I'm not fitting in at school?!!!?

Question

Well...I am very different from everyone else and I'm kinda freaky.I'll be happy in a spilt second and then I'll start acting sad.I kinda look ugly and people think I look like a guy but I'm not(i have long hair etc.)What should i do to fit in?

Answer 1

why should you fit it? and why should you care what ppl think about you? human beings make fun and point out little flaws that other ppl have to make them feel better about their flaws, i was different in school i when i look back now im glad i didnt fit in, its the flaws that makes us who we are dont be ashamed of it enbrace it, stop fighting who you are and accept yourself and you will feel so much better about yourself and u wont care what others think.

Answer 2

I never fit in one particular group in high school. I had friends in ALL of the groups. All you need to do is sing if you love singing, draw if you love that, play sports if that's your thing, write poetry... You just do the things that YOU love in school and be nice to those who are nice to you. A lot of times, people will want to be friends with someone who doesn't seem to NEED friends. Being needy doesn't allure good friends much. But if you are out there living your life and doing what you love, you will make some friends. Don't focus on the ones who don't give you a chance. They're ASSH0LES and they don't matter! Just be a loyal, trusting soul. As for being 'weird' try getting a grip on your feelings, dear. Why so moody? Maybe you are bipolar. That means your moods can rapidly go from light to dark and that's something that you can discuss with a therapist because it can be treated. That might help you. Don't worry about belonging in a group - I always found it WAY more cool to NOT need a group, but instead be friends with a little of everyone.

Answer 3

Why do you start acting sad a split second later? Sounds like you need to see your doctor. Why do you consider yourself "freaky"? Define ugly? Growing up is hard my friend, Im not trying to make fun of you but you may be depressed, hince the mood changes. As far as "ugly"....your a HUMAN BEING, male or female, nobody is ugly and you shoulnt even think like that! Be yourself friend, dont try to fit in, just be yourself. Its not easy growing up! Hang in there ans BELIVE IN YOURSELF!!

Answer 4

Don't worry about fitting in at school. Focus on your studies and what makes you happy. There is a whole world of people after school that you will be able to fit in with, so don't even worry about it right now. It might be hard to do, but it'll be worth it.

Answer 5

trust me honey, I was kind of like that, but you shouldn't care about what other people think. be yourself and eventually they'll see that you're not a guy and you're not freaky. Just keep up with your studies because they are the most important thig at school no matter what people say.

Answer 6

nothin i mean if they cant accept you for who you are then they dont deserve your friendship 4real thats grimey as hell, them callin you a guy.ide knock em out lol. but no realy umm just join a sport or mabey lke do somethin realy cool with your hair lke dye it or somethin, then put a lil make-up on,get some cool lookin clothes and u'll be poppin before u kno it.
if not wanting to change anything then jus forget bout the ppl at your school, they wont be with you your hole life so why bother trying to fit in. baq when i went to school (imma drop out now) but back when i was in school i was homeschooled my 8th grade year, then in 9th grade my freshmen year i didnt have that many friends i just did my work and got my stuff done.not caring what tha other spads in my class thought bout me. not lke they would say anythang bout me anyway. but anyways yah jus dont worry bout fittin in and just keep upz^ alright. much love <3