He used to chat all the time, then stopped (i think) Now i find out he is chattin/texting 4 or 5 different females in the middle of the night when i sleep. Says they are friends.....ones i never met or heard of. He's actin like its nothing, but i wouldnt feel comfortable doing that to him.....need input please.
2006-12-12 05:36:57 · 40 answers · asked by Brenda A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's an addiction and he needs help.
2006-12-12 05:38:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is disrespectful for a person to talk online or in person to other women. Ask him what they provide for him that you don't. He's filling a space and/or outright cheating on you. The online chatting is probably not all innocent when it's in the middle of the night like that and you are asleep. His place is in bed with you and if he wants something he should wake you up for it.... not turn to other women.
Don't listen to any excuses. Guys and gals who do that are always justifying it, rationalizing it, etc. Confront him and don't let him get away with it.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-12 05:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theoretically, it will be achievable to love a guy/gal by this technique even with the undeniable fact that it truly is continually somewhat demanding because it truly is a lengthy distance relationship, both human beings do not comprehend what the different sounds like, what their actual habit are like, or spending actual time at the same time to be certain in the adventure that they are nicely proper. yet, if a relationship has pastime, dedication, and intimacy then it truly is achievable. communique is likewise very needed in any relationship and that i imagine that area is checked sparkling.
2016-11-25 23:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a douchebag and needs to boost his own ego by chatting online with 4 to 5 different women.
2006-12-12 05:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by Paul M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not commited to you. If he really loved you and was happy with just having you in his life he would not chat w/other female you don't know while you sleep. He acts like it's nothing because he does not want you to make him stop.
2006-12-12 05:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants you to be around,,,as a pass time thats why he says he loves you,,,and on the other hand,,he is chatting up with grls and hooking up with them. thats cheating, if he really loves you.
If you think he really loves you and ,,those grls r just friends...then you start doing the same...and see how he reacts..who knows in this process you might find someone much better than him.Good lcuk!
2006-12-12 05:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by jinie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference between love and lust. He may truly be in love with you but may have extra lustful desires. He may or may not wish to pursue them. Best thing you can do, is talk. Then you will know what to talk about next, and if that will be a problem.
2006-12-12 05:41:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mike A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband has an online addiction and we're in counseling about it now. You need to get him help otherwise it's going to ruin your relationship. A lot of the time men and women talk online to build their egos up if they have bad self- esteem
2006-12-12 05:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by akamoonpie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand your concern and i know how uncomfortable it can makes you. I think that he should respect how it makes you feel, And try to find a solution so you don't feel like this.
Know your worth and what you want. You don't have to settle for that. Life is to short. You can't change a person so don't waste you life trying.
2006-12-12 05:49:04 · answer #9 · answered by Thebronx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Addictions can do strange things to people. I know many married people who are addicted to chatting or even Pornography. It is very serious.
I would seek addiction or family counseling. It could get worse before it gets better.
Good luck!
2006-12-12 05:40:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start doing it to him and see how he feels... If hes cool with it, then he probably really is just friends with those girls, But if he gets mad about it, then you have a reason to doubt him and wonder why he is really doing that in the first place. I know I wouldnt like it, so be careful. Good luck sweets!
2006-12-12 05:38:40 · answer #11 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋