I wanna go to the movie with this guy that used to work with me.we go to different school locally so the only time I'd see him is where I work, at a grocery store. So the convo would probably be short and sweet.that's where I am going for but not to seem aggressive.I wanna be natural and laid back.what should I say before I ask him about the movie.We both love fantasy/sci fi (which the movie is) he's 22. I am 24. he's not too confident with girls but that's fine. so any ideas of what I can say leading up to asking him to the movie?
2006-12-12 06:28:50 · 6 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, going through something of almost the same nature. Sweet, nerdry, quiet, unassuming guy I am interested in. I found out his days off, so I will text him, wishing him a good day off.
I got him a christmas present when I was out of town. It was one of those, when I saw it, I had to get it for him, it screamed his name, and it gave me an excuse to see him.
If you see something that you know he will like, that screams his name, get it for him. But, only if you know he will truly appreciate it. My friend did, he said he had actually been looking for something just like that, and I saved him time.
Next time you talk to him, ask him to meet you for some coffee. Be honest, but subtle. Tell him you enjoy his company, and intellectual conversation, and value your friendship.
You are going to have to start back on touchy ground, considering you dated him once before, the only thing is, y'all know each other a bit, so that is an advantage, or disadvantage, depending on how you look at it.
I am not sure how up-front you are about things. When it's a movie I know he's interested in, I ask him point-blank, hey, this movie is coming out, wanna catch it with me? Sometimes we do, sometimes we don't, but.
Don't know if this helped you any, or not, but, hope you all the luck!
2006-12-12 07:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by raydeeo_face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start the conversation as u usually would then smoothly go into it like this "So I know u like fantasy/sci fi movies and I am bout to go see one tonight would u like to come with me? The worst thing he could say is no but I highly doubt he will
2006-12-12 06:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say ''oh...i saw that this fantastic movie is coming soon on movie theaters!! isnt that amazing? i really wanna go see it!!....hey i thought you like this kind of films....omg...do you wanna come with me? it will be fun! besides i think you will love that movie!!''...thats a good way! oh try to act like an actress!!!! you know..make your speech more alive so it seems natural! good luck hun..
2006-12-12 06:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by ursula!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I should start by chatting to him about his work, then go onto talking about films, then just ask if he`d like to go see a film with you as you don`t like going on your own.
2006-12-12 06:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by Tatty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just come right out and ask? It sounds like you already know each other, so it shouldn't be awkward for you to be straight foward.
2006-12-12 06:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask how his been then ask if him if he seen a preveiw for a movie that looks good to see then ask if he would want to go see that movie with u
2006-12-12 06:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by Kisa_wa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋