Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

My husband has started watching and downloading a LOT of porn. Our sex life is not what it used to be. We don't have sex as much as we used to. He says it is because he is getting older and it is his horomones (he just turned 37). He told me not to worry and that the porn is nothing. He is always at home so I'm not worried about that..YET. I just found out that he actually lied to me about how much he is watching so now I'm even more upset. I really just need an honest man's perspective on this. Thanks.

2006-12-12 06:14:00 · 25 answers · asked by glittrgrl69 3 in Marriage & Divorce

All of a sudden, my older brother has started getting on my case about getting a new job. He's unemployed himself so I don't understand why he's getting on my case when he's in the same situation. Please help me, it's getting me down.

2006-12-12 06:12:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My fiances family constantly gives her guilt trips saying she doesnt love the family anymore and that she is leaving the family. In turn she ignores me and does everything they say. We have been planning the wedding and we were planning on having it in my hometown because I have 5 times more family than her and when she told her parents that her dad said "You have to think about me too, I cant get the day off to drive all the way over there." Its only a 2 hour drive. Then on top of that before I even proposed to her her mom told me that they werent the type of family that pays for their daughters weddings, so Im paying for the whole thing. Then her sister is rude and when we first met she treated me like crap and took my fiances phone away and gave it to her husband and told me I had the wrong number. Now I dont feel comfortable around them and I dont know what to do and I dont want to be a bad person but I love my gullable fiance and I want to be with her forever. Any suggestions?

2006-12-12 06:12:05 · 30 answers · asked by DJ C 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 27...I just left my boyfriend of 3 years. We had been living together, but he used me. It took me a while to see it, but I finally left because he wouldn't or couldn't understand me. After I left, he called me in tears because he hadn't realized that he had been hurting me. I told him that I would consider reconciling if he could show me that he was getting himself out of debt, and that he was repairing his relationships with the people he had used for money. He and I were doing great long distance, and he even proposed one night. I agreed, but it didn't feel right, because of the circumstances in which it happened. Almost like he proposed to keep me, even though it sounded sincere. I was torn between him and my family, so I went to see a councelor. The councelor told me that it sounded like he had a dating style of someone in middle school and he was immature. I haven't talked to him since. How should I continue? Should I keep no contact? ( I broke off the engagement)

2006-12-12 06:11:06 · 6 answers · asked by jasarile 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex is saying he wants me back and that hes been a fool for leaving me cos he loves me to death. since we split hes slept with 2 girls and kissed a few...he says hes changed since then and now realised he was stil in love with me and just really messed up.he's not intrested in any other girls and that im the 1 for him...he says hes gonna prove his love 4 me...but i cant stop thinkin about him and those girls, he says it didnt mean anything and at the time he did it 2 move on from me.he thought it wud help him move on.He says 4 him its all in the past and he wants 2 move on.It stil really cuts me up and im scared if i take him bak he'l hurt me again.He sed the 1st time with sum1 else was awful and he had to leave and the 2nd time was good and he didnt feel guilty cos he thought it was the rite thing to do at the time, but they didnt compare 2 me and it was superficial. Should i giv things another go? i love him but im afraid of being a doormat.

2006-12-12 06:10:49 · 2 answers · asked by * *sUnShINe GiRl* * 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i am 22 an was with my ex for six years until he cheated on me when i was pregnant with our child, i forgave him for that. but it happen again after she was born with the same girl an got her pregnant. I ended it with him haven seen or heard from in over 3 months untill few days ago out of the blue. he was saying how he missed me an loved me. keep in mind he still with the other girl who is due any day now. He is calling me trying get me to meet him somewhere so we can talk alone cause when he calls its never about our baby its always sweet talking me. I think he just trying get in my pants. I need advice on what to do. This is so stressfull on me. Any advice from women who have been in simular situation please help

2006-12-12 06:10:45 · 9 answers · asked by Christy R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So this mysterious guy that is madly "in love" with me is totally obsessed. Hes in this group of three friends and they all liked me at some point...I like one of his freinds and just couldnt help it. Everytime he finds out that i like someone else he talks **** about them to get me to not like them. He told me he loved me and told me he would tell me everyday until we go out. I told him it is possible but not anytime soon. What do I do??

2006-12-12 06:10:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For instance..would my 5'9"-5'10" height be too short for you?

2006-12-12 06:09:19 · 40 answers · asked by Greg S 3 in Singles & Dating

..But yet a lot of us single people. I believe it becomes a curse, we get accustomed being alone.

2006-12-12 06:09:16 · 10 answers · asked by bob 2 in Singles & Dating

Any suggestions?

2006-12-12 06:09:09 · 16 answers · asked by Paris Hilton 1 in Friends

i want to give my man the time of his life and i do all that i can, but can u guys give me better ideas with our relationship/lovelife?

2006-12-12 06:09:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to ask my ex to go to this movie called Eragon over winter break.We're both into fantasy.He's 22,I'm 24.We went out last winter break but I had a lot going on and had just gotten out of a bad relationship so it wasn't the right time for us to date.We both really liked each other.we live close to each other but comute to different colleges.So I only see him if he visits the grocery store where I work at.We've been friendly lately but I hardly see him and I want to make sure when we talk that it's interesting to him and that I don't seem like I'm trying too hard or anything. I want 2 ask him 2 the movies.should I just go ahead and let that be like the first thign I say to him?he's shy,nerd type and I was his first g/f at 21.thanks.

2006-12-12 06:09:00 · 1 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

for men and women

2006-12-12 06:08:43 · 2 answers · asked by lilgpc 2 in Singles & Dating

i a guy likes you? i know this guy is sexually attracted to me but how do i know if he likes me and if he would go out with me?

2006-12-12 06:08:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Max told me that i had a chance with him that we would go out and stuff.. but i called my ex to present him to my cousin because she wants to go out with him... but i didn`t have any courage to ask him if he wants to go out with her... what am i suppose to do.. i think i still love him!?!

2006-12-12 06:08:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I was about 3 years old, my dad raped me. I've had visions going through my head about it. I've told my friends and my mom, but some people said i should just get over it. Should I?

2006-12-12 06:08:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

the 24old will not go to her mother home for christmas.because mother will not go along with them dating or in her home.

2006-12-12 06:08:11 · 13 answers · asked by AMY R 1 in Singles & Dating

like where should I go to meet her and what should i like do or say to her. does any body know any good pickup lines that have worked?

2006-12-12 06:07:56 · 7 answers · asked by loser 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 06:07:16 · 24 answers · asked by Shirley T 1 in Weddings

He rather spend time with his friends than take care of you when you are sick. He doesn't give a damn even though you call him all night and cut yourself so that he will come and see you. Yet, he still say I love you and say that he is sorry.

2006-12-12 06:07:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i would like to know why you got in it and if still are or are not.
Tahnks and be honest.

2006-12-12 06:07:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-12 06:07:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

will she go on depression?

2006-12-12 06:06:48 · 11 answers · asked by hotfuss4t 1 in Family

2006-12-12 06:06:45 · 18 answers · asked by da man 3 in Singles & Dating

My b/f and i have been dating for almost two months dec. 23.. but the other night he said he wanted a break b/c i changed him from a tiger to a cat so i dont understand what he means that he needs to think or hes seeing someone else, he might not even come back.. i just need some answers since he wont give me any.

2006-12-12 06:06:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have just found out i'm pregnant and we have just split up should i tell him

2006-12-12 06:05:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i see other states tags on there plates

2006-12-12 06:05:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband Ideal of fun is playing his x-box. I mean i like that he plays with my son but he takes that all too serious. He has been into comic books, superman, spiderman all his life that i really dont mind much. But the playing of the video games is too much?

2006-12-12 06:05:13 · 30 answers · asked by ivonne 2 in Marriage & Divorce

it is so unfair to be a guy... they can pretty much do what ever they want and not care
I am turning back to religion...

2006-12-12 06:05:12 · 13 answers · asked by girldrama101 1 in Singles & Dating

ok me and my ex lived together for 8 months fell in love, then he says he dosnt want to get serious anymore that we need to break up and later when he is ready to do it again. i still love him even though he has had other woman in his life and want him back. he calls only when he is drunk but i know he means more by it. so in the time this goes on my mom turns crazy cause her devorice and calls my ex and tells him many personal things about me and how im no good now the ex just stays away from me or anything i have to say to him because of my mother getting in the way...help

2006-12-12 06:05:02 · 3 answers · asked by cert_pharm_tech21 1 in Singles & Dating