this boy used to love me and kiss me and give me hugs but now he swears and hates me
What do ya think i should do
im really worried!!
2006-12-09 20:33:06 · 16 answers · asked by cherry 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignore the idiot.
2006-12-09 20:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you still in a relationship with this guy if you are i hate to say it but he is most likely cheating on you and is either guilty or wants to be with the other women but doesn't know how to tell you and doesn't want to hurt you i can say this because what you are saying happened to me and i found out a couple of months after he changed . what is your womens intuition telling you if it's telling you that he is cheating than 9 times out of ten he is... don't ignore what your intuition is telling you because we as women do that a lot of times because we don't want it to be true but i would rather you know before you have a girl calling you telling you she has been with your man or hear it from someone on the street . he as a man should not be disrespecting you he is trying to probable make you leave him so he won't get caught if he did cheat on you .one thing i want you to know their is nothing about you that is wrong it is something about him that is wrong. he needs to stop putting you down and you even though you might love him have to gain some strength and respect for yourself to not allow any man (or any one ) to every disrespect you like that. and you need to let him know that now because if you don't nip it in the butt now he will always feel he can disrespect you and the maybe start hitting you because you allow him to and tell him if he can't respect you then he needs to find himself another women and you don't need to worry he does because he probable will never find someone as good as you and he will get his in return believe me .
2006-12-09 20:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by ebeyes23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what the problem is...I know this is a hard thing to do but if you really wanna know..do it...
If he tells you what's happening...then you would ask if there is still a chance for you to have a good relationship..if not, then it is the time for you to go and look for somebody else, you deserve better
2006-12-09 20:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by Iggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex did the same thing, but after i ignored him for two weeks and then called him, he said sorry for beign a prick and we're really good friends! dont be worried, just give it some time
2006-12-09 20:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by miniskirtmandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. if he 180'd on you like this. he never knew what he wanted. and if he knew you well enough to think he once loved you, he never knew what he really wanted in life. you'll be better off with someone who REALLY loves you and treats you as you deserve to be treated. don't let this immature indecisive guy bother you. there's PLENTY of other guys out there.
2006-12-09 20:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by theonlytrueincubusfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him why he is being so hurtful and what has changed, if he is still abusive i would try to move on and think positive. If he will not talk he is not worthy of your affection.
2006-12-09 20:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by kate c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him...
Tell him to Grow Up!
And don't worry!!!! Life's to short for people like that! :o)
2006-12-09 20:40:00 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him beofre it gets too late.
soon he will be hitting you and allsorts
ive got a friend that left it too late and now hes trying to kill her and shes in police protection from him.
dont let him say sorry and hes back in your life. he will do it again and again
2006-12-09 20:37:17 · answer #8 · answered by steph_wright48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people change, hate to say it but move on you dont need some like that in your life
2006-12-09 20:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by Greeny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some prat has told him that you have to 'treat them mean to keep them keen!'
do not go down to his level you are better than that
walk with your head held high.
hopefully time will show him what a plonker he is being.
2006-12-09 20:42:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignor him and move on dont think about him u will get so tired and dont trust him
2006-12-09 20:36:17 · answer #11 · answered by ****MIRO**** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋