Me and my guy been together and our sex life has been GREAT...but i left for college and came back two months later and we made love i mean everything was perfect...the atmosphere music and no one was home..and then i went back to college and came back home about two weeks later and we made love but this time it wasnt so great like the other times. It was still the perfect atmosphere, perfect music and everything but he couldnt stay on hard...do u think its because he cheated on me? He wasnt going through anything at the time that could make his mind roam...what is it
2006-12-11 17:09:43 · 15 answers · asked by Joi J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes sex can vary from day to day. it isnt always going to be awesome, some nights it will just be 'ok'. next time, see what happens, see how it feels. could be a one time thing
2006-12-11 17:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Madam, well all said here by others who have replied...the tired part and the not everyday is the same and all of it...
Have you and he spent some time together and talked to each other and really got the juices flowing or then was it a scene that I am back and u are available and let go knock it? To be honest being away does make you want to speak and revive what was there and then pick up from where you left off. Its not necessary that he was cheating on you. Its just how you hit it off...The first time is always great and straight to the act and full of vigour n then the next needs to have a little pre scene before the actual act and so speak to him and share a little chit chat and not just get to it with all set and right.
2006-12-12 07:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have been trying too hard ( no pun intended ) and was trying sooo much to deliver that "perfect" session...that he just couldn't perform....alot of " sex " is in the mind. Be cool and take some pressure off..things will be right with the world again.
2006-12-12 01:15:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are alot of things that can affect our sex lives, but since you say he wasnt going through anything, he was probably just tired or was probably guilty from some unfaithfullness.
2006-12-12 01:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by evets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably looks at ALOT of porno if he isn't cheating on you and his sex life is all fantasy. Try new things, ask him what you can do for him to keep him aroused.
2006-12-12 01:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by Doc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are a million reasons of what could have been... don't think that you should jump to conclusions! most likely something was just bothering him that he didn't want to talk about. If you trust him, just let him be and it'll be ok...
2006-12-12 01:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by RHINOTECHIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life can be like that, but be careful if he is cheating, you don't want to get anything that won't wash off.
2006-12-12 01:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by aurorascarecrow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT COULD BE A LOT OF THINGS THAT GOING ON WITH HIM.
JUST ASK HIM NEXT TIME YOU ARE TOGETHER. DONT MAKE ANYTHING BY IT UNTIL YOU FIND OUT WHAT REALLY
GOING ON.
2006-12-12 01:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you eat same food everyday? You feel boring and need someone new.
2006-12-12 01:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by zap32168 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guyhas that problem now and then ...if it happens regularly then you might have a problem but give him a chance....work with him and mahybe spice it up for him..........
2006-12-12 01:14:44 · answer #10 · answered by Laura 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋