there is this guy that i have been friends with for over 4 years. well i started having feelings for him more than that. so we started to date. we dated for like three months and then he broke up with me because he said that he really did not wanna be with me anymore and then we just fooled around with each other after that. now i am so crazy over him it is not even funny. now he has girlfriend now but he still comes over on the weekends and he tells me that he loves me and that he wants to be with me. and he will cheat on her with me. but then when the week rolls around he is all for his girlfriend. what should i do?
2006-12-12 06:34:43 · 22 answers · asked by Jay C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's a baby and so are you. Just don't get pregnant -- both of you are children, too young for parenthood. Stay friend if you wish but OMG don't get pregnant. either get on the pill, or carry condoms in your purse....
Frankly, in your place, I'd just dump him...
2006-12-12 06:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, He is obviosly a player! He is using you for personal satisfaction telling you all these pretty things making you feel good and flattering you, but then after he gets what he wants he leaves you for his girlfriend! I'm sure the only reason why you like him so much is because you feel like you cant fully "have him" . Thats all . if you dont want to get heart broken in the near future cut off this connection.
2006-12-12 06:49:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on how much you care for this person. Are you willing to wait a bit? He is confussed. Are you his first male experience? There is a lot unanswered but based on what you type, the minute you close your doors and he is pressured into making a decision, I think you have a good chance of getting the guy. Almost every guy likes a challenge, if you are not a challenge to him, that's why he is treating you the way he is. Most importantly, you should think about yourself first at this point.
2006-12-12 06:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by E! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
EVERYBODY DESERVES TO BE HAPPY. YOU ALSO DESERVE A MAN THAT WILL GIVE YOU HIS WHOLE UNDIVIDED ATTENTION. DO YOU LIKE THE SITUATION YOU ARE INTO NOW? I AM SURE THAT YOU DON'T! AND YOU ARE RIGHT. YOU ARE, OR AT LEAST YOU WERE FRIENDS, SO THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO IS TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL, HOW HE IS HURTING YOU WITH HIS BEHAVIOUR. HE HAS TO AKE UP HIS MIND AND DECIDE WHETHER HE WANTS TO BE WITH YOU OR NOT! IF HE DOESN'T- THEN OK. IT'S TIME FOR YOU TO MOVE ON AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL DEVOTE HIMSELF TO YOU ONLY AND WOULD FEEL THE SAME WAY FOR YOU! YOU DESERVE TO BE RESPECTED AND LOVED!
2006-12-12 06:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by Stella 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YOU want a relationship..HE does not. HE wants YOU as a fook buddy which is why he says he loves you so you'll stick around.
Be a man and say your good byes and move on.
You won't though...being the typical gay guy that you are..you'll stay around just hoping things will change.
2006-12-12 07:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is keeping you around because he can....you allow him to have a girlfriend, but keep you on the side. If you don't get away, this is where the situation will stay at, with him happy and you devastated...
2006-12-12 06:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by Cresh69 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you want to continue to be his doormat, then by all means stay with him for your weekend thing. IF you want a real relationship, try someone who'll make that commitment to you.
2006-12-12 07:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by chicchick 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell his girlfriend to breakup with him because she is messing with a man who is in the highest risk category of catching HIV / AIDS...
2006-12-12 06:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
RUN TO THE NEAREST EXIT DEAR!!
This guy is playing with your heart. He is a two face and asshole!!
Forget about him and move on..
Oh I suggest you to run the sooner the better!
2006-12-12 06:48:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on with your life. You could do better. Nobody wants to be the second choice.
2006-12-12 07:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by patty m 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋