..But yet a lot of us single people. I believe it becomes a curse, we get accustomed being alone.
2006-12-12 06:09:16 · 10 answers · asked by bob 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BECAUSE NO ONE CAN FIGURE OUT WHAT THEY WANT IN LIFE, NO MATTER HOW SMART THEY ARE.
2006-12-12 06:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by Erika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a curse, there are married people who are lonely, you can be in a room full of people and feel very lonely, maybe we do get accustom being alone but i believe once we don't start talking to ourselves then we are ok.
2006-12-12 14:17:35 · answer #2 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a few different things- one is self esteem- some people think that others are just not attracted to them for one reason or another. Maybe because of achne, but do they try achne treatments? no. Some worry it is because of weight, do they try to loose it or bulk up? no. They just complain that every one is shallow, yet they are not willing to improve themselves. And it is not about trying to "catch" someone, when you improve on yourself, you feel better about yourself, which eludes confidence and that is sexy.
There are those people that when they start to get lonely they become work-a-holics. They loose track of any reality that is not related to their work, using their apartment only for sleeping at.
I am sure there are also some that have emotional problems, ya know, bad past relationship, so when new people talk to them they clam up, or do the opposite and become irrate, making them...unaproachable.
So many reasons for people being lonely and everyone wants to blame it on some one other than themselves, and incase any of you are wondering, I am single myself so this does not come from some one in a relationship- I also have 3 kids as baggage, yet know some one is out there for me. stop letting lonliness be your crutch of depression, get out there and live your life.
2006-12-12 14:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by allaboutme_333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alone does not = lonely...many single (alone) people aren't lonely...and many people in relationships, are terribly lonely.
I'm single and feel lonely on occasion, but overall I'm not a lonely person...I have friends and family, travel and have hobbies/interests...it would be kewl to have someone (romantic) to share Life with, but since I don't there's no point in bemoaning that fact or letting myself get bummed or wallow in lonliness over it...
This life is as good and fun as we make it...why choose to be lost in lonliness?
2006-12-12 14:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am single but i am not alone. i like the fact i have a lot of friends to hang out with, go out on an occasional date, but i do enjoy having my time to do what i like to do and go where i want to go without having to ask anyone whever i can or not.
and for those necessaties in life, tehy are taken care of.
2006-12-12 14:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by lasalle_1986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a female point of view, it's because guys won't take the time to look past a woman's appearance to see her heart.
2006-12-12 14:36:29 · answer #6 · answered by postcardtrader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are too busy on the internet and they seldom go out.
2006-12-12 14:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curse? I'm married you want that?!!
2006-12-12 14:12:45 · answer #8 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know but im lonely and i dont like it and i dont want 2 stay this way
2006-12-12 14:12:29 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats all you know then, it is right to you. right?
2006-12-12 14:13:24 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋