My wife hits me...what can I do?

Answer 1

That sounds like abuse to me...report her.

Answer 2

If you're really serious... you need to do something about it.

It's only a matter of time before you get pissed and hit her back and then you'll be in a world of sh!t. Besides, you don't actually want to end up in a situation where you would actually hit a woman do you?

"My wife hits me" tends to suggest that this is a common practice. And it's common because you're allowing it. I strongly suggest you get counseling for yourself. After you've done that for a while, then look at getting into couples counseling with her.

Physical abuse isn't cool no matter who is doing the hitting.

Get professional help.

Good luck.

Answer 3

several things that you can do. first you can just leave. call the cops, however they might think it funny, you could hit her back, however I do not recommend that, as it is a cowardly act to hit a woman no matter what. my best advice would be for you to get professional help for her, physical,emotional, verbal abuse is a form of violence that should not be tolerated. anger management classes do help if you attend and follow the guide lines set down. talk to her, find out why she hits you, i know what the urge to hit back, but don't. get some professional help and work towards a solution.

Answer 4

Give all the reasons not to hit you. Talk with her, love her , help understand were the violence comes from, pray for the situation, seek counseling. If the hitting is that severe maybe you ought to leave for awhile.

Answer 5

I'll tell you the same advice I've told a man I care about greatly who is getting abused by his wife.

You are the one who allows her to do this by putting up with it. By staying with her. The only way to make her stop is to leave.

You can't put all the blame on her if you are willing to take it.

Answer 6

Bake her cookies! give her milk, set her @ss down, and talk to her! tell her honey i love u but if ur hit me one more time i will have to leave u because I'm not going to hit u back, I'm a man and not a punk so let this be ur last time hitting me and don;t try that S..t again!!!!

Answer 7

Get help for yourself first (counselling and support) and then try and persuade her to join you. Violent partners usually dont respond well to being told what to do - or interference by third parties... but perhaps if you show her how much you want to work it out, it will help her to take that step towards mending whatever is wrong in your relationship.

You don't say whether you love her and want to work it out or not.

Answer 8

Leave her. Tell all your friends and family the reason your leaving the *****. Then go to the gym and get some muscles so no one will hit you again.

Answer 9

LOL What are you doing to provoke her?

Seriously, if this is a major problem, then you should sit down and talk with her about it. The only thing that you have to make sure of is that if you are asking her not to do something and she makes good on it, you have to also make good on the things that she asks YOU not to do...

Answer 10

Well, I always try to follow the old saying: fool me once shame on me fool me twice shame on me.
When it comes to being hit I'd put that same theory in to perspective. Hit me once.....

Answer 11

hit her back
punch her in the face
let her
yell
call her names
throw water on her to calm her down
make her an appointment with a therapist
go out to lunch
have sex
sleep it off
go to the ER and show them your bruise, try to get them to ask you if you're being abused. by law they have to contact the police
have her arrested
say, quit it or i'll knock your lights out