I love him with all my heart at many different levels and I have hope he will call soon. We have never had a fight or a disagreement ever, but I feel like I'm falling apart not knowing what is on his mind?
2006-12-09 08:26:25 · 14 answers · asked by marissa v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is so classic.
Guys need their space, okay? So give it to them.
They don't like to talk about feelings, emotions and stuff like that because their brain is wired differently than women.
It doesn't mean he hates you, it doesn't mean he is annoyed by you, it simply means precisely what he says. Give him space and let him do his own thing, and you do your own. He will respect you more for it.
2006-12-09 08:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Give him his space and find a new man. He is breaking up with you. Do not sit around and wait for him, you are wasting your time. Love sometimes hurts but you need to get on with living your own life. Who knows, if you seem to be moving away from him he may come running and if he does make sure this time you calling the shots.
2006-12-09 08:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by m2little 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him space let him know you are fine without him and you miss him but tell him your life doesnt end if he is not a part of it and you may have moved on with someone else who really wants to find a place in his life for you by the time he decides to have "space" for you in his life that you wont wait for him to decide what he wants, if he really cares he will make time and "space" for you, if he doesnt he wont and one day he will realize what might of been
2006-12-09 08:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by undeniable 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
by all of your questions, you need to give him his space,and be sure to take yours!
Make sure that when he wants some of your time, return the favor of telling him you need your space.
keep busy, don't call him, don't bother him, move on and don't give him the satisfaction of letting you be the 2nd plan for the day or just the one for sex only, and not the one who he takes out wine,dine and take care of.
Lady you are being used, and you need to put a stop to this emotional baggage that you are attracting to men!
You are much worthy than this, and there is a right man out there for you and you have to cut all ties to this one, for the right man to come in your life and cherished you and have you as his wife!
2006-12-09 12:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just left a beautiful,sexy,wealthy girlfiend of 8 years. I love her,I still love her!!I'm NOT INlove with her. We never argue,best friend but lost the passion. I told her I needed to find myself. I tooka few weeks before we talked,she understood. We are now talking more and have talked face to face now. Please I don't know your age but don't waste time on what once was!!!I still don't know if I made the biggest mistake of my life! But in time I will know and if it was meant to be then soo be it! You have to start driving.Call him and say do you love me,are you inlove with me. If he says I can;t answer that. Take that as a NO. MOVE ON! Mr Right is out there don't waste time on someone who can't make up his mind. I know all your thinking of is the good times you both had,Trust me if you think harder there were alot of signs and not soo good times. Good Luck,Chin Up
2006-12-09 08:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by Mark F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did he tell you he needs his space? If he did, it's time to move on. It sounds like he doesn't usually say what's on his mind. If he felt strongly enough to tell you this, you need to be strong enough to move away.
Now, think about some fun things to do on your own. Don't stay at home alone feeling sad!
2006-12-09 08:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by imadriana 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Often, the 'space' issue is the beginning of the end...I'd find out WHY he needs space if I were you, not just that he needs it...if you are a romantic couple, there shouldn't be anything he cannot share with you.
2006-12-09 08:29:36 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is give him space. Wait until he comes to you because if you don't you might not like the consequences. If he loves you he will be back if he does not than you know it is not worth it. good luck
2006-12-09 08:32:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe theres such thing as loving someone too much for your own good. if youre always up in his face, he wont appreciate that. give him a little space, and he will be happy. go theat yourself to a little 'me time'. go shopping, get your hair/nails done, and do stuff you cant when hes around.then youll both be happy.
2006-12-09 08:33:05 · answer #9 · answered by M T 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how long he needs space.
Also just dont bug him about like
trying to get things threw his head.
Because I know thats how I get when I need space.
2006-12-09 08:29:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋