I've seen a lot of hot girls dressed in this low dress, tons of make up and look absoulutely stunning.... But they just dosen't seem to turn me on.
I feel so left out why my guy friends start making remarks about how sexy they are and when I have no comments and maybe a slight distaste for girls like them, I come off as weird...
I like pretty girls who dosen't show so much skin or try to draw attention to themselves.... but those kind of girls are quite rare nowadays. And if I really like someone like that, I'm not the type that makes some comments about her as if she is a horse on display.
So, should I stay silent when my guy friends makes comments about another sexy girl, or should I just make some random remarks just to fit in?
Its just I don't want to come off as weird and at the same time, I want to still keep my own individuality.
2006-12-09 08:07:49 · 10 answers · asked by wraithrune 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First and always be true to yourself. Never compromise what you know in your heart is right just to fit in. It is far better to not comment at all than make some lame comment that could come back to haunt you. Example: You make a comment on a girl you would not normally make a comment about. Your firends try to set you up with her. It could happen.
Guys like to talk about girls just as they do about us. But we all see beauty in different ways. For most guys the make-up works. It enhances their looks on a superficial level and for some guys that is all it takes.
You however see true beauty. You see it where it truly exists and are not fooled by the makeup.
Remember this. You are not responsible for what any of those guys think. Only for what you think. If the occasion should come up where you are ask why a girl does not look hot tell them. Just like you see it. If you speak the truth how could they possible think your weired?
2006-12-09 08:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am the same way in some aspects.....I dont think you should make remarks simply because you want to try to fit in. Continue being yourself. I assure you, the females who arent dressing that way will definitely respect you, even the ones who ARE dressing like that. Only diference is, they will also think something is wrong with you, why? Well my friend, thats society for you. Nowadays, more women and men alike, are sex crazed!!!! You have some who think that by dressing a certain way is the only way to get a guys attention, while this is true for the vast majority, it is also disrespectful....
As I said, maintain your dignity and sooner or later, a well respectable female will notice you, why, because you are standing out from the crowd......Everyone else will be making sexist comments about a female while you are there quiet (yea you're checking her out too but you are being more of a man by not making sexist comments)....Lady will find it attractive
2006-12-09 08:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you have a healthy respect for women. Unfortunately i agree with you. These days most women just as most men are skanks and only care about sex and themselves. Ill tell u this though, if you do find a woman like u described u will experience more happiness and joy then all of them combined. If you do find her ask her if she has an older sister for me lol
2006-12-09 08:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by virgin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So,what your saying is, your embarrased by not acting like a sex crazed barbarian?Hmmmm... Some girls dress that way cuz it expresses who they are, not sex objects! So don't feel left out when they act like idiots! A girl, some day, will appreciate your sensitivity and respect for women!Besides your a very great guy who respects women, I would TOTALLY date you!
2006-12-09 08:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it would be more wierd if you walk down the street saying, Wow you look good, or w/e to every girl you see! Not every girl can turn on every man! That or you may be gay!
Willy
2006-12-09 08:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They look fine to me...a toned and not over done six pack. Very sveet and sexy in my opinion, keep up the good work.
2016-05-22 23:27:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have class and that is rare these days. My advice, stay true to yourself. It will pay off big!
2006-12-09 08:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by Rx 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no u're not weird,, i'd rather like guys like u. different people have different taste.. to me,, those sexy gurls,, they're probably bitches.
2006-12-09 08:14:22 · answer #8 · answered by iwuvsu_jc 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do ittt.
2006-12-09 08:12:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cough*f a g*cough
2006-12-09 08:11:30 · answer #10 · answered by Poster22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋