Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

I have a bunch of girls that are friends, but honestly why does some girls just turn on you for no reason at all, once my best friend turn on me because I told her that I didn't like her boyfriend, she thought I wanted to be hers but I honestly didn't. why do some girls have to be so mean to guys that really didn't do anything wrong to them. and why lie about your age? and why cheat and lie and have sex with people during a relationship and act as nothing is happening, I'm glad I found the girl of my dreams

2006-12-12 05:43:01 · 2 answers · asked by eclipsefreak 4 in Singles & Dating

Because this guy wants to know if I think it's bad and I wanted advice
THANKS!!

2006-12-12 05:41:55 · 14 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Singles & Dating

my best mate's turning 14 and he's havin a huge party what should i give him? my price range is between £10-£50

2006-12-12 05:41:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

www.fivelovelanguages.com describes 5 ways:
words of affirmation,
acts of service,
gifts,
quality time,
physical touch. Which one is your favorite way to express your love?

2006-12-12 05:41:50 · 9 answers · asked by pamgissa 3 in Marriage & Divorce

hes a mad head rocker, who comes up from north and im a relax person but never backs down in a fight.
hes one of these people who can snap at anything but im the worse at this because i could turn before you can say "I"!!
so who do you think would give up first? me or my better half?

2006-12-12 05:41:43 · 14 answers · asked by xx angel 3m xx 2 in Singles & Dating

are they perhaps scared of gettin germs by touchin the pan????
is it too heavy for the poor little solders??
or is it just sum sort of strange male ritiul that us women are destened never to understand??

2006-12-12 05:41:36 · 38 answers · asked by Quinn 4 in Singles & Dating

Ilove guy..he is my colleuce in college.he is so smart &so shy..he is looking to me all the time but he don,t talke with me ..how i can be sure if he love me or not??

2006-12-12 05:41:35 · 3 answers · asked by eve 1 in Singles & Dating

Everything I say to her she replies, ''i dont know''.
And when i say something or come up with an idea to do something togather she says, ''I dont want to do that, i dont what to go there, I dont want to see this...etc etc'' And when i ask her WHAT she wants instead, she says she doesn't know.
I thought maybe she's bored with me but she says she loves me when I bring this up.

This is getting really annoying, what should I do? :)

2006-12-12 05:41:18 · 31 answers · asked by who_knows 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am getting my Fiance' a ring for Christmas and I can Engrave it with up to 25 characters. That includes spaces. The ring is just because he has wanted one. Not really a promise ring but a ring just to show him I love him. I dont want to just write "I love you". Something original. Anyone have any ideas?

2006-12-12 05:40:21 · 5 answers · asked by Believe 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband's kids live with us.. Their mom has refused to pay child support, dissapoints the kids repeatedly but now they are trying to resolve the issues. My first priority is and always has been my husband and the kids... However, now that they are trying to resolve everything I feel that we should try and all get along for the kids sake. The thing is one of the kids is not speaking to his mom because he is really angry with her for something she has done. I want to help him get over it and try and move forward but is it my place and how do i help? I am trying to keep an open mind about his ex and am even going to invite her to our home for her youngest sons birthday party, but i dont know that my husband and my older step son are as easy to get over everything that has happened in the last year. What should I do to help this family? Or should I just butt out?

2006-12-12 05:40:07 · 18 answers · asked by luckygirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well i seem to act different around girls i find attractive...For example the other week i was at the mall n one asked me to come sit down next to her...I kinda ignored her and kept talkin to me friends then realized how stupid i was....I always have chances but i **** them upp....i get nervoues when im around attractive girls thinking that im not good enough for them....So even when i feel they like me i feel like i shouldnt bother...But then i end up regreting it later on....They end up thinking im TRYING to be rude to them when really im not...Im just nervous...And when i do talk to an attractive girl i dont really look into their eyes because im nervous and that also probably makes them think im not interested....How can i overcome this bullshit ? I ALWAYS end up regreting it after i miss my chance...

2006-12-12 05:40:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 05:39:51 · 8 answers · asked by andre m 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I been together 4 months we just had our first fight. It was bascially over money something real small. I haven't heard from him in 3 days should I call him or wait for him tocall me?

2006-12-12 05:39:15 · 13 answers · asked by Sexy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 05:38:30 · 10 answers · asked by robz 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well i have many problems as usual....but i have to rant on about it otherwise il get dperessed....my bf mum is highly fashionable and always in the gym....and im a size 14 [uk] and losing weight at the moment
anyway she was saying to my bf that saras abit `fat` well she didnt say those words [i dnt think he wouldve told me even if she did] but she was saying to him why dont i become more fashionable and also why am i not slim etc etc....she said sara needs to look nice and smart and slim on her wedding etc i can understand why she said it but i couldnt help but feel really down about it...he didnt tell me anything rude even though he wouldnt have told me anyway cos he knows itl hurt me....but i feel so inadequate now...i feel like im not good enuff for her son and im gettin paranoid that he will think im too fat too..even though hes never said it before but when i said il lose weight he didnt exaclty discourage me from it either....
i just feel down about it and because i feel bigg i tend to stick to wearing black and browns and so his mum was also saying why am i not fashionable enuff why dont i wea rbetter clothes...i know she doesnt have a right to say it maybe but she is right...i do want tod ress my age more im 22 but i dress like im 40. cos im so conscous of my wieght....
i need a makeover...[my face thank god is pretty enuff ...lol] but im feeling low about it all and dont know how to do a makeover, i tried wearing makeup but my bf said i look better without makeup on me, so i dont know what to do...im really feeling stuck.
ps...sorry i dont want to post another message my computer is very slow and frrezes often so hope you dont mind me having a rant about him here too...he used to be very possessive and wouldnt let me talk to guys or hang around with them.....now that hes maturing and chaging i find he lets me go out with mates as long as i dont associate myself with guys i just stick with the girls even if guys come with us...[i know you guys are thinkihng thats still posesive] but its not....he wouldnt let me breathe on my won before and now he is, im feeling bit left out and like he doesnt care anymore...though his possesiveness was not good, it showed atleast something that he was jealous and cared now hes abit more laid back im finding it hard to adjust amost like he doenst care anymore even though i think thats not the point....i almost wish he was back to his obsessivenes before [i used to complain about it all the time to him, and now i dont like him changing]
i dont know what to do about it im feelin paranoid as well as fat and just want to look better as well as feel better and i want my own life not always thinking about him and obseessing over what he is doing ......

2006-12-12 05:37:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i met this guy who is in a committed relationship and I have started to like him a whole lot...we have been spending a lot of time together for the past two months.........he has spent many nights over my house and he has a key.........i have started to have strong feelings for him but i dont know how he feels about me...he also has clothes over my house...he met most of my family...what shall i do.....

2006-12-12 05:37:16 · 13 answers · asked by whyme1026 1 in Singles & Dating

My live-in boyfriend of 3 years has suddenly become uninterested in sex in the past 2-3 months, and it's really getting on my nerves. He wasn't like this before, and he claims there's no reason for it other than being tired. He's been working at the same job, and working the same hours for over a year...so it's odd to me that he's suddenly so "tired" that he can't have sex.

I keep asking for sex, and he keeps saying "later"...but, of course, later never comes. He plays with this PS2 or watches TV until he falls asleep on the couch in the middle of the night.

What gives? This is ridiculous. I'm used to having sex on a regular basis, and now I'm lucky to get it twice a month. I'm not a cheater, so I won't go elsewhere. And the battery-operated boyfriend is OK sometimes, but it's not meant to be a permanent replacement for REAL c*ck!!

What should I do? I don't know what the problem is, and I'm at my wits end.

2006-12-12 05:37:09 · 32 answers · asked by heather_chavous 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was with the guy for four years.

2006-12-12 05:37:05 · 8 answers · asked by Katherine 2 in Singles & Dating

He used to chat all the time, then stopped (i think) Now i find out he is chattin/texting 4 or 5 different females in the middle of the night when i sleep. Says they are friends.....ones i never met or heard of. He's actin like its nothing, but i wouldnt feel comfortable doing that to him.....need input please.

2006-12-12 05:36:57 · 40 answers · asked by Brenda A 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a bf and like before i said he is a drug user and abusive but i odnt feel i can do any better. i am a big girl not big big but big. they are the only men i can seem to find. can i get tips from anyone to find a decent man or even how to make my self happier and better so i can find a decent man?

2006-12-12 05:36:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have never gotten along with my stepmom and she has never really liked me. With us constantly disliking each other it has made my relationship with my dad more difficult to have. I invited her to my wedding mostly to smooth things over with my dad, but that has back fired. She doesn't want anything to do with me. Which I am okay with except I know this is going to hurt my dad. Now I am wondering if my dad will come to my wedding at all.

2006-12-12 05:36:28 · 5 answers · asked by amanda w 2 in Family

as ive known a guy for just over a year and still no sign of him making a move i dont want to read into things. Hes fine round other girls but me he seems nervous round. Ive posted this on other sites and they think he isnt interested i hope not maybe hes like me too shy or cant face rejection

2006-12-12 05:35:53 · 16 answers · asked by Jo S 1 in Singles & Dating

i met this guy who is in a committed relationship and I have started to like him a whole lot...we have been spending a lot of time together for the past two months.........he has spent many nights over my house and he has a key.........i have started to have strong feelings for him but i dont know how he feels about me...he also has clothes over my house...he met most of my family...what shall i do.....

2006-12-12 05:35:52 · 11 answers · asked by whyme1026 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 05:35:43 · 33 answers · asked by lachicadecafe 4 in Singles & Dating

We're just going to go to a hugh road where thers all kinds of stuff to do inside and out. Bar's and shops............like a big party every Fri. and Sat. So it (a hat) wouldn't be out of place. But I don't think it's right to keep hiding it.

2006-12-12 05:35:07 · 10 answers · asked by Bob N 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke with my Gf of 3months because she always use to fight with me for no reason at all. She said its her nature and she cant help it. Later when i broked-off she said she realized from her heart tht it was her fault, and tht if i give her a second chance she would never ever let me down.

She hurted me terribly and tht my trust on her is totally broken, but now when she "pleads" to me i just cant see her that way coz i care for her.

So what you guys think? shall i take her back ? i mean will it be wise OR it will infact harm me in future by taking such a decision ?

Serious anwers plz

2006-12-12 05:34:36 · 34 answers · asked by Noel 1 in Singles & Dating

Well my parents want me to arrange marry when I finish collge and I really want to live my life first before I get stuck with someone what should I do???? I dont think I can marry a guy that I dont even know

2006-12-12 05:34:23 · 14 answers · asked by Jasmeen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-12 05:33:58 · 2 answers · asked by Hot chick 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 05:33:26 · 13 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating

lastweek when i want chruch this girl right. she thinks i like u. so when she came into the church she look at me in my eyes for like 10 secs and i look in her eyes for 10 secs. then after when chruch was so close to over the guy say lets go to pray and go home. she looks at me for like 15 secs when i about to left the chruch she look at me for like 20secs. then b4 that i want to the washroom and she told her firend i want to the washroom why was she looking at me.?

2006-12-12 05:32:17 · 13 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Singles & Dating