i met this guy who is in a committed relationship and I have started to like him a whole lot...we have been spending a lot of time together for the past two months.........he has spent many nights over my house and he has a key.........i have started to have strong feelings for him but i dont know how he feels about me...he also has clothes over my house...he met most of my family...what shall i do.....
2006-12-12 05:35:52 · 11 answers · asked by whyme1026 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are a booty call.
I have a guy in my family who is doing this same thing on his wife.
The girl thinks she could "one day be the one" when in reality she is a piece o azz. He enjoys her company and the crap she buys him like 150.00 sneakers and tickets to games and in return she feels "loved".
In reality she is getting F*uc-e/d and soon to be dumped when he up and moves next year with his family.
2006-12-12 05:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by Peter X. Long 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is in a committed relationship. Hmmm, let's see. He has clothes at your house and I'm guessing that you have been friends with benefits!
Honey, if he is being unfaithful in his current relationship, don't you think that he might be unfaithful to you if you two hook-up?
I would suggest that you start pulling yourself away and get into a relationship with someone that will respect a relationship. You should never have to play second fiddle.
2006-12-12 05:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by PK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run. If he's in a "committed" relationship, he wouldn't be staying over at your house. From the sound of it, it seems like he's interested in you, but consider this. If you got into a relationship with him, what's to stop him from finding someone else to spend time with apart from you?
2006-12-12 05:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
back off because of the fact how might you experience in case you the place in a courting with somebody who's spending time with yet another women people who has thoughts for him. placed your self in the different women people's shoes additionally what comes around is going around have faith me so do not do something which you do not choose it to occurred to you . it additionally looks like he's applying you he has his outfits at your place why might he ask your self that and he has a key he may well be applying you for a place to stay while he gets right into a controversy together with his lady chum i might take the considerable back and tell him to take his outfits with him... what you're doing is misguided and you recognize it no guy it is in a committed courting may well be spending the night at yet another females abode that he basically met i don't know undemanding undemanding approaches to love a guy and choose directly to be with him understanding in case you replaced into his lady chum and you found out how might you may experience it style of looks such as you're leaving on fake hopes because of the fact even though in case you get with him he will do it to you..... you're able to have extra admire for your self and awaken
2016-12-11 07:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by casco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do know how this makes you look right? It makes you look like a homewrecker and he looks like a jackass. But, here's some advise if you are willing to take it or not.
Let him be, do not spend all this time with him. It's not fair to his girlfriend, and it's not fair to you. You want someone your own, not someone who belongs to someone else.
Be curtious of others and how they feel, like his girlfriend if she was to ever find out about him spending all this time with you.
Are you sleeping with him? Does she even know about the quality time you two spend together?
Please be wise about this!
Krazy Libra
2006-12-12 05:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a home wrecker and you will go to hell. You should tell him to choose between her and you and when he chooses her b/c you are just his hoe on the side then you can move on and learn your lesson about being a stupid slutty hoe. Good luck with that. Oh and I don't think you understand what committed relationship is...look it up so you don't get confused anymore.
2006-12-12 05:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by Lovely Lady 27 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is definitely a player, how can you trust him knowing he can do the same thing to you . leave this guy alone he is trouble, what if you were the girlfriend and this was happening to you behind your back. if he can cheat on her he will do the same to you. date and meet guys that aren't in a relationship, then no one will get hurt!!!!!! men that like that cake and eat it to are walking STD's.
2006-12-12 05:43:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get out of that situation take your key back you are not a stepping stone it ain't going to work
2006-12-12 05:41:20 · answer #8 · answered by sam i am 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should find your own man. if this guy EVER leaves his chick what makes you think you are so special that he won't do the same thing to you down the line.
2006-12-12 05:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends but you should not show your feelings
2006-12-12 05:39:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋