2 things.. 1st - I did something really bad to my boyfriend and I was going to tell him but he found out before.. Now I breached all trust with this thing.. I dont know what to do to earn that trust back. I know its a hard thing to get back.. but I need some advise..
2nd thing is I am pregnant and I have known for a few weeks and he is also upset that I waited to tell him this news..
Please, I need some good advise.. No put downs or yelling of sorts.
2006-12-14 08:59:46 · 7 answers · asked by expensv_1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
u dont deserve 2 b put down or yelled @...u did wat u did bc u were scared and he has 2 think of y u were...say "i kno wat i did was wrong and i dont blame u 4 being mad @ me but i want that trust back...if its not 2 much 2 ask 4...i rele care about u and altho i did not show it...i do and id luv it if we could just get past this bc i luv u and i dont want u mad @ me...plz"...c wat he says...i dont kno wat ur problem is so i hope that helped
now 4 ur 2nd problem...tell him u were scared of how he would react 2 the news...being pregnant isnt sumthing thats easy 2 tell the person that ur w/...tell him that u care about him and wanted nothing more but 2 tell him but u were just 2 scared...dont give him ne reason 2 tell u that is no reason 2 not tell cuz it is...guys dont have 2 go thru that sorta thing so they cant imagine...ne ways i hope EVERYTHING works out w/ u and ur boyfriend...o and CONGRATS! u have a baby on the way and thats sumthing 2 b happy about... :D God bless! XxxxXxxxX
2006-12-14 09:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him number two first. Pregnancy a lot of times can make people forget other problems that existed before.
2006-12-14 09:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by P W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is #2 a result of #1?
He'll be reminded forever.
2006-12-14 09:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never messed up
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2006-12-14 09:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm....I'm truly sorry my dear but your situation has placed you well beyond the point of needing advice.
2006-12-14 09:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck cleaning up that mess.
2006-12-14 09:04:41 · answer #6 · answered by luckyaz128 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be more truthful,because it will be helpfull in the future.
2006-12-14 09:05:08 · answer #7 · answered by Jeremy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋