Family & Relationships - 9 December 2006

I live out side of Bristol in a village Nr Cheddar am a single mum and after a long term relationship finished nearly a year ago i am looking to get out and about again. i did join Match .com one month ago but havent met anyone i would really like to go and have coffee with yet!! When my relationship ended a lot of mutual friends driffted away so i need to start again.

2006-12-09 20:36:00 · 6 answers · asked by kate c 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been without a vehicle for the past 2 1/2 years. We are a military family. We do live on the base, and we live within walking distance of anything that we need to survive. I am tired of walking every where and having limited choices, I'm tired of being stuck on base all the time, and I'm tired of being a burden to my friends that keep offering help but I just don't want to abuse it. I'm also tired of waiting on taxies, and there also very expensive here. It's also very hard to carry back home lots of grocerys...but we are a family of 2 and don't require a lot of grocerys. At this particular time I can't drive a vehicle..but he has the ability to drive. Recently after 2 years and 1/2 he confessed he was terrified of driving so that is why he hasn't gotten around to buying a vehicle..which I'm upset about. I have tried very hard to get him to buy a vehicle..finances are not a problem we are decently well off.... Am I wrong or is he?

2006-12-09 20:35:25 · 16 answers · asked by LuLu 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was talking to this girl and we were quite close. I noticed that she was shaking. Does this mean she was horny?

2006-12-09 20:34:18 · 16 answers · asked by Tim 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 21, my ex and I have been broken up for 6 months now because we use to fight alot but it was over stupid immature stuff. I thought I was gonna end up marrying her and for 3 months when we were together that bothered me cause I lost my virginity to her and I thought I would never get the chance to "see what it was like with other people." She had three partners before me and that never bothered me but I had people telling me it was important to have other lovers before you get married, I bought into it so much and I still do thats why were not together..I love her and ive missed her so much, these last past 6 months have been dreadful, she wants to get back together now but I'm afraid if I do I will still want to be with other people, its not what I want to be with other people but im afraid if I dont get out and "experiment" I may regret it later..When I go out I love the thought of being single but I still miss her..I feel like im in a lose lose situation. any help here?

2006-12-09 20:33:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

this boy used to love me and kiss me and give me hugs but now he swears and hates me
What do ya think i should do
im really worried!!

2006-12-09 20:33:06 · 16 answers · asked by cherry 2 in Singles & Dating

should i let my loved one know that i love him?? why or why not?

2006-12-09 20:32:38 · 4 answers · asked by mumble 1 in Singles & Dating

cute or not, what do u think and suggestions?


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2006-12-09 20:31:57 · 17 answers · asked by Nathan 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 20:31:24 · 6 answers · asked by Nikki 4 in Singles & Dating

I live very modestly. A bit on the high end of middle class would be a good description. I've been dating someone nearly four months. A wonderful person with a wonderful family. I believe our relationship is about to become sexual, probably leading to being permanent. (I really enjoy having her around a lot.)

My problem is that I don't know how, or when, to tell her that my net worth isn't exactly middle class. That it's more like in the eight figures range. I've never been in the position where I needed to explain it to anyone. I really can't figure out when is the right time or what is the right way to tell her about it.

If you were a person in "her" position. When do you feel it would be the right time in the relatiionship to tell you? I think we're past the "too soon" part, she'll know I'm not trying to impress her. But I also think there's a "should have told her before this place" line too. I just can't figure out where it is. I appreciate your suggestions.

2006-12-09 20:31:17 · 10 answers · asked by Will 1 in Singles & Dating

IM 26 HE'S 20 I FEEL LIKE IM SETTING HIM UP TO GET HURT EVEN THOUGH I FEEL THE SAME WE JUST MET BUT WE HIT IT OFF AND BEEN TALKING LIKE 3 DAYS STRAIGHT BARELY SLEPT.....IM CONFUSED I DIDNT THINK ONLINE LOVE WAS REAL....IS IT EVEN POSSIBLE......AM I SLEEP DEPRIVED AND CRAZY........ I JUST FEEL SO I WANT HIM I FEEL LIKE I NEED HIM....

2006-12-09 20:29:54 · 11 answers · asked by SEXY N 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 20:29:44 · 10 answers · asked by k2u 1 in Singles & Dating

i havent had mine and im 11 but me and my bf keep saying were gonna kiss eachother at the next dance but he always gets too nervous

2006-12-09 20:27:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 20:27:07 · 10 answers · asked by W A S I F 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you think it's fair for a woman to take half of the dad's paycheck for childsupport? He isn't a deadbeat dad. He doesn't owe back support or anything like that. Her and her husband both have great jobs. But with all the money they take out of the father's check he can't afford to pay his rent or he can't even pay for food. She is planning on taking him back to court for even more money. Do you think this is fair?

2006-12-09 20:25:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi! Hope someone can calm me down :) I'm 26, I don't think I ever want children and even though I have been married before I just seem to leave when the subject of children comes up. Due to the old saying "Women will want children eventually." The men whom married me assumed that even though I did say I NEVER want children they thought .. maybe she will change. I didn't change and now wondering am I abnormal, are there men who don't want children? Am I selfish to want to discover the world, create my business, enjoy being just friends with people? Will I end up alone, old and with many cats? I'm not fond of living with cats either! LOL! I love other people's children I just don't want any myself. Being an aunt is fun however again I see the responsibility and sacrifice involved with parenting it does seem to me that the women looses out more than the man in having children. To me it doesn't seem worth it and I'm left wondering is this realy normal, why can't I just change?

2006-12-09 20:24:49 · 21 answers · asked by valley_storm 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-09 20:24:46 · 9 answers · asked by bobby.k 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 20:24:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 20:23:50 · 16 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am messing around w/ this guy who has a gf. We have been messing around even before he met her but there is a lot of sexual chemistry between us. We've never had sex (everything but) until up about a week ago and I see him often and get very sexually aroused when I'm around him. Tonight, some how or another, there were a bunch of people in his house and they ended up leaving, leaving me and him alone in the livingroom. He still wants me and he knows I want him and he pulls out his penis and begins to masturbate and wanted to fool around! I was shocked bc his gf was sleeping in the next roomand I don't want her to know. Luckliy one of his dudes came over and he put in away real quick but he was totally expecting us to mess around! After we had sex he acted all ackward and scared bc he's paranoid about his gf and **** now he's trying to do in his in own apartment w/ her there!

2006-12-09 20:23:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have had feelings for my best friend for over 2 and a half years and i never had the strenght to tell her unitl the end of my senior year in high school. we shared everything together and when i finally told her that i was in love with her, she acted weird towards me...that was my senior year, and im a freshman in college now and she talks to me again and i still feel the exact same way about her. one of my friends told me that you cant love someone without dating them first and i dont believe that...is she right?

2006-12-09 20:23:10 · 5 answers · asked by Jake 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 20:23:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-12-09 20:20:06 · 15 answers · asked by k2u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you need a date for your company's holiday party, would it be OK to ask a friend's wife to accompany you to the party?

2006-12-09 20:19:23 · 21 answers · asked by introversive_guy 3 in Singles & Dating

We lost touch when he was in a relationship with a controlling woman and i just backed of ,then i moved and lost his phone number soon after. anyway, my son has cancer and it would be nice to have an old and dear friend to talk with if he can be found for free so much the better as all my income goes to medical bills for my son.

2006-12-09 20:19:08 · 3 answers · asked by sherzada8 4 in Friends

2006-12-09 20:18:58 · 16 answers · asked by bobby.k 1 in Singles & Dating

I found out she doesn't like me. She had been leading me on for a while. She likes my best friend. What should I do?

2006-12-09 20:18:56 · 2 answers · asked by hello, is there anybody in there 1 in Singles & Dating

I have fallen head over heals in love with a woman who is married and has children. She is the first thing I think about when I wake up in the morning and the last thing on my mind as I drift off to sleep at night. We talk on the phone almost every day. Right now, it is nothing more than an emotional affair, but I want to truly be with her. What do I do?

2006-12-09 20:17:44 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey everyone! What is a good wedding song for the first dance? My fiance is 8 years older than I am, and he doesn't listen to much of the new stuff.... so I would like to encourporate the old and new together....thanks for the help!!! :)

2006-12-09 20:16:51 · 20 answers · asked by amers_8504 1 in Weddings

im 26 years old, some college education, average looks fairly intelligent im a waiter and make ok money, like 20.00/hour and im not in school right now,im very responsible/w goals and mature but for some reason i just seem to think women only want men that have everything figured out and that i wont find a women until ive got the perfect job and a large income.

I have a hard time believing i have a chance with anyone because of this but all i want to do is find a cool girl to hang with and go to movies, dinner, shopping without the stress of being some know it all, baller.

And this is why it is so hard for me to appproach women.

i need to get over this somehow, or is this the reality?for a 26 year old man.

2006-12-09 20:16:30 · 4 answers · asked by autonomous1980 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my partner are apart at the moment he is living down south, we were together 7 years, have a four year old daughter. The relationship hasent been plain sailing, i havent heard from him in 5 days now (not like him) i have texted him and asked him if he wants to end it, then he should tell me, i cant move on until i hear him say the words "it is over" why dosent he just tell me???

2006-12-09 20:15:44 · 22 answers · asked by ann_jacques 2 in Other - Family & Relationships