger out it really will mean goodbye !!!
Good luck
2006-12-14 18:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by raythecat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he obviously wants the best of both worlds! Who broke up with who? Us "blokes" go through "stuff" just like you girls do. Do you girls have the proirity?
2006-12-14 17:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by David D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Broken up doesn't mean letting go, Broken up entitles him to be able to see others without the label of cheating, Hanging on is keeping your heart available for him, that's why he's flirting.
Do what's best for you
2006-12-14 17:14:43 · answer #9 · answered by Reenell W 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him that you still care about him as a friend and will support him and help him through his problems. But make it clear that nothing will happen between you and him.
2006-12-14 17:13:35 · answer #10 · answered by sarah b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you broke up, then act like it. Stop answering his calls. Stop speaking with him. Instruct him to stop contacting you. You have to put your foot down and move on with your life...
2006-12-14 17:31:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋