Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

Me and my guy been together and our sex life has been GREAT...but i left for college and came back two months later and we made love i mean everything was perfect...the atmosphere music and no one was home..and then i went back to college and came back home about two weeks later and we made love but this time it wasnt so great like the other times. It was still the perfect atmosphere, perfect music and everything but he couldnt stay on hard...do u think its because he cheated on me? He wasnt going through anything at the time that could make his mind roam...what is it

2006-12-11 17:09:43 · 15 answers · asked by Joi J 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend jay is having some troble with the gang ps and he did nothing. but people keep on saying that he did. They have already beat him up once. now they are trying to do it agin and i have tryed to talk to ps and it did no good how should i resolve this?

2006-12-11 17:08:54 · 4 answers · asked by issabella 1 in Friends

2006-12-11 17:08:40 · 23 answers · asked by Farshin Bintte M 1 in Singles & Dating

i've had a crush on ,my best friend for awhile, we've known each other for 9 years. she wasn;t interested in a relationship, she didn't like me like that, but she did ask me to sleep with her. i don't f*cking get it.(i said no by the way) but she did break my heart, about 1 month ago i ended our friendship, doing my best to get over her. i know girls are attracted to confidence but i can't help it, or fake it. the guys she's attracted to are the a*ss holes, the woman beaters, the one's where my tax dollars will be paying for their prison cell. i loved her so much but she felt nothing for me, i knew. i'm not shy to meet other people but i just lack a sense of self-esteem and it's driving me F*cking nuts. last week i was just diagnosed with manic depression. i'm in a self destructive pattern now. i cut my wrists, (i also bite my wrists, make me bleed, i have abnormally sharp inscisors) i have like NO energy...(con't)

2006-12-11 17:08:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 17:07:29 · 29 answers · asked by sanjlon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

One of my closest gal friends has confided in me and told me about her relationship problems. She wants to break up with her bf and move on but then again she doesn't. She likes her bf's best friends better than she likes him. She hates him at times and he treats he like crap sometimes. He makes her cry alot and he is always depressed around her. When he's with his friends he's fine. So whats your opinion what should she do?

2006-12-11 17:07:22 · 7 answers · asked by JJ~girly girly 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 17:06:32 · 38 answers · asked by The Babe 2 in Singles & Dating

I married my Husband after 9 years love affair. He was my first love. Any way we had so much of problems after the marriage. I met a man whom I feel in love from the first date. I knew he was married and he knew me too. We loved each other very much. Any way he promised to marry me. But life change a lot. My husband has filled a divorce case againist me. He is living with another women. My lover is still with her wife and the kid. I didn't want to take him from her. But I loved him and did what ever he asked me. His wife got to know this and did lot of things to me. In fact I lost my job too. My lover said he only loves me but because of his daughter he cannot leave his wife and I also agree. But today I got to know he has two daughters by his wife. Our affair was 4 years. He got the baby last month. But he didn't tell me. WHen I asked he said it is non of my business. So tell me I gave all what he wants. I gave up everything for his love. Today he betrayed my true love.

2006-12-11 17:06:31 · 22 answers · asked by Shama R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 17:05:38 · 3 answers · asked by deni 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been going out for 6 years. She has some serious confidence issues. She was made fun of growing up in school and hasn't been able to shake herself free from people taking advantage of her.I try my hardest to stick up for herself and to be her own person. And please understand, I'm not someone who gives up on people easily. But over the past year I've started to question whether we're meant to be together. I don't think I can help her anymore, the scars are too deep and my patience too short. I think it's awful that we argue now. Arguing because the frustration gets to me.
Citing examples would be make me out to be a fool. Because most of the things she does are mistakes that a six year old child would know to avoid.

Please help me.

2006-12-11 17:05:36 · 10 answers · asked by Seeking Guidance 1 in Singles & Dating

Tomorrow is my boyfriends and i's 1 year anniversary. But I am not happy, he is to codependent on me and I have no friends, but I love him. He is nice and cares for me he just does not listen, change, think about things, or even consider what I want. I stay with him every night and i just sent him home crying cuz I dont know what to do. Somethimes I think it is just me.... some one out there with similar problem? My whole family likes him and I like his family, I think we just need some space, what to do? Help?

2006-12-11 17:05:27 · 1 answers · asked by rosesjkm 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i know ppl already sent me answers that abstinence is the best way
obviously i know that but if me and my gf were serious about it i want good opinions on good ways becuz despite what you might think im not stupid im not gonna get her pregnant. i want to find a really good way that works so we both dont regret it later
what really works good?

2006-12-11 17:04:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife left me for my best friend. Now ex best friend. She is making things hard on me. There is a 6 month old baby involved. I had to run a dna test on her make sure mine. Thank god she is. She now is all about the $. I make sure baby has things daycare etc but seems like the state takes you to the cleaners on support. I have to live also. I own a house and dont plan to sell it cause of my ex and her crap. Its hard for me to get custody cause im a police officer and work bad hrs. My attorney has not been the best. Gets mad when I call with a question or anything. Always says be done by first of year. I still dont see no progress. He sucks but hate to start with new attorney. He has my house title and im going to get upset if he dont give it back. He said he wanted the lot number and would photo copy it. Wont give it back. This whole thing is pissing me off.

2006-12-11 17:04:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well I have a boyfriend who's totally in love with me but I don't feel the same way about him. and there's some other guy I like that is really cute but I don't know if he likes me. I've been thinking of breaking up with him but I don't want to break his heart, but i'm not happy being with him either. How can I handle this? I'll take any advice.

2006-12-11 17:02:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 17:01:31 · 11 answers · asked by thisoneg1rl 1 in Singles & Dating

Well...I am very different from everyone else and I'm kinda freaky.I'll be happy in a spilt second and then I'll start acting sad.I kinda look ugly and people think I look like a guy but I'm not(i have long hair etc.)What should i do to fit in?

2006-12-11 17:01:23 · 6 answers · asked by Deanna 3 in Friends

my friend from abroad is saying tha he loves me too much and he cant live without me he says he will be unmarried for the rest of his life if i dont marry him but the main problem is that i dont love him how should i tell this to him he thinks that i too love him but thats no true

2006-12-11 16:59:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 16:59:23 · 37 answers · asked by Mann McMann 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He said his friends dragged him there, that he didn't have a good time & he was thinking about me the whole time. I asked him if he got dances, said no, but he tipped the girls.

Is he throwing me a load of crap? I found this out the day after, and I have no idea how to react. Should I let it go? Or should I be concerned?

2006-12-11 16:59:23 · 27 answers · asked by 8675309 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay here's a quick rundown of the situation. My wife's older sister is having an affair. Everyone in their family (including their parents) know of this. They've tried to talk to her and reason her out of the affair but she's basically ignoring all of them. It has even reached a point where she covered up her affair by lying to her husband and family saying that all of us are trying to ruin their family. So basically her husband (our brother-in-law) and their children are mad at us to the point where they pretty much severed connections and ties to all of us. The last time we had ever spoken to them was last September. That's when the fallout between us happened. I still see him when I pick up my kids from school since their kids and our kids go to the same school. But it's obvious he still ignores me when I see him there. Now that three months have passed, should I even bother to talk or even get in touch with him and tell him about what his wife is doing behind his back??

2006-12-11 16:59:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Every one says that i am perfect, even too perfect. Ive even seriously been asked if i was a real Angel.

2006-12-11 16:58:48 · 5 answers · asked by samurai18wizard 1 in Singles & Dating

what can i do to get my girlfriend to believe me when i say im not cheating or to prove to her that i always tell her the truth because i have tried many things but she still never believes me

2006-12-11 16:58:10 · 9 answers · asked by ipod 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

give us some ideas! no islands- too cliche, but if you know somewhere cool, let us know!

2006-12-11 16:57:35 · 12 answers · asked by amiilee28 1 in Weddings

2006-12-11 16:57:10 · 12 answers · asked by martha_bibi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

had a relationship for 3yrs which was full of abuse, insults and fights.i loved my boyfriend so much and thus i always believed that one day he will change. lived together but most of the time he was never there instead he spent time with the ex and her friends. always talked to them about me even when im there and laugh and this annoyed me. asking him he always said it was alcohol and this could happen everytime we went to parties etc. at times i could get him snogging her, holding her ****.he also had another girl he was seeing but i realised maybe b4 things went far and he admitted on cheating. hes also told many pple that hes been with me for convinience and lastly he said on ma face. now we r not together cos i happened to fall for his friend cos of frustractions tho nothing sexual happened. i told him the truth and obviously he cant handle it. i still love him thou after all these. what do u think i should do?

2006-12-11 16:56:59 · 16 answers · asked by kago 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I cant say that we were dating... the plan was to wait a year to ask her out when she turned 16. So until then we developed a really strong relationship that grew without any force. I'll admit she was perfect, now, though every one has their downs! We were both attractive and attracted alot of attention, though I made it clear that I only wanted to be w/her or that i'm taken. She would let the boys hang around her. I didn't have a prob w/ this until she made it clear that she was tryng to make me jealouse! (I stoped talkn to her.) There's more to the story, but. I still like this shorty, maybe more than just like cuz we were too close! I dated another gal and she stopped talking to me. Though I wanted to still be her friend. we havn't really talked in a year yet see each other alot. How should I let her know that I still care for her and that I want to continue our relationship. My mind says You cant get back w/her. I may say that Im over her but my heart cries out to her

2006-12-11 16:56:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this wonderful fiance named Mike. I love him dearly and he;s the only man whoever made me truely happy and special. He proposed to me onlyafter we dated for two months, and while some people might think that weird I really don't because my parents did it and they're still together 20 years later, Anyway we're not even getting married until late 2008 so we canmake sre we're meant to be and for other reasons. The problem isn't him or even my family, it'smy friends.
I've known these girls for years and everything I've done they supported unconditionally and vice versa for me.
They hate him, and they don't even really know him! And they will not make an effort to get to know him. One night they even ganged up on me in a resturant telling me he was no good for me and that I should dump him and I'm dumb for saying yes.
It hurts really bad to hear them say these thing about him. But yet they want to be part of the wedding and all that stuff. what should I do? Thank you

2006-12-11 16:55:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i feel like he trying to live off me too

2006-12-11 16:54:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How can I have more friends. I am always feeling lonely. No one emails me and I only have 10 friends on myspace. Please tell me how to get more friends.

2006-12-11 16:53:32 · 10 answers · asked by <3 2 in Friends

theres this girl right?...well she pretty much knows i kindda like her right?...but she told my ex-girlfriend she couldnt like me because she(x-gf) told this new girl that i was her first love and due to that(new girl) she has "respect" for her and cant like me, but i get this small feeling that shes kindda digging me. i dont know what i should do without risking our friendship...(new girl and me)
Please Please PLEASEEEE, I Beg A REAL ANSWER.
:(

2006-12-11 16:53:04 · 2 answers · asked by calvtjeremy15 1 in Singles & Dating