Everytime they come to America to visit they wanna see me, which is cool cuz I wanna see them too but would I be out of line presenting my new sheep to them?
2006-12-09 08:26:30 · 13 answers · asked by Red Winged Bandit 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well I'll be fine with them meeting her, but I won't be fine with them abandoning me.
2006-12-09 09:18:02 · update #1
And the flock said "Baaaaa...."
2006-12-09 16:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, so the way you introduce your new love interests is key. The fact that they look you up on their visits, shows that they may not be completely over loosing you as a son-in-law, and obviously still loves and care about you.
Presenting your new love, who is not their daughter, must be timed, carefully, with some grace, tact, and ease. Make it memorable, and special for all.
Keep in mind that this meeting may be your last as they will get it that you are with someone else now, and you are fine.
You will be fine!........right?
2006-12-09 16:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by J. M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that meeting the ex in-laws might be hard for the new one in your life. The In-laws may not care but I would definitely ask the significant other her feelings about meeting your former in-laws
2006-12-09 16:35:36 · answer #3 · answered by woody46rulz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex daughter in law and I are still just as close as we were when she was with my son. Hopefully that will never change. I will always love her and think of her as my daughter. My advise is to tell them ahead of time, dont just spring it on them. If they love you, they will be happy to see you moving on and enjoying your life.
2006-12-09 16:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by justcurious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dats gud if u r gud tone wid urs ex inlaws but here s wht u shud think u talk to dem abt ur new love n if dey show dere interest go ahead let dem meet but if u think dey kina ignorin it just relaxxxx n move on wid ur life .....caz da show must go onnnn:
best wishes
2006-12-09 16:30:54 · answer #5 · answered by gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think the would care to see your sheep. No.
2006-12-09 16:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would not be out of line in any way shape or form.
if they want to come see you it is because they love and accept you... they don't expect your world to stop just because you are no longer married to their child.
i am sure that they would be very happy to see you happy even if its with someone new.
2006-12-09 16:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are close to them and they want to see you
the would probably be fine with meeting your new friend
2006-12-09 16:30:33 · answer #8 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they probably wouldnt mind before there next visit ask them if theywould mind as you want her to meet them stop seeing them as inlaws (outlaws lol)and more as friends
2006-12-09 16:40:54 · answer #9 · answered by ariesfunram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they want to see you then they will have to accept the flock that comes with you !!
2006-12-09 16:28:06 · answer #10 · answered by admiralawesome2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋