Family & Relationships - 9 December 2006

Me and my wife have been married for about a year, been together for about two years. We are both in our early thirties. she recently became a lawyer and now she thinks she is too good for me. She wants me to give up my favorite hobby and says I need to get a job. My hobby is collection Jar Jar Binks collectables and wearing a Jar Jar costume as I walk around town. While walking around, I like to bring joy to people. I go into stores and throw potato chips or other foods around, I dance in front of cars that are stopped at red lights, I knock on random houses doors and do Jar Jar quotes and dances. This takes quite a lot of time, several hours a day. How can I find the time to get a job? But my Jar Jar collectables are very expensive, and my wife gets all upset when I buy them with her money. Then she flipped out like a crazy person when I suggested we use the Jar Jar costume during our lovemaking. I can't live like this. Why can't she just let me live my life? Should I divorce her?

2006-12-09 08:36:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am pregnant with our second child, and he knows sex is safe for the baby. We had sex all the time with the first one. I am so sure he is not the cheating type (I think), he was raised to be honest, and he loves our daughter more than anyting in the world, and wouldn't want to lose her.
He has just completely lost interest. He says he still thinks I am hot, and his excuse is that sex led us to having babies and that is a turn off! What a crock, right? I am pregnant and therefore can't get that way, so we should be having the best sex ever! We do it like twice a month, and even then I initate, and do everything and hardly ever get off.
What are some possible reasons he's not interested in sex? He wont even let me touch "it" to get him in the mood! He is only in his late 20s! I really love him, but I can't see myself marrying someone who won't have sex with me! I am really depressed and I don't know what to do!

2006-12-09 08:36:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i like my friend, i want to ask him out, but im afraid that he will say no and then we will never be friends again. i dont want to make things weird, but i cant just keep on likeing him in secret! eventually he will find out, and i wouldnt have even told him! then he will never like me!

2006-12-09 08:36:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like to wear a elaborate Jar Jar Binks costume and mask as part of my every day life. I went to the grocery store, and saw how depressed everyone was so I thought I would help. I started dancing in the aisles, and yelling at people, and running up to people and taking things out of their cart. It was great fun. Then when I went to check out, there was only one lane open and a long line. I screamed and screamed while in line and danced, bumping into other people. I opened a box of baking soda and threw it around. Finally I got to the checkout. I started making noises at the cashier, and I kept pressing buttons on the computer. Some people in line were groaning because the line was getting very long, but that gave me even more incentive to make them laugh. I climbed onto the table and started kicking peoples groceries on the floor and singing. The manager and one of his goons pulled me off and said I could never shop there again. Can I sue for harrasement or possibly assualt?

2006-12-09 08:35:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend have been dating for i little over 6 months and he is going shopping for me today and he told me he was spending at least $40. i have no idea what he could be getting me and i have no idea what to get him. can anyone help me. he likes music but he has all the cds he wants... he plays the guitar but he has a guitar and a bass... he plays that online game Maple Story, so i thought about getting him the nexon cash for the cash shop (if u dont know its so u can buy different clothes that u can't get anywhere else and u have to pay real money for it) but he wont use it and i know that. and i dont really think he'll use a gift card from anywhere so i dont think that would be good. so does anyone have any ideas? ill best answer the... best answer.. lol thank you in advance...

2006-12-09 08:35:39 · 1 answers · asked by vampangeldevil 2 in Singles & Dating

i love my girlfriend alot and i trust her alot and i know shell never cheat on me but im a jealous guy and likes its not her im scared of its other guys cuz shes the type of gilr that give alot of afection like goes and hugs guys i dont know it bothers me what should i do

2006-12-09 08:34:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex. bf and i broke up 6 months ago after having dated two years i really feel i still love him.Anyway around thanks giving he called me to tell me he still loved me and was sorry for how things ended.We were both imature and stuborn at the time and neither one of us wanted to admit that we were both wrong at the time of the break up.We have been talking over the phone and online to get to know each other again and take it slow.He wants too see me again to meet up and talk about getting back together in person should i go is it too soon? Can we mature and grow together?or am i just fooling myself ?we are both in are very early twentys.

2006-12-09 08:34:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i really like this guy, but he doesnt know it and i cant bring myself to tell him cos i think my ego would be ruined and i don't want him to think i'm cheap anyway. i know he's got a soft spot for me but i think he's also got a girlfriend. should i stop talking to him??? what do i do???

2006-12-09 08:33:06 · 13 answers · asked by favour b 1 in Singles & Dating

First xmas without hubby and I am going to spend a weekend at inlaws with my son. Just found out the hubbies exwife and their kids will be there the same day. Not very happy about this since I have not seen or talked to his kids in over 5 months after raising them for 8 years. What should I do?

2006-12-09 08:32:23 · 6 answers · asked by Dee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-09 08:32:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive had one boyfriend, and he was a total nerd, everyone makes fun of me for it. Now i like someone and everyone says we would be cute together. He's not prude (inside information) I really want to go out with him but im so scared! I want a boyfriend so bad,,,he's sooo perfect! I just can't find confidence to do it! I need tips/advice! HELP!!!

2006-12-09 08:31:58 · 13 answers · asked by Disney 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey guys aim feeling terribly lonely and insecure I feel unstable and not safe I waat to move nearer to my mum and I want to make up for things I have done because I feel lonely unloved. I feel I want to move closer to my family because I wnat security and safety . I dont know what to do I know I have done some awful things please help me guys what do I do . Id I move nearer t6o my mumand my friends I will fell more secure because iam 2hours away from my mumm in a very cold and lonely environment . I have no close friends relatives or family here it is difficult for me to cope.

2006-12-09 08:31:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok,i'm over 16 and i want to know how do you have S*e*x?
Yes,im old and i should know by now but i asked my family and they just said read a book.

so please tell me how it works?
does it hurt at all?
HELP

2006-12-09 08:31:34 · 13 answers · asked by BabyGirl Emily. 3 in Singles & Dating

she is a very close friend of mine but she broke up with him now she says i shouldnt go out w/him because he hurt her... she is secretly dating his best friend am i at the wrong here?

2006-12-09 08:30:43 · 19 answers · asked by janey 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 25yrs old Handsome Athletic guy single since college. Warm personality, funny, charismatic, odd and influential. 21st century's Knight in Shining Armor, with fully loaded two sacks of gold and a pet pirate one eyed brown haired rattle snake. Soft easy goin' Groovy and Hard Core Metal in One, Genuine Gemmini Guy. if you think you're fly enough to keep me company please e-mail. I'd give a cell # but hate to ignore all those calls when I'm busy Saving the World.

2006-12-09 08:30:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months now and he now lives with me. Every now and again he receives texts from other girls and when I casually ask him about hey who was that he tries to hide the fact he receives texts. I am seriously thinking that if he not upfront about this then what else is he trying to hide from me. What do you think?

2006-12-09 08:30:02 · 16 answers · asked by avid_rafter765 3 in Singles & Dating

i want to know

2006-12-09 08:29:43 · 23 answers · asked by i love rock! 1 in Singles & Dating

I've recently told my close female friend how I felt about her-she gave me a vague answer(50/50). We did not leave the conversation on good terms (she indirectly(refering to "other ppl") called me selfish and 2 faced)

For xmas I thought I'd send her a xmas card and a small teddy-just saying merry xmas and happy new year.

Would this be ok??? OR Would she throw the card\gift in the bin???

Would she appreciate this or not???

(she might have called me selfish\2 faced but I believe she was caught up in the moment)....I do know her quite well....most probably angry wth me...

2006-12-09 08:29:43 · 15 answers · asked by Machine 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

would you have a serious relationship with someone like that?

2006-12-09 08:29:22 · 9 answers · asked by jlnunez06 3 in Singles & Dating

He used to be so sweet to me, made me feel like he really liked me. I have had a huge crush on him for way too long! I let my guard down and made out with him a few times. The more I saw him, the more the signs were there that he was just fooling with me, using me when it was obvious that I really liked him, but I was so weak around him, and in denial about the whole thing, so I let him take advantage of me (his kisses just felt so good). Lately he has acted completely uninterested, lies that he wants to see me, and then stood me up! I am so sure now that he just used me and is just scum, but I still want him, and feel sad about it! Why?!? I really just want to hate him and forget all about him, but I still keep thinking "maybe this will happen, or maybe he'll act different" but I know it is so hopeless, and I shouldn't even want a man who treated me that way? What is wrong with me. Why can't I stop thinking about him and get over it?

2006-12-09 08:28:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend loves me very much but he is very jelous.I love him too.I think he doesnt bealive me and I never even look at any other boy.What should I do?!

2006-12-09 08:28:27 · 23 answers · asked by Emma 2 in Singles & Dating

okay so this christmas will be my first christmas not at home and my mother well i hust don't know what to get her. okay so this is how it is she is controling always has been and she is very ungratful. she came to the hospital when my child was born and told my fiance that the baby didn't look like him htat i must have cheated. she gripes way to much but she bought my daughter somthing so i should get her somthing right? but what does she deserve?.

2006-12-09 08:28:02 · 3 answers · asked by bjames_0050 2 in Family

he left my daughter to go to Ohio he got durnk. when he got back he told her that he had slept with another girl. He blams it on the fact that he was drunk and did't know what he was doing...I think this is a BS story I don't care how drunk you are you know when your having sex with someone.

I think she should dump him and move on... I say once a cheater always a cheater.

she is young. She wants to give him another chance and I think she's crazy.

What can I do to convince her she should dump him and move on.

Or do you think she should give him another chance?

2006-12-09 08:27:33 · 22 answers · asked by msinmn 1 in Singles & Dating

Everytime they come to America to visit they wanna see me, which is cool cuz I wanna see them too but would I be out of line presenting my new sheep to them?

2006-12-09 08:26:30 · 13 answers · asked by Red Winged Bandit 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I love him with all my heart at many different levels and I have hope he will call soon. We have never had a fight or a disagreement ever, but I feel like I'm falling apart not knowing what is on his mind?

2006-12-09 08:26:25 · 14 answers · asked by marissa v 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-09 08:26:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well here are my standards in a girl:
Smart
beautiful
caring
animal lover
No to drugs
doesn't drink (underage)
No illegal activities
fun to be around
sense of humor
Trustable
Trusting (there is a difference)

Are these standards set a little to high?

2006-12-09 08:26:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just looking for ways to get ideas to spice up our marriage.

2006-12-09 08:26:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i really like this guy at skool and was just wondering if wat should i get him....i was thinkin just a christmas card but then i heard that he likes me too and a friend of his told me that he was going to buy this teddy bear that the student council are sellin at skool for me....so should i buy him a bear too or wat?......helpppp

2006-12-09 08:25:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 08:24:58 · 4 answers · asked by Shannon S 1 in Friends