Family & Relationships - 9 December 2006

For me, it is definately "Does (he/she) like me?"

How the **** would I know what they are thinking? I tell you what--for $50, I will not only tell you if they like you, but I will also throw in a reading of your future, free of charge. Now where did I put that magic 8 ball.....

So what question really makes you irritated more than any others?

2006-12-09 23:26:34 · 14 answers · asked by Poster22 2 in Singles & Dating

I met my married man 2 years ago when I was married. I ended up getting divorced and he has continued to play games. His wife found out and we both allowed him to go back and forth between us. He went home and cut off all contact for a month. We started up again and she found out 4 months later. She ended up kicking him out and he signed a lease on an apartment.

I actually did leave the situation and moved home. The first time he said he missed me, I ended up moving in with him. Now, he has his wife convinced that I am still at home and they are trying to work on their marriage.

The only problem is, that I am living with him and she has no idea. He does spend the night with her sometimes, and they have bad days as well.

If he really wanted to work things out with her, why hasn't he kicked me out? And if I really want him, why haven't I told her I'm here? If I know he wants to go home, and this is wrong, why can't I leave?

2006-12-09 23:24:17 · 23 answers · asked by torn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my girl friend stop likin each other a while ago but we still stay together and i like her best friend and she like me should i dump my girlfriend for her PLZ HELP

2006-12-09 23:23:01 · 9 answers · asked by guys i 1 in Singles & Dating

like to wonder around and cheat on you with other chicks?

2006-12-09 23:21:47 · 24 answers · asked by purple_lady 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my girlfriend and want to be with her, but her mom is such a royal B****! Her mom controls everything her and her sister's do. She makes them clean, cook, teach her classes (her mom runs her own tutoring business) and even makes her take days off of her own job to teach her mother's classes because her mom decided to go out and find another job somewhere.

When we first started dating about a year ago her mother wanted her to break up with me and badmouthed me and my family in front of her. Even though she's never met my parents and rarely talked to me. Now I get the feeling she's trying to establish the same type of control over me as she has on her daughters. She's asked me on occasion to drive all the way over to her house and talk to her, told her daughter that a woman should always have control over her man, and asked me today to go out on a saturday to help in one of her classes.

Should I stand my ground and refuse? I don't want her thinking she can control me.

2006-12-09 23:20:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but i am taking the wife with me as she aint a bad old girl and she deserves a break.

Should we take the kids (20 17 and 14 year olds) or just order them a pizza takeaway?

2006-12-09 23:19:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i ask because my ex shagged my best mate and when i found out, i wouldn't sleep with her so she poured lighter fluid on my privates while i was asleep and then tried to light them on fire. luckily i woke up cause the lighter fluid was cold and it shocked me awake.

2006-12-09 23:18:19 · 10 answers · asked by god 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had this girl that tried to kiss me when I was 22 yrs old. She was as perfect a girl as I had ever met. I unfortunately had to reject her because my fiancee was pregnant at the time. My Finacee and I got married about a month before the baby was due(I didn't want t make her an unwed mother of my child) When the baby was born he was MEXICAN. And we are both white. And I mean the dark and obvious mexican. God I wish I hadn't been so faithful. Do you have a similar story?

2006-12-09 23:17:48 · 6 answers · asked by Red Winged Bandit 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My bestfriend...

he left me all of a sudden in our classroom...

(I was in a bad mood actually..I needed someone to be with...)

So I approached him angrily saying "You didn't told me you are leaving...I was alone back there"

he told me

"We can't be too close to each other...You shouldn't be mad when I left you earlier...We should give each other boundaries too......We should not be together all the time or be there for back-up...I am not ready to be attached to someone right now...I am not ready to give the attention as much as you do...Atleast, not for the moment...Don't be so into me...One day you'll be disappointed so I'm telling you this earlier...You now me, I easily tire of a person"

HELP!!! It hurts me so bad...T_T So bad I've been cryin all day...

He didn't even know how much I love him...T_T (I'm starting to fall for him...badly...)

I don't want our friendship to end....he told me once "I can't afford to lose you" WHy does it feel like he wants to lose me now? T_T

2006-12-09 23:17:45 · 17 answers · asked by acerbus18 1 in Friends

How can I tell that this chick I like is into me as well. Whenever I start staring at her, she stares at me until either one turns away. Shes always is within 30 ft of me, but she runs away when we walk too close.

2006-12-09 23:15:35 · 7 answers · asked by Dylan J 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 23:15:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have been reading stories of affairs and they have the same themes. Usually, a man in an affair will tell his mistress that he wants a divorce. He will also tell his wife that he wants one, and tell his family that he is leaving. In the end, the man stays in the marriage. Why would he put his family through such agony by saying that he wants a divorce if he really doesn't?

2006-12-09 23:14:57 · 6 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-09 23:14:03 · 16 answers · asked by vikas 007 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love her so much "SO MUCH". She used to say she loved me too. Recently she left me, blaming me for all the PROFESSIONAL failures in her life. I just loved her, asked her to marry me. She agreed, but her parents didn't. I always encouraged her, loved her, cared for her, but she blames me that i distracted her form her profession (she's a doctor) by dragging her into the LOVE THING she was never into. She told me not to contact her or call her and just get out of her life as i never existed and let her live a normal life. What abnormality did i bring to her by just loving her. I never touched her, never said anything that could hurt her. Why did she blame me then for all the ills of her life? Was my loving her, a curse for her? Should i do just as she said and forget her? I don't know whether she loved me or not, but i know how passionately I LOVED HER. Plz tell me how i can forget her? Her memories haunt me. But why should i pursue her if she thinks my love just brought her bad luck?

2006-12-09 23:13:54 · 8 answers · asked by Dr. Sam 3 in Marriage & Divorce

hi.im 22 from iran.my friend`s gf fall in love me she`ve told me.but i`m really mixed up.i don`t know what should i do.some one help me.

2006-12-09 23:11:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I like this chick and I started flirting with her. I followed her around, and she knew and kept walking. I need more ideas like poems or whatever that lets her know that I like her and care about her. And, I need some good ideas fast

2006-12-09 23:10:54 · 3 answers · asked by Dylan J 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 23:10:45 · 27 answers · asked by YabbaJabba 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

what is this supposed to mean, is he too shy or does he not want to talk to me? or like what the hell is going on?

okay, so he doesnt have a phone, but he can use his mom's cell, and one of my other friends was hanging out with him and offered to let him use his phone to call me and he said no????

(we're both in high school)

what the hell does this mean>? and what should i do about it?

2006-12-09 23:09:32 · 15 answers · asked by Stacie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 23:08:14 · 4 answers · asked by tony 1 in Friends

I seem to have everything i ever wanted...

My family..
My friends..
and people who cares and loves me...

what's been missing?

2006-12-09 23:06:08 · 27 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

and don't say a farm, i not into those kinda chicks

2006-12-09 23:05:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

right now, it just really sucks.

2006-12-09 23:05:16 · 5 answers · asked by Mr. McClean 3 in Singles & Dating

ma gud frnd (a guy) told me dat he is 'interested' in me. earlier he said he wants a girl who is beautiful, thin, wiz a gud voice. i dont fit d bill for the 1st two qualities. is he tellin da truth? 'coz i stil cant bliv he said it 2 me...

2006-12-09 23:02:16 · 18 answers · asked by Rania 3 in Singles & Dating

A country boy has fallen in love with a city girl who is his classmate in college.They are different in terms of econimic background;the girl was born in a rich family,the boy was born in a relatively poor family.And as you can imagine the surroundings in which both were brought up ,was respectively different.
Lets go on with the story.One day,the boy told the girl his all good feelings on her;however the girl didn't respond with an expected feedback,saying let's be friends.The boy was disappointed and didn't ask for futher reasons why she refused.
Days after,the boy encourged himself to invite the girl for dinner,and she agreed.They had happy talks at table,the girl was happy,very enjoyable,so was the boy.Up till now,they had several dinners together and couples of walks in the cold winter.And the relationship between them seems get somewhere,more than just classmates.So where is it going to develop to?The boy has no idea.
To promote this relationship,what should the boy be doing?

2006-12-09 23:01:13 · 13 answers · asked by Gone Car 1 in Singles & Dating

She also has all the housework to do .

So should i sneek off to the pub and come home to a hot dinner waiting for me or stay in and help the old girl out??

2006-12-09 23:01:11 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

A country boy has fallen in love with a city girl who is his classmate in college.They are different in terms of econimic background;the girl was born in a rich family,the boy was born in a relatively poor family.And as you can imagine the surroundings in which both were brought up ,was respectively different.
Lets go on with the story.One day,the boy told the girl his all good feelings on her;however the girl didn't respond with an expected feedback,saying let's be friends.The boy was disappointed and didn't ask for futher reasons why she refused.
Days after,the boy encourged himself to invite the girl for dinner,and she agreed.They had happy talks at table,the girl was happy,very enjoyable,so was the boy.Up till now,they had several dinners together and couples of walks in the cold winter.And the relationship between them seems get somewhere,more than just classmates.So where is it going to develop to?The boy has no idea.
To promote this relationship,what should the boy be doing?

2006-12-09 23:00:45 · 7 answers · asked by Gone Car 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 22:59:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After 3 years and marriage plans, I found out my ex was cheating on me for our entire relationship. I called her and she knew all about me but he had given her the impression that our relationship was nothing serious. To name just a few of the things I found out, he had given me a present she had given him, he practically lived with her only keeping up appearances in his apartment when I came over and been on holidays with her. He told her I was a lying, that he felt sorry for me, then sent me a text saying not to contact him anymore and that his life was with her. She took him back and I was absolutely destroyed. However, ever since the beginning of 2006, he has been texting and calling me saying how sorry he is, how much he misses and still loves me. I have texted back saying that I did not feel the same, some things that are broken can never be mended and that he didn’t know what love was to do such a thing. I have never spoken to him and he is still with the other woman. I have not healed after all this time and tears still fall thinking of the depths of his betrayal. Why is he really calling? Is it worth hearing him out? Or is he simply bored in his current relationship?

2006-12-09 22:59:08 · 7 answers · asked by Mesh 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i find that there are more super hot white girls in this world then the rest latino would be 2nd asian 3rd and black would be 4th

2006-12-09 22:58:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had a dream that i found a wedding dress in the toilet and then i went to a garage on this old road. there was just a bed in it and the same wedding dress was there again, anyone know what this means, its been bugging me!

2006-12-09 22:56:22 · 3 answers · asked by emma r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships