i have just found out i'm pregnant and we have just split up should i tell him
2006-12-12 06:05:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is his baby
2006-12-12 06:25:40 · update #1
yes; never leave him in the dark. because in the end, he'll deny it. but if you tell him asap, he will most likely want to help and be involved. otherwise, he'll move on and never know that he has a child.
2006-12-12 06:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by idontneedyoux3 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would hold off a little while. First you need to get a confirmation from your Doctor. But I would wait until after you are 3 months if you want to keep it. He may pressure you to end the pregnancy or you could miscarry. Either way he is just going to think you are lying to get him back if you tell him right now. You really should talk to your family about a matter of this importance. They probably have better advice for you than yahoo answers. Good luck to you.
2006-12-12 06:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by angie a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is his yes, why wouldn't you? He has rights to this child as well, you didn't create it alone. Were you wanting to support and take care of this child alone? Believe me, being a single parent is very hard work, I know. You don't have to get back together just because of the baby, he can help you in many ways. Like taking his visitation rights and using them. This will give you time to yourself and to enjoy life again.
2006-12-12 06:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by Fruit Cake Lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is really your choice. just think about this. do you want the guy to take responsibility for the child? would you at any moment ask for him to help you in the growth of the child? are you going to keep the child? or are you going to abort? or give it up to addoption? are you financial stable in a way that you can keep the child?remember if you do tell him, he will be a part of your child and your life for a long time to come.
good luck
2006-12-12 06:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by lasalle_1986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has the legal right to know. Just make sure to get child support if you keep the baby. You are entitled to that for all your troubles.
2006-12-12 06:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. nothing to reignite the flames of passion after a breakup then finding out you're ex is preggers! Congrats!.
Sorry you wasted all that time in Sex ed. I guess the pill was to complicated for you!
2006-12-12 06:12:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you should tell him and see if he wants part of it. its not really fair to hide a baby from the father. If you still love him maybe you two can work it out and b a couple again.
2006-12-12 06:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by Cindi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know for sure it is his , then you have to tell him. Just because you're going to have his baby doesn't mean you have to get back together, he has every right to know. If he tries talking you into abortion, DON'T, YOU'LL REGRET IT THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.
2006-12-12 06:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by dumbdago 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is his child also.
The baby may be the best thing that ever came from your time together, for both of you.
Congratulations!
Peace!
2006-12-12 06:08:16 · answer #9 · answered by C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don.t wait longer kids become an expense and they should have there fathers name, to kids meet later on meet and turn out to be related. So, tell tell
2006-12-12 06:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by sam i am 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋