Well I have a boyfriend who's totally in love with me but I don't feel the same way about him. and there's some other guy I like that is really cute but I don't know if he likes me. I've been thinking of breaking up with him but I don't want to break his heart, but i'm not happy being with him either. How can I handle this? I'll take any advice.
2006-12-11 17:02:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think you should stay with a guy you're not into anymore...doesnt matter if you have a chance with the guy you like. but be honest with your boyfriend. tell him you dont feel the same way anymore. just give it time before you start dating again or it'll give him the wrong idea. and make sure your not breaking up with him just because of this other new cute guy you like. make sure you're breaking up with him only because you dont feel the same way. good luck!
2006-12-11 17:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by one&only<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he liked some cute girl and just dropped you for her...how would that have made you feel? Don't leave him for another guy. I do think you should leave him...but not for that reason. I think you should leave him because you're not happy with him and you don't love him. Call him and tell him that you want to just be friends...but the only way he'll ever respect you as a friend is if you wait a little while before jumping into the next relationship. Give it a week or two.
2006-12-11 17:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by Italian_Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, stop saying you do not want to hurt your boyfriend's feeling when in the first place you do not feel the same way as he does. Why did you commit yourself when the fact that your in love with him,.You are just making the situation too complicated. You have to make things right. Tell him honestly how you feel about him. You will break his heart anyway in the future, so better do it now. While you are not involve yet with the other guy, while he doesn't have any marriage plan yet. You have to be fair with him,as well as for yourself.
2006-12-11 17:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by odel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you are unhappy with your boyfriend, give him the proper chance to make you happy; or step away.
Remember that new prospects ALWAYS seem really great, especially when we are unhappy with our current mates.
You don't want to find yourself in a situation where you've given up your "good thing" in order to chase a dream.
You also don't want to start something new immediately after leaving something old.
Dump your boyfriend first.
See what it is you really are attracted to.
This new guy may just be an excuse for you to get free.
2006-12-11 17:13:00 · answer #4 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi Leah! nicely u are in a situation, wherein generally adult men and ladies folk are ...! so dont hardship. nicely getting attracted in direction of somebody being in a severe relation is undemanding. yet one can't love 2-persons at a time. You urself say that u love ur boyfriend yet u like ur colleague... se u have already replied ur question. U dont love ur colleague... yet u love ur bfrnd. allure has no end expensive, immediately u are attracted in direction of this guy day after today could be in direction of another guy, yet finally on the top of the day u might opt for to have ur bfrnd with you, coz u love him ...! So dont even think of abt the different guy If u dont discover any single good reason of dumping you bfrnd. Be with him, yet yeah allure is something which u incredibly cant help it, infact none human beings can help. yet bear in suggestions, its incredibly annoying to hit upon the actual love, if u have with u, dont lose it honey. wish you get the right way :-) God Bless You! Cheers! Pearl
2016-10-05 05:08:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will probably break his heart no matter how you end it. Just try and be kind. You are doing him a favor by not wasting his time in a relationship that you are unsure of.
2006-12-11 17:05:50 · answer #6 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't avoid breaking his heart. Too late for that. He deserves your honesty. You know you're a horrible person for what you've done. Don't try to sugarcoat that point.
2006-12-11 17:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST YOU NEED TO BE HONEST WITH YOUR SELF IF YOU
ARE LIKING ONE GUY BECAUSE HE CUTE THAT YOU WANT
TO BREAK UP WITH THE CURRENT ONE, SOUND LIKE YOU
ARE THE ONE THAT HAS A SERIOUS PROBEM. BUT IF YOU
REALLY DONT WANT TO BE WITH HIM THEN LET HIM KNOW
HOW YOU FEEL.BUT DONT BE SURPRISE OF THE OUTCOME. PLAYING GAMES WILL GET YOU IN SOME CASE
BY YOUR SELF. ESPECIALLY SINCE YOU DONT EVEN KNOW IF THE SECOND ONE LIKE YOU. MAY BE YOU NEED
TO BE BY YOUR SELF TO FIQURE OUT WHAT YOU WANT.
2006-12-11 17:07:02 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be honest with ur bf if u like sum1 else more than him u should probably break up with him..
2006-12-11 17:05:42 · answer #9 · answered by Lostfairytale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love your boyfriend then you will not like others so please ask yourself that do you really love your boyfriend or not. If you don't have nay feeling with him now , tell him. You mus be honest and that is fair to him
2006-12-11 17:08:15 · answer #10 · answered by lovely1991_dinh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋