Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

...you guessed it another porn problem from a girl. I don't mind the whole pron thing, well of course i do, but i don't mind magazines and those cheesy films. But my guy is constantly looking at, saving pictures, saving videos, or real people posted online. i mean like home movies, home pictures, honestly he has celebrities too that doesn't bother me, just the real girls, real web cams, real home made videos. i mean we make videos too but he doesn't watch them. honestly when i leave for work he's on his computer looking at and saving pictures and videos to his external harddrive. It just really bothers me and i've told him about it. he doesn't care. he says he wants to change but in reality he doesn't want to. he has like bookmarks saved and pages saved to his favorites. it just makes me really sad and i don't know how to deal... but i don't just want to leave him because of this. when we first met he even said i haven't jerked off since i met you and that was for like 5 months..

2006-12-12 05:51:29 · 10 answers · asked by girldrama101 1 in Singles & Dating

do you think i would look good with any kind of facial hair? if so what kind?

http://i98.photobucket.com/albums/l271/sdw5523/untitled10.jpg

2006-12-12 05:51:11 · 18 answers · asked by sdavid5523 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 05:51:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For too many years -I was good looking and didn't know it due to a homely childhood. I think I made the mistake of choosing guys thinking they liked me, then realizing that they never really knew who I was inside.

I SORT of know the answer to this question. But I would like to hear what you guys have to say. Thanks

2006-12-12 05:50:44 · 4 answers · asked by meanpromqueen 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I had a great talk with a girl I met maybe 4 months ago.

We made eye contact and were attracted to one another. She showed interest and I asked for her mobile and she gave it.

We hit it off on the phone and I texted poems she inspired me to write and she would sing her favorite songs to me, and we would teach each other languages we knew. and she started calling me "dear" and we were emotionally bonding. I could totally just feel her emotions without her needed to speak.

Then we had our first misunderstanding. I got hurt andshe got angry at my response. Then we didnt talk for days. Then she told me she is dating a guy at work (I met) and said she will marry him. I knew it wasnt true and I didnt speak of it again. Our intimacy was cut and I called her off and on for 2-3 months and she was generally angry or cold.

Today we talked for 2 hrs after so long, she admitted she was not dating, and she was opening up and getting sweet.

I admit I blew it then. Opinions/Advice?

2006-12-12 05:50:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy but he likes my friend should i let her have him

2006-12-12 05:50:11 · 1 answers · asked by devon a 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 05:49:46 · 50 answers · asked by truthckr 1 in Singles & Dating

What were the side effects?

Did you find any positive changes? like high metabolic rate, loss of fat, muscle gain, increase in libido etc

Did you have any permanent negetive changes? acne, coarse voice etc?

Would you advice anyone to take it? If not why not?

2006-12-12 05:49:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am diverse and not a hateful person. This is an off the wall question. How does an unattractive man get involved with a beautiful woman? How does a unattrracted woman get involved with and attractive man?

2006-12-12 05:49:19 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

We were together for 6 months, pretty much in love, but I know that we werent ment for each other. I care about him and my heart is hurting because i miss him. My heart keeps saying yes you need him back and my mind is saying "He isnt right, real love shouldnt cause so much pain!" What do i do?

2006-12-12 05:48:58 · 6 answers · asked by Victor M 1 in Singles & Dating

Scenerio: Inter-office fling. Lasts for a while then fizzles out but not in the most graceful way. How to handle? Yes, it is tabu and must be kept secret as careers are at stake. How do you handle seeing someone who has obviously moved on, won't sit next to you and flirts with others in the office when you are still trying to get over falling for them? Any advice is appreciated, my friends.

2006-12-12 05:48:34 · 5 answers · asked by ☽☮★♥ Alphα Fєmmє Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ 5 in Singles & Dating

I lived with them in phoenix azThier names are steven and becky ford an son sean my name is margaet becky had polio in both legs and wore braces on both legs please help me find them ..Steve worked as a cab driver in Santa Rosa its been about 24 years ago I pray to find them please help me they lived off indian school rd.. Also when i was there i dated this guy named robert misquez whos father owned a tire shop had a brother chris !! Please help may god bless you all who are willing to help me Thankd alot I am hopeing that someone will know who they are.Contact me at dalycity5@sbcglobal.net again thanks a lot sean is about 35-37 i think oh please i hoped there is someone out there who knows these people i ant to find them because they were like my adopted parents now that my parents are both gone.

2006-12-12 05:48:10 · 2 answers · asked by JINE GIRL 2 in Family

My Father was a Twin

2006-12-12 05:48:01 · 24 answers · asked by Sweetie 1 in Family

We are booked on a family cruise for 7 days with my 3year son.
HELP-
great ideas and suggestions needed. Did I mention is was Christmas as well!!!

2006-12-12 05:47:33 · 8 answers · asked by Denise W 6 in Family

It makes you want to give up on them?

Upsets you?

Frustrates.

I know mine about females, what about yours?

- please no 'everything' stuff-

2006-12-12 05:46:52 · 19 answers · asked by Peter X. Long 2 in Singles & Dating

What do I do? Dump his butt?

The women have no clue he's done this.
He spends like 3 to 4 hours a day on porn. He only gets an hour for lunch, but is supposed to be working the other 2-3 hours. He's a courier. They don't know how long it takes to make his deliveries. He's posted exotic chat ads, he's played games in email with his receptionist at work, he lies and lies. Is it time for me to lay down the ax? Even after he got busted on all this, he still plays me, and says he's afraid I might "hurt him" with some of this stuff.

2006-12-12 05:46:35 · 33 answers · asked by a_lot_smarter_now 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Before I started to go out with my boyfriend of almost 6 months we were friends for about a year. Before that he had bought strippers and stuff and had many partners. Can I trust him, if he says that he will change for me. So far everything is fine, but will I be able to neglect this as something for to watch him for? He doesn't have any porn on his coputer, when he did, he removed it all but he did not really have mucch in the first place. Nothing really. He's not the type of guy to have women pictures on his walls or anything. He doens;t go out with his buddies or anything, he is relativly anti-social. It seems good, but should I be worried? Or is he giving me the respect that I give him by being faithful in everyway? Sounds silly? Oh well.

2006-12-12 05:45:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i are always hitting each other whether its with a pillow or our hands what is up with this??its a fun hitting not a bad hitting!!

2006-12-12 05:45:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she lives in la co we live in orange co,and have been together for 5 yrs.he now wants a divorce so we can get married but doesn't know where she is

2006-12-12 05:45:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have always had problems with my sister-in-law(my husband's sister). We have never gotten along!

On Thanksgiving this year, we went to her house to visit with her family. And, basically, she made rude remarks regarding my parenting skills and belittled my son. I did not say anything because I wanted everyone to have a good Thanksgiving. But, now I wished I told her off! My husband knows about this matter. I told him that I never want to see her again and he agreed!( He can go see her but I will not be there.)

Am I right about requesting never to see my sister-in-law again?

2006-12-12 05:45:14 · 5 answers · asked by September Sweetie 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 05:45:05 · 5 answers · asked by Kisa_wa 1 in Singles & Dating

She is crying. What should I say to make it better?

2006-12-12 05:44:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this guy that i like and me and my friend decided to prank call him and my cousin and it was fun we were just flirting in the phone and stuff. But then when i went to my cousins house he told me that he knew who i was and he told me he liked me. How do i know if he,s telling the truth??????????/

2006-12-12 05:44:53 · 1 answers · asked by Lydia P 1 in Singles & Dating

I know I love someone I dont think I can ever forget him or can I

2006-12-12 05:44:52 · 11 answers · asked by Jasmeen 3 in Singles & Dating

who is this? what issue of playboy is this?
warning-nude

http://img170.imageshack.us/img170/144/4vq4.jpg

2006-12-12 05:44:51 · 1 answers · asked by Sharp 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 05:44:48 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a friend that did not want me to tell her boyfriend that she is with one of her friends some one else and i said all right but the next morning she calld me and started crap cus i was sleep talking and it accidentily sliped out and now my friend is gonna brak this friendship and we are like a peanut butter and jelly sandwhich type of friends what shoul i do???

2006-12-12 05:44:25 · 2 answers · asked by ivan j 2 in Singles & Dating

I was with him long before he got married and we've supported each other through some truly horrible times in our lives (death, illnesses). I've tried to cut it off, but he fills a need in me. Lately I feel like I'm going to go to hell. No angry moral judgements, please. What do you honestly think?

2006-12-12 05:43:37 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She is crying... what should I say to make it better?

2006-12-12 05:43:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and why are they more confident round louder gals is it cause they fancy them or find it easier

2006-12-12 05:43:02 · 4 answers · asked by Jo S 1 in Singles & Dating