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should i take a chance?okay, so it's sort of a question. So, I met this guy on the internet. it's weird because I never figured I'd actually meet anyone, it was just more of a friends thing. Now we are only friends but we tend to talk about stuff that friends don't really talk about unless they like each other more than that. Well, he did tell me that he liked me and I told him the same. We met by chance really, and found out that we live about 6 hrs apart. he's in the Army but not in active duty. Now we've been talking for maybe 5 months now, but we've never met in person. We checked each other out and we're not worried about either one of us being some 40 yr old pervert pretending to be younger. He mentioned to me numerous times that he would like to meet me, but I don't know if I should. I mean it's just something I wouldn't normally do and I'm not one of those people who takes a lot of chances. Should i take a chance and meet him?
I think so but I'm not sure

2006-12-12 06:27:56 · 7 answers · asked by angelicasongs 5 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

oh yeah, i didn't mention the age. Okay, he's 19 and I'm 18 turning 19 on x-mas. I'm usually a VERY cautious person and I was just wondering what anyone else would think.

2006-12-12 06:48:51 · update #1

oh...i talked to my best friend and she suggested that I take someone with me. I would definitely take her and/or a group of friends and I'd tell someone where I was going. I told him that I wasn't sure about meeting him because of all the stuff that happens nowadays and he told me he wasn't that kind of person, but i'd rather be safe and take some friends.

2006-12-12 06:51:35 · update #2

7 answers

Sure, take a chance and meet him. I met the love of my life online, and you'll never know if he's all you think he is unless you meet in person. It sounds like you have already taken the time to get to know more about each other via internet, that is smart. If his intentions weren't good, he probably would have moved on by now. Only thing is, when you meet him & spend time together for the first time, absolutely do it in a public place. Keep the first meeting casual, save the romance for future meetings. Being safe is the issue here. Good luck!

2006-12-12 06:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by harlowtoo 5 · 0 1

you did give out your age but i think if he's too older than you then don't.I mean if you don't want a relationship with an older man.It's better to deal with an age mate.Most of the people you meet on the Internet are some crazy opportunist who could put your life in danger.There are a lot of risk associated with meeting these Internet friends.If you still want to meet him,don't give him your home address or home phone number for security reasons.you don't want to be harassed if you don't like him.Meet him at a public place and avoid secluded locations.Don't get in his car or let him drop you off at home.These will help you find the necessary help if need be.On the day that you will meet him,let a friend or a close relative know about where you are going and keep your cellphone with you.Good luck...and take care

2006-12-12 14:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by Phy A 5 · 1 0

Sure why not? It could be an opportunity of a life time. BUT be careful and meet in a public place with perhaps some other friends and make sure you tell someone where you are going and stuff like that, just in case.

2006-12-12 14:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by MiMi 3 · 0 1

go for it..... just be sure to make your meeting place someplace during the day and public for the first time. If you need to stay in a hotel near where he is stationed, then don't let him know where you are staying. It will probably work out fine, but just in case, no sense in not being catious :-P

2006-12-12 14:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by captainkirkwood 2 · 0 1

sure go ahead, but make sure you go with some freinds, and meet in a neutral location just incase he is a psycho..... you never know. After the first meeting if you are comfortable have him come out to see you on your turf a few times before you venture out to his the first time

2006-12-12 14:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

sure go ahead and meet him just be ready to accept the consequences maybe you should take a friend just in case

2006-12-12 14:32:02 · answer #6 · answered by Jo Clever 3 · 0 1

NO.

2006-12-12 14:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by friends4ever 2 · 1 0

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