Everything I say to her she replies, ''i dont know''.
And when i say something or come up with an idea to do something togather she says, ''I dont want to do that, i dont what to go there, I dont want to see this...etc etc'' And when i ask her WHAT she wants instead, she says she doesn't know.
I thought maybe she's bored with me but she says she loves me when I bring this up.
This is getting really annoying, what should I do? :)
2006-12-12 05:41:18 · 31 answers · asked by who_knows 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I dunno.
But my guess is that she's in a relationship to 'feed' her emotional batteries or whatever. She needs a relationship to give her something, -whatever that is. She's doesn't like stuff, -but can't put her finger on what she DOES want.
She's issues, and you're just a man. Concede defeat, - it's a bigger problem that you alone can solve. Move on, - no matter what she claims. Maybe in 10 years she'll be adequate to participate in a reciprocating relationship.
2006-12-12 05:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by MK6 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
this sounds like a girl thing; not that all girls do this but a lot do. It sounds like she doesn't know how to make up her mind. She may know what she doesn't want, but it sounds like she has trouble deciding what she does want. I do that too sometimes, but it's not out of boredom. Have you tried talking to her and asking her why she always says that? A good trick would be to tell her she can't give you that answer anymore. I've had guys tell me I had to give them a straight answer. When I know it bothers them that I don't, I usually try to stop sayin i don't know. It may or may not work, but it's a good try. But if all else fails, talking is usually the best answer.
2006-12-12 13:59:58 · answer #2 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief! Tell her you have decided to stop dating her and see other people. When she asks you why say "I don't know". This girl is useless and obviously not very interested in a relationship with you. She's marking time until something better comes along.
2006-12-12 13:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by hoosiergal0946 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it...if you cannot communicate then the relationship isn't going to go far anyway...if she REALLY doesn't know or doesn't care, then why waste time with her? Someone who knows nothing and has no opinions sounds pretty darned boring.
Sometimes we truly have no particular desire to do this or that...but if that's the standard answer, she's just waiting for you to do all the choosing and make all the decisions...not kewl or appealing...
2006-12-12 13:44:54 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her fine. Think of something to do or we are not going to do anything and just sit here until you can make your mind up. Perhaps she really doesn't know what to do, but also, tell her instead of shooting down your ideas to give them a chance and mention she is being highly selfish by acting like this.
2006-12-12 13:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this but yes she is bored. Maybe not just with you but it sounds like she's bored with everything. Quit asking her and just do it. Grab the bull by the horns and do it. If she doesn't like what your doing then let her decide what your going to do next time.
2006-12-12 13:47:07 · answer #6 · answered by fr2fish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly break up with her. Tell her you would rather have someone that wants to do something, anything other than say I don't know. It gets much more annoying the longer you let it go on trust me.
2006-12-12 13:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by Joey R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just wants you to make up plans and do things. Sometimes when my boyfriend doesn't do anything, i do the same thing with him, and finally he comes up with some plan or something. She is doing this just to know if u are willing to do anything for ur relationship and keep it going, rather than she deciding everything.
2006-12-12 13:46:58 · answer #8 · answered by ssss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow both of you are in a diferent page...And sometimes even a person don't want to something the other one suggested Still that person will say Ok because that person loves the other one and wants to make it happy...Is like given and take...
2006-12-12 13:45:46 · answer #9 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like a level of aggressiveness, if she's saying she doesn't know to everything, it means she wants you to make up her mind for her but at the same time she expects you to know what she enjoys. Try surprising her one day with something you know she likes to do and taking her to her favorite place to eat, playing her favorite game or letting her pick out the movie to watch...make it her special day, she'll losen right up.
2006-12-12 14:33:27 · answer #10 · answered by GrayMatters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋