2006-12-12 05:35:43 · 33 answers · asked by lachicadecafe 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Realize that relationships with other people are NEVER within your control.Unless you did something to cause your breakup,and really even if you did,raise your chin,find happiness in something and get on with your life. Remember life turns on a dime !!
2006-12-12 05:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey everyone has at one time or another. Actually this person just did you a favor, because if you broke up, this isn't the right one for you anyway. They just saved you a lot of wasted time, so now use your new found time to go search for the right one. How do you know it is the right one? I think you will just know. Where do you find the right one? I'm guessing you are female, I don't know for sure. Where are all the guys? They are everywhere. Go and hang out where the guys are. Join a gym, the place is full of guys, ask them to help you learn how to use an exercise machine. Take up golf and go to a driving range, 99% of the people there are men, ask them for some pointers, they all will help you. Go to a sporting event, tons of guys there. Where you will not find anyone is sitting in your apartment or house feeling sorry for yourself, because you will be the only one feeling sorry for yourself.......so get up and go outside and do something. Join a bowling league, tons of fun and lots of guys there, and no one cares if you don't know how to bowl. Go to a park and go for a walk everyday, and meet new people. It's all up to you, just get in the habit of doing something everday, even if it is something that you have never done in your life, don't be afraid to try something new. And in a few months or maybe a little longer, you will be good as new!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-12 05:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by besthusbandever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get gussied up, grab your best girl friend (or two) and have a raunchy good time at your favorite bar or club. Get smashed and do NOT go home with that handsome stranger over there. Make sure your girls are keeping their eyes on you. Repeat twice weekly for 3-5 months.
I also enjoy bubble baths, bottle of wine, and some sad, sad music. If you're in the mood for wallowing, that is.
2006-12-12 05:44:45 · answer #3 · answered by Girl with Kaleidoscope Eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set a specific time aside, maybe 1 weekend, and have a break down, cry, watch Steal Magnolias, ect. Then after your specified time to wallow is over pick yourself up and move on; if he dumped you he is not worth your energy. I'm not saying that the pain will completely go away after a weekend but you will be surprised how much better you will feel and after that it just takes time.
2006-12-12 05:42:36 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself busy. Go out with friends. Don't do anything alone that can remind you of your ex. Take down all the pictures of him. Most importantly give it time. You just got out of a relationship it's gonna hurt. Better that you know now and can move on sooner than find out later down the line. Good luck.
2006-12-12 05:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to involve yourself in activities. This way you will be too busy to think about him. Have a girls night out, or go out dancing. Keep yourself busy. Trust me if it is meant to be you two will get back together. But dont spend this time hoping that he will take you back because sometimes it just doesn't happen like that. Good luck. Just think of it as his loss!!!
2006-12-12 05:42:09 · answer #6 · answered by smartcutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break ups are always hard. Don't be hard on yourself, if he dumped you then he wasn't worth it. You will go through a grieving process but you must go on with your life, you will find someone worthy of your charms and your love.
Good luck!
2006-12-12 05:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. But please replace your question, "How do I go on with my life" with "How do I get over it and move on". Its all about attitude. I won't insult you with cliches about there being lots more fish in the sea...that won't help you right now. But giving yourself one week to feel sorry for yourself will help. At the end of the week - you have to move on. Go out with friends, do all the things you enjoy doing. Its like a mourning period - don't ignore it, but do limit it. Life goes on.
2006-12-12 05:38:38 · answer #8 · answered by Super Ruper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look the only thing that is going to make you feel better is time. Time heals all wounds. But, you need to get out with your friends and keep your mind off of it. Have fun!!
2006-12-12 06:06:33 · answer #9 · answered by Jody 829 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you won't think this contrite, but when God shuts one door He usually opens a window for you.
In other words, have faith that things will work out for the best. Dust yourself off and pick yourself up and start all over again.
2006-12-12 05:37:48 · answer #10 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋