Family & Relationships - 9 December 2006

i was dating a guy for a while we both were very physically attracted to one another and things broke up as i was upset about my job etc a little needy at the time...he always stares at me when we are out and the other day i apoligised to him and he said i was one of the most lovely people he had met and that initially he was intimidated by my job ( i have quite a high powered job and earn good money) he also said he thought i was gorgeous back then and still does, i said i was leaving and he kept on grabbing me and said he would love me...if he was single..When i chatted about one of my ex boyfriends he got jealous and said 'what about us?'. He has only just started to date someone else..i have always been infatuated with him and vice versa..what should i do should i ask him for a drink as friends, i think he could of beena potential one? He also as staring in to my eyes and placed his fingers on my lips, he also said his mother loved me. I adore him whats the best way to win him

2006-12-09 08:08:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My kid has just broken his bunk bed. I thought I'd lay it on real thick, u know, hands on head job, WHAT HAVE U DONE !! u know, to wind him up a bit!
It's a slat, ok I can get another from homebase He He He He But HE doesn't know that !!!! Is it a bit mean?

2006-12-09 08:07:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've seen a lot of hot girls dressed in this low dress, tons of make up and look absoulutely stunning.... But they just dosen't seem to turn me on.

I feel so left out why my guy friends start making remarks about how sexy they are and when I have no comments and maybe a slight distaste for girls like them, I come off as weird...

I like pretty girls who dosen't show so much skin or try to draw attention to themselves.... but those kind of girls are quite rare nowadays. And if I really like someone like that, I'm not the type that makes some comments about her as if she is a horse on display.

So, should I stay silent when my guy friends makes comments about another sexy girl, or should I just make some random remarks just to fit in?

Its just I don't want to come off as weird and at the same time, I want to still keep my own individuality.

2006-12-09 08:07:49 · 10 answers · asked by wraithrune 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so me n my ex started talkin after 2 months of not talkin we went out for 2 yrs n we were eacho thers 1st loves.i love him very much n i kno he loves me.but i have a problem.he has a habit of not really callin ony at nite like after midnite.n he only txts me once in the day.i dunno y but this irritates me.well ill tell u my situation now.so a day ago i wrote him an email about how i feel bout sum things n wat i was goin thru n he thanked me n told me he appreciated the email n he loves me. he txted me goodmornin n that was it. he did not call at nite or anything.so i called him but he iddnt answer so he calls dis mornin n was like u called last nite? i was lika ya n he was like was there sumthin uwanted to say? i just told him that i jsut calld to say goodnite then he toldme htat he got in trouble wit his fam n i understand how he gets in those situations.so i cudnt really mention anyhting of how i felt.i helped him out but he had to g to work. i kno im not gonna c him 4 awhile.

2006-12-09 08:07:42 · 7 answers · asked by Fahion_Gal 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister got fired from her job for laughing too much.
AND- my boyfriend says I get annoying when I get too excited about Christmas.

2006-12-09 08:06:52 · 12 answers · asked by roxylee11782 4 in Family

Last year was my first year living in eagan, mn. I had this science class with a russian boy at the time i didnt know he was russian. but i used to sit right next to him in class and we are kind friends and i didnt like him all that much like as a boyfriend you know. well last year i left to a differant school and he dropped out of school and this trimester which started last week he came back i have no classes with him but when i seen him in the hallwayon mondau it seems like i fell in love with him hes gotten soo much cuter. but i like him and i dont know how to tell him i like him. i dont know what to do please tell me

2006-12-09 08:06:17 · 9 answers · asked by softball_girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl, and she was sooooo beautiful, i have feelings for her but i dont know if its love or just a crush. Like whenever i go near her i get like butterfly kinda feeling in my stomach but im still not sure if its love or just a crush. but what even is love, like i know its when you feel deeply for someone and you care about them but what else is it and how do i tell if she even loves me back? Its all so confusing can you please help me out?

2006-12-09 08:06:00 · 10 answers · asked by me_yes_me5 2 in Singles & Dating

and she told me hers was to have anouther girl go south on her! I was really really shocked, most guys would like that but it made me feel sick... I guess because how much I love her and adore her, I also didn't like the fact that she would fantasize about anouther girl... she told me that it was just a fantacy, and that "It will never happen" Is it wronge that it bothered me so much, I mean I didn't tell her it bothered me because I didn't want to hurt her feelings, but I don't really want to hear that from her again. what do you think?

2006-12-09 08:05:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His father is dead, so, I never met him. The relationship with my ex was really bad. I didn't steal the pictures by the way. I just happen to have them because they got mixed with my stuff. I'm getting married in January to a wonderful man. I need to get rid of those photos but I don't know what to do with them. I know an address where I can return them but at the same time I want nothing to do with my ex. What should I do?

2006-12-09 08:04:55 · 34 answers · asked by Lady Di 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend told me he loves me. and when i said it back he said he wasnt sure anymore, i felt so hurt, do i break up with him... or do i try to work it out. i've been with him for almost 3 months. i dont know if i love him, but i still like him ALOT!! what should i do?

2006-12-09 08:04:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think is the best age for a girl to lose her virginty.?From ages 14-18, pick one

2006-12-09 08:03:48 · 28 answers · asked by sexyshortie91 2 in Singles & Dating

this guy and I r all close and stuff, we're super good friends, and all my friends think that somthin more than just being friends is goin on his mind, but I can't tell. like, he asks lotsa Q's about my fam, and wants to meet them, calls me for no reason, somhow always ends up being my dance partner, etc. but I think that we r just friends, and that's what friends do, ya know? is that how u would do it if u like a girl, or what would u do to drop hints?

2006-12-09 08:03:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Admittedly, he was trying to work and I was distracting him, and he said something careless to me and didn't even notice that he was behaving inappropriately. Knowing my man, he is never going to apologize and probably won't even remember the fault. I am about to either blow up or use the silent treatment on him. Do either of them work? What on earth should I do? Please give some advice. Thanks!

2006-12-09 08:03:25 · 6 answers · asked by reba 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 08:02:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

alone,without someone else.

2006-12-09 08:02:12 · 9 answers · asked by hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

I know probably a million+ people have asked this question but w/e. I have feelings for this guy that i met this year from school. He is really sweet and funny and smart... and he plays baseball which is a plus because i love the sport. The thing is hes in a completely different crowd of people than me and although we talk a lot and i talk to a lot of his friends i have a feeling that he would probably never go out with me. We talk a lot but were not like really good friends so we dont hang out outside of school. During one of the classes we have together we talk about baseball/softball and what we each did in that class and we joke around a lot, ive seen him looking at me from the corner of my eye a couple times but i keep doubting myself. He kinda seems like he likes me but im not sure, because im sure that he could go out with any girl in the school if he wanted to because hes so hot!, but hes a really great guy, and all i want is to just tell him how i feel. I know, i sound corney.

2006-12-09 08:02:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you stand to attention just at the thought of it even if you ain't sure you're gonna get any

2006-12-09 08:01:59 · 12 answers · asked by . 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 08:00:32 · 4 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

are the followig items impotant in this regard :
age, money, apperance, educating

2006-12-09 07:59:56 · 7 answers · asked by Elham 2 in Singles & Dating

he's 9 years old and i really love my coz so much i wanna give him something special, he likes toys but i don't know what to pick.

2006-12-09 07:59:12 · 3 answers · asked by Eric D 1 in Friends

I am 15, and I have a hard time getting a girlfriend. Every attractive and friendly girl I know is happily in a relationship. I can't seem to find the right girl. I don't know where to find the right girl, since at school, I don't have much of an opportunity to talk to a girl. Should I have a girlfriend at 15?

2006-12-09 07:59:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This question is for guys....I really like this guy, Brandon, he's the sweetest(hottest) guy I know. I think he knows I'm intrested but he won't say anything about it. He'll occasionally give me a hug but I want him to know i want more than hugs. I know i could make him happy but i dont think he knows how seriously i like him.Please help!!!!

2006-12-09 07:58:49 · 1 answers · asked by Mommylove 2 in Singles & Dating

It is our first Christmas together and i want to get him something really special. When i ask him what he wants he say "just you" or says i dont have to get him something. his friends dont know what to get him either. No Clothes Please!! and no colone. He isnt into sports either. HELP!

2006-12-09 07:58:07 · 10 answers · asked by vittyvittyt 2 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that that men who cheat continuously on their steady girlfriends,that the other women are just sex and never form a second relationship?

2006-12-09 07:57:37 · 16 answers · asked by sophie c 1 in Singles & Dating

the so called bad boys?
that women dont like nice guys?
see, like that solange charatcer in the new james bond movie,
she said nice guys are dull,
but when women get hurt by the bad guys, then they complain where are the good guys?
we're all over the place, but women cant notice us, why?

2006-12-09 07:57:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have never met my in-laws as they live in a different country. I would like to send them a simple gift for Christmas, but my husband is giving me a hard time about it by saying "Why? They're not going to send you anything". Despite that I would like to. Any suggestions?

2006-12-09 07:57:03 · 6 answers · asked by Akyaas 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont know whether she wants to be my girlfriend, or whether she is just being friendly. I'm sure she doesn't say that to any other boy, she tells me quite often she loves me. And the main problem is that I don't want to be her girlfriend.

Does anyone have any ideas if she is trying to say something, or what I should do?

2006-12-09 07:56:28 · 14 answers · asked by Bob Dower 2 in Friends

2006-12-09 07:56:27 · 27 answers · asked by neutral 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-09 07:55:56 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a senior in high school and have known these people for a while and am friendly with them but not very close and I want to integrate myself into their group. I started buying presents for their birthdays and Christmas coming up, do you think sitting at lunch with them would help? The thing is I'm really shy and i know they like me because Im nice to them but I don't talk much and I don't know if that will keep them from ever getting invited to do things with them. Like is it ok just to ask? About the gifts I don;t really mean it to buy their friendship (some people said that) just to help a little. besides I like getting gifts for people it makes me feel good. and I want them to know that I like them because sometimes I come off as unfriendly I think because I'm shy.

2006-12-09 07:55:14 · 4 answers · asked by leena 4 in Friends