me and my partner are apart at the moment he is living down south, we were together 7 years, have a four year old daughter. The relationship hasent been plain sailing, i havent heard from him in 5 days now (not like him) i have texted him and asked him if he wants to end it, then he should tell me, i cant move on until i hear him say the words "it is over" why dosent he just tell me???
2006-12-09 20:15:44 · 22 answers · asked by ann_jacques 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dump him and move on
2006-12-09 20:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by Useless 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are cowards... some are though. Why don't you resolve the situation..... text him and tell him it's all over. If he is a coward, it will solve his conscience problem, and probably make him realise what a wimp he is. If he doesn't want to finish .. he'll be contacting you very quickly.... either way... you'll get your life back and can move on.
2006-12-09 20:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by Boring Old Fart 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
WHY ARE MEN COWARDS?
Probably for the very same reason that Women are...
Check out " CHEFZILLA's " answer for an unbiased response, rather than hooking onto a "Women hate Men" point of view.
2006-12-09 21:11:47 · answer #3 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't have the courage to say it..like you said, he's a "coward". My suggestion to you is don't wait for him to tell you, "it's over". Just end it yourself. Sometimes it is less painful when you end a relationship without any words spoken. Good luck and best wishes...
2006-12-09 20:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by * TeXaS cHiCk * 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because they are selfish and like you say cowards but you have answered your question move on you don't need to hear something that is obvious Be a strong woman as you are and find a real man.
2006-12-09 20:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
excuse me but my wife told me she loved me every day for ten years then up and left she couldnt tell me it was because someone else was on the seen not just men cowards is it dont tar every one with the same brush 3 months on and i hurt like hell get rid sweetheart it aint worth it
2006-12-09 20:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by rabbit18 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men are men, boats are boats,,,why are you letting him call the shots here? Sounds like he knows he's in control so why not keep you dangling? Try something new, get a backbone and walk away...when he calls don't answer.
2006-12-09 20:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by patti duke 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
BOTH of you are being cowardly right now. Get on a bus, a train. get there and see him. Ask him face to face ! TEXT ??! bloody TEXT ??! thats no way to conclude a 7 year relationship !
2006-12-09 20:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Man!
your a paranoid one aren't you.
maybe he's working and hasnt had the chance to call or maybe he's in trouble.
why do women right away think a man is cheating or wants to dump her because of reasons like this?
EDIT:
To all you man bashers....
She never said he was thinking of leaving her and then never called....he just hasn't called in 5 days...and hasn't answered his text messages...your all telling her to dump him when the poor guy is probably dead on the side of the road somewhere.
2006-12-09 20:19:58 · answer #9 · answered by chefzilla65 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
you should not judge all men from your own experiences
your experience can be your guide to understand the diff.
but is defientely not the parameter to judge all men if the things what you have on your mind was the complete truth then the asian countries and thier cultures would not have been into exsistance.
2006-12-09 20:19:44 · answer #10 · answered by ashishmulye 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
He sucks for not being straight up with you...but, with this stupid behavior of his, WHY do you actually need to hear him say that it's over, his actions say it loud and clear! Move on.
2006-12-09 20:18:42 · answer #11 · answered by Kerry 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋