He calls me constantly and stays on the line talking to me forever. He has e-mailed me his pics and I have sent him pics of me through the mail; (he lives far), anyway, for the last two weeks he has been telling me that he really likes me and wants to meet me in person and that we could grow to being together and being a couple. I don't know what to do because I am falling for him hard - except that he is only 24 and I am 36. He does act and sound very mature for his age, what can I do?
2006-12-14 08:52:59 · 10 answers · asked by Ladyinred 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmm...the age doesn't matter, it's invisible! I think that u should meet him and u will see what u truly fell! What do u lose by seeing him face 2 face? Nothing! If he likes u and u like him...then there is no problem! When u will see him, u will know if it's love or only a passing passion! Just listen to ur hart!
Good luck!
2006-12-14 09:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by andra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK take a look back when you were 24--what were you doing?? We all say we would like to be that age again IF we knew what we know today--Second of all (as just a word of caution) he could have sent you a pic of anyone--Don't you read the news?? Gals are hurt everyday by persons that say they are one thing and then turn out to be another- I am not saying he is going to physically hurt you --but you more than likely have a job and a home a nice car etc--Look back --did you have that at 24?? Probably not unless you come from money--Can you be absolutly possitive he is not looking for a SUGAR MAMA?
I am not trying to make a negative point out of something that could be a good thing --All I am asking is for you to step out of the box and ask yourself all the right questions so you are not set up--Lets face it girlfriend we have the 20's behind us and now the world at our feet--Before leaving you with your thoughts I would like to say this--I am 49 and I have been hit on by men in their 20's and it is different and very flattering and then I picture myself 10 years down the road and I see myself alone --gravity takes a toll on all of us sooner or later--unless you can afford to have plastic surgery :-)
2006-12-14 09:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, if you have to ask such a silly-a** question like this, then you're probably not mature enough for him. The best advice is to give him up. High school prom season will be here soon, and maybe you can get a date then.
2006-12-14 09:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by Wise one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason is ask this question is simply you lose confidence of yourself. Mainly due to your age factor. Think about it. Ask yoursekf how young is young and how old is old.
2006-12-14 08:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by Eddy W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of you like each other, give it a try. He may be the one, but you may never know, if you don't give the chance. And if it doesn't work out at least you tried, and won't wonder what if?
2006-12-14 08:56:47 · answer #5 · answered by girlieGIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart...age ain't nothing but a number.
2006-12-14 08:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by red.cherry2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a toughie. play hard to get. tell him how you feel about it. age shouldnt really matter. if you guys like eachother enough then it shouldnt matter..
2006-12-14 08:56:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
criminal back ground check first....second if you meet him make sure he doesn't have any bags with him ....third background check.....sounds suspicious to me
2006-12-14 08:56:51 · answer #8 · answered by isis_nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a big difference... but it's ok. if you really like/love him. then go for it
2006-12-14 09:01:51 · answer #9 · answered by mindi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u tell him ur age?
2006-12-14 08:56:04 · answer #10 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋