i've had a crush on ,my best friend for awhile, we've known each other for 9 years. she wasn;t interested in a relationship, she didn't like me like that, but she did ask me to sleep with her. i don't f*cking get it.(i said no by the way) but she did break my heart, about 1 month ago i ended our friendship, doing my best to get over her. i know girls are attracted to confidence but i can't help it, or fake it. the guys she's attracted to are the a*ss holes, the woman beaters, the one's where my tax dollars will be paying for their prison cell. i loved her so much but she felt nothing for me, i knew. i'm not shy to meet other people but i just lack a sense of self-esteem and it's driving me F*cking nuts. last week i was just diagnosed with manic depression. i'm in a self destructive pattern now. i cut my wrists, (i also bite my wrists, make me bleed, i have abnormally sharp inscisors) i have like NO energy...(con't)
2006-12-11 17:08:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and the worst part is; i wanted only the best for her, i knew her longer than ANY guy in her life friend or boy friend, even longer than her bio father. i feel trapped with no future insight, contemplating ending it all, but i'm a christian and suicide is a sin so there's another *****. i don't know what to do.
2006-12-11 17:10:02 · update #1
if your 21
go to the club
find the hottest looking chick
take some xtc
party all night
dance it off
then take her back to your place
once you do that for about 2 months i guarantee you'll be over her
2006-12-11 17:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your having bad and confusion in your life take your meds and wait about a week for them to work. its sad to hear someone say they self destructive patterns please stop doing that because all its doing is showing your weakness is pain and that's why your going through them right now get the help while your still here you don't want to think it's the end of the world move on be happy find the things you like doing and start with a non destructive revers your life around and start to love your-self please
2006-12-12 01:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by birdie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh, poor you, she doesn't sound like she's worth it though. if she can't see how awesome you are then just forget her, or maybe she'll see the light in time. just don't lose your life because of her, it's not worth it beleive me! there is someone out there who will love you just the way you are, don't lose hope! cheer up, life is still good. appreciate all the good things around you and move on (or at least try your best ;) Good luck! and I really sincerely hope this helped you!
2006-12-12 01:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 words.Ask her out.Say hi,I'm sorry for doing this to you...all i wanted to say was that I'm sorry.
2006-12-12 01:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by Deanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seek more professional help
2006-12-12 01:12:33 · answer #5 · answered by lilmisspriss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're in love... go for it
2006-12-12 01:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by ajsavior 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋