...you guessed it another porn problem from a girl. I don't mind the whole pron thing, well of course i do, but i don't mind magazines and those cheesy films. But my guy is constantly looking at, saving pictures, saving videos, or real people posted online. i mean like home movies, home pictures, honestly he has celebrities too that doesn't bother me, just the real girls, real web cams, real home made videos. i mean we make videos too but he doesn't watch them. honestly when i leave for work he's on his computer looking at and saving pictures and videos to his external harddrive. It just really bothers me and i've told him about it. he doesn't care. he says he wants to change but in reality he doesn't want to. he has like bookmarks saved and pages saved to his favorites. it just makes me really sad and i don't know how to deal... but i don't just want to leave him because of this. when we first met he even said i haven't jerked off since i met you and that was for like 5 months..
2006-12-12 05:51:29 · 10 answers · asked by girldrama101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and now we never even do anything anymore... he doesn't even look at me sexually...
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2006-12-12 05:52:22 · update #1
i think i just need to find someone very religious... ha
any takers?
2006-12-12 06:03:22 · update #2
look dont loss the trust at ur self
just try with him many and many time
ask him do he still loves u or ? and also ask him why he still watch this crap in his computer
till him that he is wasting his time in things doesnt deserve to do and its not good from him
ask his friends his parents or any partner from his family to talk to him
try also to change from urself see what u miss and do it for him
2006-12-12 05:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He has a problem with porn addiction. He may say that it means nothing to him, but when any contact between the two of you has dwindled down to nothing, then he is most certainly focused on the porn rather than you. Now, I myself have no problem with porn, but that "I haven't jerked off..." excuse is pretty lame.
If you truly don't want to leave him, you could try councelling, even if it's just by yourself at first.
Best of luck to you.
2006-12-12 05:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by Denise W 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not really sure what you're asking us, sorry! :)
If you have a problem with porn, you have to find a guy who doesn't ever watch it. Otherwise, you will only be told lies. I hate porn, and so does my boyfriend, so I never have to worry about him looking at naked girls. I wouldn't be able to put up with "occasional" porn use.
Other than talking to your guy, I don't think anything will change.
2006-12-12 05:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by argylemoose 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He needs a therapist... trust me i went through the same thing... Its excessive and its getting out of hand. its o.k. to look at porn, its just when it effects your daily well being is it bad. and the attitude of "i dont care what you think" is a result of this.. Ive been through it all i know exactly what your both going through and its not going to get better until he gets better.
2006-12-12 05:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by Jesus Built My Hotrod 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1st. big mistake, NEVER EVER EVER make a film with anyone, someday you may see your picture on the cover of some sleeze magazine or movie. BIG BIG MISTAKE!
2006-12-12 05:55:18 · answer #5 · answered by marie1257 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send me some of your pictures and videos then I can probably tell you why he doesn't want to look/watch it.
2006-12-12 05:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by a9113257311 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ur better than me i would have been gone what r u waiting 4 there r men out here that will love u in every way and b satisfied with u let him have his fantasy life
2006-12-12 05:56:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave him. Seriously. If he can't stop for you, he just doesn't care enough.
2006-12-12 05:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
no commet....sorry
u r typing more than i can even think to begin reading
2006-12-12 05:54:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
your guy is sick... ugh..
2006-12-12 05:54:02 · answer #10 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋