He also told me that he love's me but i think he just wants too have sex! He said i love you first and i just dont know what to do. Should i belive him?
2006-12-14 09:04:17 · 20 answers · asked by Baby Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IF you follow your heart, you will be happy at the present and sad in the future, If you follow your mind, you may be sad at the present but happy in the future. YOu think with your brain.
2006-12-14 09:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by Eddy W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think is only after you to get sex, be totally honest about it with him. Tell him you are touched that he loves you and say it back only if you feel it. However tell him that you are not ready to be in a physical relationship and you are not willing to have sex with him.
Be blunt, be honest about it and if you do stay together make sure to repeat yourself on this subject.
Relationship do not have to be based around sex. Love does not have to include sex. If he loves you he should be happy to wait on the physical and explore what you two have to offer each other on different avenues.
I would say go with your gut... its a mix of your heart and your head.. and in life its the combo that gets you the best results!
Good luck.. *HUGS*
2006-12-14 17:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by Frenchie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your mind! If you feel uncomfortable about getting intimate with this guy, then you are not ready for this type of relationship. Guys tell girls all the time they love them to get them to take that next step (sex). Tell him you are not ready, then see how he reacts. If he is willing to wait, give him a chance. If he really loves you, he will not pressure you into doing something you are not ready for. Ask yourself how you feel about him. If he is not special to you, dont pursue this.
2006-12-14 17:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone once wrote:
When you are sure something is right or wrong and love tells you the opposite---something is wrong with the love, not with what you believe. It's a poor kind of love that demands that you diminish yourself by giving up wht you know is right.
I wish I could find out who wrote that, but it's a good thing to remember.
2006-12-14 17:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the guy. how long have you known him because alot of guys will tell you they love you just to get you into bed true. But if you have grown together and leanred alot about eachother and taken the time to get to knwo eachother it can be true. Don;t trust it if is has been under a year ok. Not worth the heart ache.
2006-12-14 17:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by Da Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have a relationship without sex. If you want a relationship and dont want sex tell him hes not getting any from you. If he suddenly stops with the lovey talk, then you know he was just trying to get some.
Its ok to date and not have sex.
2006-12-14 17:06:40 · answer #6 · answered by crymsyneyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you left a lot out like how long you have been seeing each other how old are you but if you think it,s just sex then it is what ever you believe it to be so it is
2006-12-14 17:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I follow my heart. If a situation is bad for you, you should follow your mind. You should talk to him about what you feel for each other. Look at how he treats you and that should tell you what you need to do.
2006-12-14 17:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't feel so sure about your boyfriend I would take that seriously because you don't want to do something that you will regret. If you think he wants you for sex then don't give it too him until you are absolutely sure about him and his motives. Their's no rush into sex...just be patient and see what happens
2006-12-14 17:09:27 · answer #9 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you would have to listen to yourself because when it your mind it would confuse you and when you are in love you heart and yourself woud tell you but if he just telling you then it his mind but if he doing things for and being there for you and always trying to look out for you and not just sex then he love you but if he is just saying it then don't beleive him he is after you for sex and make his dick fill good and not you
2006-12-14 17:12:07 · answer #10 · answered by MRS DEE 2 U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋