im 26 years old, some college education, average looks fairly intelligent im a waiter and make ok money, like 20.00/hour and im not in school right now,im very responsible/w goals and mature but for some reason i just seem to think women only want men that have everything figured out and that i wont find a women until ive got the perfect job and a large income.
I have a hard time believing i have a chance with anyone because of this but all i want to do is find a cool girl to hang with and go to movies, dinner, shopping without the stress of being some know it all, baller.
And this is why it is so hard for me to appproach women.
i need to get over this somehow, or is this the reality?for a 26 year old man.
2006-12-09 20:16:30 · 4 answers · asked by autonomous1980 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all women are that shallow. What kind of woman do you aim for now? Perhaps your "type" isn't the right type for you. If you're intelligent, a good conversationalist, and an even better listener, you should have no problem finding someone to spend time with.
Seriously, the women who only want "ballers," are not the kind of women who would appreciate the kind of man you claim to be.
2006-12-09 20:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by ms dont panic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to start being confident and start approaching girls.
Go to some classes to get ur confident level up. You may have great goals and future firgured, but you must know to present urself to a girl.
Not all girls go for money, there are many that i know looking for a good man just good heart.
I think maybe the problem is jsut yourself, you need to start believing in yourself so they can actually believe that you can take care of the girl. It is still possible, trust me u are still young,,,,many things to come, first be confident because everyone you gonna meet are just simple human being.
Good Luck
2006-12-10 04:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anne H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of your major problems is you are asking this very question, you are basically saying I have no confidence and girls don't like me. At least that is what you are saying in your head to yourself. The trick to dating is that girls don't know what they want, so you have to go tell them that you are it, you are the thing they want.
2006-12-10 04:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by big_a57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident, sweetheart. Your time will come!
2006-12-10 04:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by »-(¯`v´¯)--»CHELSEA«- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋