Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

Am setting up a get together for a family that lost their mother 4 years ago and want to use flowers around the table. Nd to know which flower symbolizes rememberances.....

2006-12-12 06:34:54 · 3 answers · asked by Linda S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

there is this guy that i have been friends with for over 4 years. well i started having feelings for him more than that. so we started to date. we dated for like three months and then he broke up with me because he said that he really did not wanna be with me anymore and then we just fooled around with each other after that. now i am so crazy over him it is not even funny. now he has girlfriend now but he still comes over on the weekends and he tells me that he loves me and that he wants to be with me. and he will cheat on her with me. but then when the week rolls around he is all for his girlfriend. what should i do?

2006-12-12 06:34:43 · 22 answers · asked by Jay C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He gets very defensive about stuff, says I'm treating him like he's stupid. Discussions escalate into him yelling at me and calling me names - sometimes he looks like he wants to hit me (he hasn't yet.) I end up crying and he ends up apologizing - using that he is "stressed out" as an excuse. Then it happens all over again in a couple of weeks or so. And the worst part is we have a baby. I know this isn't good. These little episodes hurt my heart and affect our relationship after the fact too. I'm not scared of him, I just want him to grow up. Can he change? How? Should I leave?

2006-12-12 06:34:39 · 36 answers · asked by beth b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to write something to dear a dear friend of mine in english just to thank him for everything but the problem i don't speak english verry well and i don't know how to write this in a nice way please if you can do me a favour just write for me in english like a test tell him how much i care for him as a frind and thank him verry much plzzzzzz thxxx alot

2006-12-12 06:33:24 · 9 answers · asked by blair 1 in Friends

I am dating this guy that I have only been seeing about 2 months today. I am really not into him because of his childish behavior and attitude and how much I feel like he is sufficating me. Every time we get into an argument he runs to his mother and has her come talk to me because he doesnt do anything for himself he has his mother do everything for him. Every day he blows my phone up with calls and texts and gets so upset if he does not kno where I am 24/7. I clean his mothers house every Saturday and she happened to over hear me talking to my friend telling her that I was planning on breaking up with her son. She asked me to please wait until the holidays were over taht she didnt want my bf to be depressed during the holiday and I told her I would, but he only keeps getting worse with his attitude and he wont give me anyspace. I feel like I am going to scream....Please tell me what you think I should do. Should I wait or should I just tell him now?

2006-12-12 06:32:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He got a huge promotion, and now, he has this one friend he hangs out with literally more than me, drinks to the point he can't keep both eyes open or talk right, spends all of our money at bars ($150-$350/wk) so we can't pay our bills. He has told me to get a real job, I watch our godson for $100/Wk, (he told me I needed to make $100/wk so I did, now it'snot enough). He says I"m unhappy, I'm not, only when he goes out and I never see him. He complains that none of our bills get paid, but he just pulls money from the atm and goes out, then blames me. I am looking for a part time 3rd shift job, but I've told him that I don't want to support his habits with my check. At one point he suggested marriage counselling and I said no, now, I'm starting to think that it may be my dream come true but his worst nightmare considering his drinking and occasional other bad habits. I don't know what to do. My mom has told me to talk to his mom (right) and to move out until he straightens out??????

2006-12-12 06:32:35 · 10 answers · asked by Jase 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-12 06:32:27 · 53 answers · asked by dewdrop 1 in Singles & Dating

If U were in the middle of sex and the girl said hold on " I have to go poop" and got up went to the bathroom and came back 15 minutes later.....jumped back in bed and said ok. " where were we now" and started kissin U and stuff what would U do?

2006-12-12 06:31:57 · 39 answers · asked by jeffmarcelluspbl 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong to be completely and totally in love with a married woman..even if you do not act on it? Even if you have been feeling this for a couple of years?

2006-12-12 06:31:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i due to get married in july next year but i need some where to have the evening do any suggestions i live in leicester!

2006-12-12 06:31:06 · 7 answers · asked by joanne v 1 in Weddings

i have a crush on this guy for quite a while now, i only see him at the club where we both go occasionally, the thing is, he keeps staring and looking at me, maybe he likes me, but he never really said anything, even my friends noticed that he gives me those looks..(God i like him!!) and there's no way i could go talk coz simply there's nothing common between both of us.. any ideas?

2006-12-12 06:30:58 · 9 answers · asked by NiMO gurL! 2 in Singles & Dating

She's older than me and Im under her care (legally) but she keeps poking into my business and I cant get her to give me more privacy
what should I do?

2006-12-12 06:30:28 · 7 answers · asked by UndeadNitemare 2 in Family

2006-12-12 06:29:48 · 5 answers · asked by Hotness 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister whom im really close to and her daughter has gotten into a heated arguement and the daughter didnt want to send her children to her mothers anymore and both of them were calling me for advice and I told them.I am not taking sides but I will listen to you both.They asked me to relay messages back and forth which I knew I shouldnt because I would get the blame for things said..But I did anyways..Know since the mother and daughter made up but denies saying the things she said because she got caught in a lie and wont fess up so she tells her mom that I (Me) am lieing and she never said any of them things...So the daughter calls me up wanting to start an arguement to make herself look good and I knew she was going to do thins and I was prepared 4 her to call..We got into it on the phone Bad and I called her a lieing biach and I will not speak to her again until she tells the truth and admits that she DID say all them things.She denies them and I know she is lieing.What should IDo

2006-12-12 06:29:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband has 2 kids from a previous relationship and I have 1 from a previous relationship. I moved 100 miles south of my hometown & family so that my hubby could live near his kids. We have tickets to a ballgame and will be out of town for a couple days and we need someone to keep my son overnight while we're gone. My parents don't get to see my son much and they want to keep him so I asked my hubby if he'd take him there and he said no, it was too far. Ok, I work about 8 hours a day and have to drive 1 hr & 15 min. to get there. My hubby only works about 5 hours a day and gets paid for his driving time. He is home much earlier than me. He says he has to be back home in time to take his son to ball practice which I offered to take him cause i'll be home by then. He says I'm just feeling sorry for myself because he won't help me out. I thought in marriage you were suppose to help one another?

2006-12-12 06:29:02 · 20 answers · asked by rideabanjopicker 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I wanna go to the movie with this guy that used to work with me.we go to different school locally so the only time I'd see him is where I work, at a grocery store. So the convo would probably be short and sweet.that's where I am going for but not to seem aggressive.I wanna be natural and laid back.what should I say before I ask him about the movie.We both love fantasy/sci fi (which the movie is) he's 22. I am 24. he's not too confident with girls but that's fine. so any ideas of what I can say leading up to asking him to the movie?

2006-12-12 06:28:50 · 6 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 06:28:31 · 13 answers · asked by Gucci 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-12 06:27:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

should i take a chance?okay, so it's sort of a question. So, I met this guy on the internet. it's weird because I never figured I'd actually meet anyone, it was just more of a friends thing. Now we are only friends but we tend to talk about stuff that friends don't really talk about unless they like each other more than that. Well, he did tell me that he liked me and I told him the same. We met by chance really, and found out that we live about 6 hrs apart. he's in the Army but not in active duty. Now we've been talking for maybe 5 months now, but we've never met in person. We checked each other out and we're not worried about either one of us being some 40 yr old pervert pretending to be younger. He mentioned to me numerous times that he would like to meet me, but I don't know if I should. I mean it's just something I wouldn't normally do and I'm not one of those people who takes a lot of chances. Should i take a chance and meet him?
I think so but I'm not sure

2006-12-12 06:27:56 · 7 answers · asked by angelicasongs 5 in Singles & Dating

will i ever find the guy for me....cute, funny, nice, sweet, but not all the time. are u him??? how will i know if its the right guy.

2006-12-12 06:27:50 · 13 answers · asked by Tammi 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this certain guy for 3 years and and I am his support system. I mean his mother died in a car accident when he was 17, then his step-mom died in March of last year, he only knew her for 5 years. He is a paranoid sychophric, he takes his medication, and often goes though these phases where he doesn't feel like talking to anyone, including his girlfirend for 1 or 2 weeks. But, the problem is I care about him a lot and want to take care of him, I try to take care of people. I mean if I had his problem, then I would want to have friends that would always be around me no matter how bad I treated them.

2006-12-12 06:27:35 · 1 answers · asked by amazon 4 in Singles & Dating

they r the best gift from god...we should care abt them

2006-12-12 06:27:02 · 73 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a relative who is getting married and wants to wear her mother's emerald ring on her wedding day. Should she wear it on her right hand, her engagement ring on the left hand, and have the groom place the wedding band on top of the engagement ring? Or, should she just not wear her engagement ring at all?

2006-12-12 06:26:54 · 19 answers · asked by duritzgirl4 5 in Weddings

There is this girl that I like and we;re really good friends.. Recently she's gone abroad to study but I have been calling her just to chat to her and she sounds really happy when I'm speaking to her.. How do I tell her that I like her and would like to take things forward.. i will have to do it over the phone so I need creative ideas.. Something unique from some girls would be great !!

2006-12-12 06:26:47 · 2 answers · asked by mmm 1 in Singles & Dating

Think of this as a survey and keep elaboration to a minimun. The question is asked because women seem to believe men find overweight more attractive.

2006-12-12 06:26:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont know whats wron with me, My husband can the nicest man in the world but there are times when he is the worst person! he makes me feel guilty of everything he is still learning english and he tellos me its my fault he hasnt learned it till now because I dont teach him and that he hasnt been able to use his palm organizer that I gave him because I havent shown him how to use it.. etc stuff like that... I really try my best and it hurts me that he doesnt recognize what I do and have done for him. hes 33 and Im 21.
Is it really my fault? we both have 2 full time jobs. so its not like I stay at home and do nothing like his mother who lives with us for free.
The worst part is that he gets really mad when i cry, and I swear I try the hardest for my tears not to fall but I cant I think im very sensible. what can I do to try to be stronger and not cry and to able to put up with this.

2006-12-12 06:26:04 · 9 answers · asked by ♥*´`*•. mommy♥*´`*•. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so me n my ex have started talkin we do love each other but sumtimes i jsut get the feelin htat he does not care cuz he dont realy show any effort wen we arent together. i have made mistakes wit him n he has made mistakes wit me. i do need to earn his trust bak cuz i lied bout sum stupid stuff to get his attention in the past. i talked to him bout this and he says he loves me very much n i mean everything to him he told me he knows he doesnt show it but he feels it. how do i kno hes not jsut usingme he says hes not n i think i trust his words cuz i kno he has never lied to me before. i asked him if he was using me for sex n he sed he wud never do htat to me n he has sex wit me cuz he loves me. but i dunno i jsut feel uneasy bout it all cuz we are not togehtert with the title. its jsut really unstable. wat do u think? we were each other first loves n i know he loves me but how do i kno im not just a fill in for now? plz help!! i jsut need sum real god advice. thanks.

2006-12-12 06:25:17 · 7 answers · asked by Fahion_Gal 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 06:24:28 · 37 answers · asked by Bob B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you wear your jeans a little tight, just to watch the little boys come undone?? hehe

2006-12-12 06:24:19 · 7 answers · asked by lisa s 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am a very patient person who is in a relationship with someone who is imbalanced. i take a lot of verbal abuse and realize it is not realistic. when her episode is over she is the sweetest most apologetic person in the world... says she wants help, appreciates me for being there and supporting her.... says it's not her.... this is what holds me, i see what she wants, and who she is at that point. we're engaged, there is a lot of love there. i'm 32 about to semi retire. i need more stability with her. if someone reads this that has been through this or is a professional please help. this is starting to take too much out of me. SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE.

2006-12-12 06:23:49 · 3 answers · asked by E 1 in Other - Family & Relationships