Not good at talkin to girls?

Question

Well i seem to act different around girls i find attractive...For example the other week i was at the mall n one asked me to come sit down next to her...I kinda ignored her and kept talkin to me friends then realized how stupid i was....I always have chances but i **** them upp....i get nervoues when im around attractive girls thinking that im not good enough for them....So even when i feel they like me i feel like i shouldnt bother...But then i end up regreting it later on....They end up thinking im TRYING to be rude to them when really im not...Im just nervous...And when i do talk to an attractive girl i dont really look into their eyes because im nervous and that also probably makes them think im not interested....How can i overcome this bullshit ? I ALWAYS end up regreting it after i miss my chance...

I also aint the type of person who really smiles...I heard girls like guys who smile alot ? I normaly look like im angry,when im
just normal...or happy

Answer 1

some girls like that...being ignored is a big turn on for attractive girls cuz we're not used to it :)

Don't be afraid of looking at them though...just be confident in yourself...girls don't care about "hot" or not "hot" we like personalities ;)...if your fun to talk to that makes you Hot!

Answer 2

well, girls have the same problem. I think the first thing you should do is to stop thinking that they are too good for you. You said attractive/pretty girls, so if they are talking to you then you must be good enough for them. If they actually have the nerve to tell you that you aren't then i wouldn't waste my time with them. I think the best way to approach a girl is as a friend. I mean like an everyday, what's up, how are you kinda friend. It sounds like you get nervous around girls and many girls like guys that they can feel comfortable with like they do their friends. If that doesn't sound good, you could always start off with a "hey" how are you. That tends to get the conversation started.

Answer 3

Force yourself to look them in the eyes and talk. Even if it comes out f**ked up it's better than nothing at all. Besides you can explain to them you have difficulty being out-going /aggressive around any women, and most will understand and even think it's kind of attractive.
I have been dating a man for the last month and he is extremely quiet and shy, (I still can't get him to talk dirty to me while we're having sex) I find it to be rather refreshing that he is not just like all the others a**hole guys with their macho bulls**t. Besides I kinda enjoy making him blush when he reads some of the graphic/agressive e-mails that I know how to create and send to him.
Actually we enhance each other because I'm aggressive enough for the both of us, and he slows me down a little and makes me think before I act, because I don't want to embarrass him or myself.
Don't short-change yourself by thinking you are not good enough for them, you never know when your behaviors will be a good influence for the both of you. Just be yourself and carry conversations based on normal everyday topics....things can and will evolve from there!!!!
Good Luck to You

Answer 4

Admitting you're nervousness usually helps...not right at first, or course. Start by introducing yourself, complement her on her hair or something, and remember to smile. Be confident, but let a little of that sheepishness show through (it looks cute). Talk about anything, like, if there's a tv screen, comment about what's on, or about the food...whatever.

If you're still nervous, go ahead and admit it; there's no shame. As for not being able to look a girl in the eye, start with small glances...you'll eventually make full eye contact.

Hope this helps!

Answer 5

next time a girl wants to talk to you go up to her in make casual talk ask her how she doing. Everyone is nervous is their own way to go up to someone but after you talk to her you begin to break the ice because if she really likes you she want care what you say she just trying to get to know you. Ask for her number talk on the phone then maybe you could ask her out to dinner just give it a try just be yourself and everything will be ok!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 6

tell me if you have ever seen this: passing by you there is the most beautiful girl you have ever seen and she is walking alone and you think she must have a good looking man with her, and then you see who she is walking to and she kisses this bad looking rather large man, then you wonder " HOW THE HECK DID HE END UP WITH THAT KIND OF WOMAN!!!!" well my friend let me tell you this, most man are afraid to talk to women and we miss our opportunity plenty of times just because we think " She is so pretty, that she would never look at me " and then we see this ugly guys kissing and grouping them, well let me tell you this women may look beautiful, but that doesnt mean they are unreachable, sometimes the most beautiful girls are the loneliest just because guys dont approach them since they are so beautiful, we just get scared, it happens to all of us but some just over come it and try their luck, all you have to do is talk to them, get close, and open your mouth, talk talk, if you get nervous she might even find it cute, dont feel bad just talk and soon yo will have your own beautiful companion.

Answer 7

al u need is CONFIDENCE! n u can build it by belivein in urself just Be Urself ..deres nothin rong wid u n STOP UNDER ESTIMATIn urself or else like u said u will regret it
u can always pass away a smile:)...n gals anit aliens :P dnt woryr dey wont hurt u :P so let ur self free n start ENJOYIN ur life b4 its toooo late

Answer 8

communicate approximately issues that are contained in the international immediately, browse diverse subjects she would desire to like e.g. activities, familiar information, celeb (on condition that shes unhappy), foodstuff,music,artwork,training, pastimes, hobbies. what's usually complicated is introducing and getting beginning. as quickly as you have all started the greater gentle you would be with woman.